Category: Writing Happenings

Empowering Teens: Mental Health, Journaling & Self-Expression

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In today’s fast-paced world, it’s more important than ever to support teens in navigating their mental health. But finding ways to connect with and empower young people can be challenging. That’s why in our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we’re thrilled to host Emani Owens, a passionate advocate for teen mental wellness. Emani has dedicated her life to creating safe spaces where teens feel heard, respected, and encouraged to express themselves.

Emani’s journey began with a simple yet powerful vision: to foster a community that values mental health support for teens. She’s now the founder of Owens Teen Empowerment, where she hosts seminars and online events to help teens openly discuss their challenges, build self-confidence, and discover healthy outlets for self-expression.

During our talk, Emani shared impactful insights about the pressures teens face today—from the allure and pitfalls of social media to the importance of self-expression through tools like journaling. Her unique perspective highlights the struggles teens encounter as they build their identities in an often overwhelming world.

And as the holiday season approaches, Emani is preparing for a special December event designed to bring teens and parents together in a safe space for open communication and healing. Whether you’re a teen, a parent, or simply someone interested in making a positive impact, this episode is a must-listen.

Emani Owens, an educational teacher, business owner, and the inspiring founder of Owens Teen Empowerment. Imani is dedicated to empowering young teens to excel academically, emotionally, and socially. Through her work, she provides guidance on communication, healing, and growth, and encourages teens to embrace learning as a pathway to a brighter future for themselves and their families. Connect with Emani on Facebook and Instagram

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Tune in for an inspiring conversation that sheds light on how we can all help the next generation thrive!

Listen to the full episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, available now on your favorite podcast platforms. And don’t forget to check out the show notes for more information on Imani’s upcoming event and ways you can get involved.

STOP Letting Seasonal Affective Disorder Control Your Life!

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As the days grow shorter and colder, many of us start to feel the subtle shift in our moods. But for some, these winter blues are more than just a passing phase – they’re a real struggle. In this eye-opening episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we’re joined by licensed professional counselor Alexandra Mays from Mindful Steps, who sheds light on Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and the toll it can take on mental well-being.

From explaining how SAD differs from general depression to sharing everyday strategies for managing symptoms, Alexandra offers a compassionate and informative perspective on living through seasonal changes. Whether it’s the impact of reduced sunlight on our “happiness chemical” or how our sleep patterns shift in the colder months, Alexandra breaks down the science behind SAD in a way that’s both accessible and deeply relatable.

Are there ways to prevent SAD? How can we support loved ones going through this seasonal struggle? And what small, meaningful changes can we make to nurture our mental health as we enter the winter season? Get ready to discover answers to these questions and more. This conversation is packed with insights and practical advice that will leave you better prepared to thrive all year round.

Alexandra Mayes is a Licensed Therapist and a Clinical Director of several different clinics that focus on recovery for those struggling with addiction. She has been in the mental health field for over ten years now and has worked with children, teens, and adults. In 2021 she decided to open Mindful Steps with her husband. Mindful Steps is a group practice to expand her reach of care. In addition to receiving her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Tennessee State University, she also received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from there as well. She is a business owner, mental health advocate, wife, and mother of two daughters.

To contact Alexandra:

Tiktok, Facebook Mindful Steps Instagram Alex Instagram

 Mindful Steps Upcoming Events

  • Winter Blues: Grief and Loss Over the Holidays (11/20/2024) 
  • Mindful Steps: Healthy goals for the New Year. (01/08/2025) 
  • Mindful Steps for Mindful Care: 5k race to raise funds for our non-profit to provide free and/or reduced rates for webinars, conferences, workshops, and wellness programs for marginalized communities.  (05/26/2025) 
  • Mindful Care Wellness Program: an 8-week program to address emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, social, and vocational forms of self-care through a combination of Zoom, and in-personal workshops for psychoeducation.  The program will include mindfulness art sessions, yoga, financial advisors, breath work, health/fitness, nutrition, and mental health guest speakers throughout the eight weeks.  (05/31/2025 -07/23/2025)

Tune in now for a conversation that promises to warm up even the coldest of winter days.

Overcoming the Trap of Comparison: Finding Self-Worth in a Social Media World

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In today’s hyper-connected world, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of comparison. Social media feeds are filled with curated lives, impressive achievements, and seemingly perfect moments. It’s natural to feel like we’re falling short when we see others shining. However, it’s crucial to remember that comparing ourselves to others can undermine our self-worth and distort our perception of success.

“For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” — Galatians 1:10

The Illusion of Comparison

When we compare ourselves to others, we often focus on their highlight reels while overlooking our own progress and achievements. Everyone has their struggles, insecurities, and setbacks—things that are rarely shared in public forums. It’s essential to recognize that behind every seemingly perfect photo or achievement, there’s a unique story filled with challenges and growth.

“Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load.” — Galatians 6:4-5

Understanding Your Value

Each person has their own path, shaped by individual experiences, strengths, and passions. Instead of measuring your worth against someone else’s success, take time to reflect on your journey. Acknowledge your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem. Celebrating your milestones can foster a sense of fulfillment and help you appreciate your unique contributions to the world.

“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” — Ephesians 2:10

Shifting Your Mindset

When you recognize your inherent value, you can begin to cultivate a healthier mindset. Here are some strategies to help you shift your focus:

  1. Practice Gratitude: Regularly remind yourself of what you’re thankful for in your life. This can help shift your focus from what others have to the abundance in your own life. “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18
  2. Set Personal Goals: Define success on your own terms. Set goals that resonate with your values and aspirations rather than those imposed by societal standards. “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” — Proverbs 16:3
  3. Limit Social Media Exposure: Consider curating your social media feeds to follow accounts that inspire and uplift you. Unfollow those that trigger feelings of inadequacy. “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23
  4. Cultivate Self-Compassion: Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a friend. Acknowledge your struggles without judgment. “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:32
  5. Engage in Self-Reflection: Spend time contemplating your strengths and areas for growth. Journaling can be an effective tool to track your progress and remind yourself of your journey. “Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves.” — 2 Corinthians 13:5

You Are Enough

Remember, you are better than you think you are. Your worth is inherent, not defined by comparison. Embracing your individuality allows you to cultivate confidence and authenticity. When you stop comparing yourself to others, you open the door to self-acceptance and a richer, more fulfilling life. “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” — Psalm 139:14

Ultimately, the journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance is ongoing. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself, not a copy of someone else. Celebrate your uniqueness, for that is where your true strength lies. You have a remarkable journey ahead, and it’s entirely yours to embrace.

Unlock the Secrets to Healing from Grief with Carolyn J. Murphy!

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Are you struggling to move forward after loss, or perhaps supporting someone who is? You won’t want to miss this powerful episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse! This week, hosts Naty and Veda sit down with Carolyn J. Murphy—author, coach, and certified peer recovery specialist—who knows the depths of grief and the heights of healing.

In this episode, Carolyn shares her personal journey of loss, anger, and eventual transformation. Known as the “Mindshift Coach,” she reveals how shifting your mindset can be the key to unlocking emotional freedom. With profound insights from her book God, Why Did You Save Me?, Carolyn offers practical steps for those feeling stuck in grief and searching for a way out.

Whether you’re looking for tips on how to cope with grief, curious about how faith can carry you through dark times, or simply need some encouragement, this conversation will open your eyes to the possibility of healing. Carolyn reminds us that grief isn’t just about death—it’s about any kind of loss. And more importantly, it’s about finding purpose again.

Get ready for an episode filled with honesty, compassion, and wisdom. Carolyn’s message of hope is exactly what we all need to hear.

Highlights You Won’t Want to Miss:

  • How Carolyn learned to manage her grief after years of wearing a “mask.”
  • Why the first step to healing is giving yourself permission to grieve.
  • Practical strategies to break free from emotional cycles like anger and perfectionism.
  • The powerful role of faith and mindset in the recovery process.

To contact Carolyn

E-business card link: https://hihello.me/p/04d445a5-0f11-4815-9545-23287743ab43?sharer_id=UjMtyTW6SrQQUbmIMXt9U3caGTC3 (includes social media links)

Listening Sessions: https://payhip.com/FirmFoundationsCO

Mindfulness Practice Challenge: https://firm-foundations-co-llc.ck.page/15be6b2d67

Tune in now and take the first step towards healing. This conversation could be the spark that changes everything!

Catch the full episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse wherever you listen to podcasts or click on the picture below. Don’t forget to subscribe and share this episode with anyone needing it. Grief doesn’t have to keep you stuck—join us as we learn how to move forward together.

From Tragedy to Triumph: Shelly Edwards Jorgensen’s Journey of Faith and Forgiveness

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In this episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we bring you an unforgettable story of resilience, faith, and the power of forgiveness. Shelly Edwards Jorgensen, author of Beautiful Ashes, joins us to share her harrowing yet inspiring journey. Imagine enduring the unimaginable—losing your mother to a violent crime, living through abuse, and facing overwhelming medical challenges. Shelly has survived these trials and found peace and healing in the most miraculous ways.

Through her conversation with hosts Naty and Veda, Shelly opens up about her path to healing and the pivotal moments that tested her faith. What kept her going? How did she learn to forgive in the face of such betrayal and loss? And, most importantly, what lessons does she want to share with others walking through their own darkness?

This episode is a powerful testament to the human spirit’s ability to rise above even the deepest of ashes. Tune in to hear how Shelly’s faith, courage, and the support of loved ones carried her through—and how her story can inspire you to overcome whatever life may throw your way.

Shelly attended Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah where she was the first female to graduate with a degree in Manufacturing Engineering.  After graduation, she moved back to her home state of Michigan and landed her dream job as a manufacturing engineer to start off her 20+ year career for Ford Motor Company. A few years into her engineering career, she decided to go back to school to get her MBA.

Shelly has spent over 30 years serving within her church congregation and community. She has always enjoyed serving others.

Shelly enjoys wood working and has amassed a workshop of her dreams.  She also enjoys being outside in the fresh air, trail riding in her ATV and enjoying the Great Lakes boating & jet skiing.

Shelly is happily married to her husband Glenn.  She is a step-mother, grandmother, and adored aunt!

If you want to know more about Shelly’s story, you can visit my website http://www.beautifulashesmemoir.com, Facebook Instagram, Twitter (X) and YouTube

Don’t miss this gripping conversation—it might just change the way you see your own struggles. Listen now on Thrive by The Rising Muse!

Are You Feeling Burnt Out? This Episode Is For You!

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In our fast-paced world, many women are juggling more than ever—careers, family, relationships, and personal goals. If you’ve ever felt like you’re trying to keep it all together while burning out at both ends, you’re not alone. The good news? You don’t have to live like this, and there is a way to find balance.

On this week’s episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, hosts Naty and Veda sit down with Dr. Kaci Lacey, a renowned psychologist and founder of H & L Legacy Consulting. Dr. Lacey has dedicated her career to empowering women, helping them navigate the challenges of leadership, life, and burnout. With personal experiences as a former C-suite executive and as a mom, Dr. Lacey understands the pressures women face and shares strategies to reclaim confidence and live authentically without falling into the burnout trap.

In this insightful conversation, we tackle:

  • The signs of burnout that go beyond the workplace.
  • How perfectionism can lead to burnout and how to let go of it.
  • The role of workplace culture in burnout and what needs to change.
  • Practical strategies to balance career, family, and personal fulfillment.
  • How to build unshakeable confidence and prevent burnout in leadership roles.

Dr. Lacey offers a fresh perspective on how women can overcome the unrealistic expectations placed on them—whether in the office or at home—and why authenticity is key to thriving.

But we’re not giving it all away here! Tune in to hear Dr. Lacey’s empowering story of grit, resilience, and practical tips that will inspire you to take control of your life and prevent burnout before it takes over.

Dr. Kasi Lacey is a psychologist and executive coach dedicated to supporting women and fostering thriving workplaces. Moving out on her own at 16, she earned her Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology by age 26, driven by her passion for leadership and change. As a former vice president/c-suite executive, she led diverse departments and secured significant federal grants, and her service on various boards reflects her commitment to community and equity. Dr. Lacey’s experience spans various settings, where she has helped women build confidence and excel in their roles. She aims to work with corporations and organizations to create environments where employees feel valued, motivated, and supported. She is a highly regarded speaker, with expertise in leadership, psychology in the workplace, and positive change, and is driven by her two daughters to inspire the next generation of leaders.

Dr. Lacey is launching a course this October. “Building Unshakable Confidence in 6 Weeks” — a transformative journey designed to help you step into your most powerful, authentic self. She created this course because she understands the unique challenges women face in leadership roles — from battling imposter syndrome and self-doubt to struggling with work-life balance and finding their authentic voice in a world that often tells us to shrink. She’s been there herself, and has seen countless women hold back from their true potential simply because they lack the confidence to fully own their strengths. This course is crafted to meet you where you are and guide you toward where you want to be. Whether you’re a seasoned leader or someone just stepping into your power, the tools and insights provided here will help you break free from self-imposed limitations, cultivate a mindset for growth, and lead with confidence and authenticity. (Sign up for the newsletter at here to be the first to get the details on date, discount price, etc.)

Listen now to this transformative episode and start your journey to living a more balanced, confident, and fulfilled life!

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Stay tuned, stay thriving!

The Power of Preparation and Healing – Domestic Violence & Faith (Part 2)

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In part two of our Thrive by The Rising Muse series on domestic violence, faith, and healing, we delve even deeper into the complexities of escaping abusive relationships. Joined again by trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook, we uncover essential strategies for survival, including how to create a safety plan, the importance of finding your voice, and the power of faith in healing.

How Can You Prepare for the Unexpected?

Tabitha shares crucial tips on how to create a personalized safety plan—from where to safely store vital documents to the simple items that could make a world of difference in a crisis (like clean underwear and a toothbrush). But more than that, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself emotionally and spiritually during the process of leaving an abusive relationship.

Faith as a Guide Through Darkness

As we explore the role of faith, we discuss how churches can be a source of support, but also where they sometimes fall short. Tabitha doesn’t shy away from the difficult conversations, like reconciling faith with the harsh realities of abuse and understanding God’s true intentions when it comes to divorce and protection for the vulnerable.

Why This Episode is a Must-Listen

Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or just someone looking to learn, this episode is filled with actionable insights and heartfelt wisdom. From personal stories to professional advice, Tabitha’s passion for helping those affected by domestic violence shines through, offering hope and practical steps for anyone who may be in a dangerous situation.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, and she co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.

Listen to part two of this compelling conversation on domestic violence, faith, and recovery now. Don’t forget to subscribe for more important discussions like this one, and share it with someone who might need to hear it.

If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available—you are not alone.

Domestic Violence, Faith & Healing (Part 1)

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Are you ready to confront one of our most difficult yet vital conversations? In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we sit down with renowned trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook for an unflinching look into domestic violence and its devastating impact on families, mental health, and faith.

The Darkness of Coercive Control

Too often, domestic violence is misunderstood or oversimplified. In this eye-opening episode, Tabitha walks us through the different, often invisible, forms of abuse like coercive control—where the victim’s freedom, identity, and autonomy are systematically stripped away. It’s not always about physical harm. As Tabitha explains, it’s the slow, methodical erosion of a person’s sense of self that can be just as, if not more, damaging.

Faith and the Journey to Healing

What role does faith play in both surviving and healing from domestic violence? As a survivor herself, Tabitha shares her deeply personal story of how God walked with her through the pain and ultimately called her to help others do the same. In this episode, she offers practical advice on how faith communities can provide real, life-changing support to those in abusive situations.

The Moment of Freedom

One of the most powerful moments in the conversation comes when Tabitha describes the importance of regaining autonomy. She recounts stories of survivors—some of whom felt a rush of liberation in the simplest moments, like sitting in a car, knowing they finally had control over their own lives. It’s a reminder that even in the darkest times, freedom is possible.

Why You Can’t Miss Part 2

This episode is just the beginning. We’ve only scratched the surface of this complex and important topic. In part two, we’ll dive even deeper into the spiritual and emotional aspects of domestic violence recovery, as well as provide actionable resources for those who may be suffering in silence.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, as well as co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.

Listen to part one of this transformative conversation on domestic violence, faith, and mental health now, and don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss the continuation of this powerful series.

If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available, and you are not alone.

Unlocking the Secrets of OCD with Author Marin Canaday

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In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we dive into an eye-opening conversation with Marin Canaday—an author, national volleyball champion, and someone who’s bravely battled OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) since childhood. Marin shares the deeply personal journey that led her to write My Little Monster, a children’s book that creatively illustrates the struggles of living with OCD through the metaphor of a “little monster.”

But this isn’t just any monster story—it’s a powerful exploration of the invisible battles that many face daily. Marin opens up about how her OCD shaped her identity, from her childhood experiences of compulsively confessing small mistakes to her adult struggles with terrifying obsessive thoughts. Yet, her story is one of hope, resilience, and the importance of seeking professional help.

In this episode, we explore key questions:

  • How did Marin’s OCD influence her life as a student and athlete?
  • What role does faith play in navigating mental health challenges?
  • Why is professional support crucial when managing OCD, and how can it make a difference?

Marin’s vulnerability and strength shine through as she discusses how she continues to manage her OCD and the vital role that both therapy and faith have played in her healing process. This is more than a story about overcoming OCD—it’s a testament to the power of resilience and finding purpose even in our darkest moments.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by anxiety, mental health challenges, or simply want to better understand the struggles of those with OCD, this episode is a must-listen. Marin’s journey is a reminder that while we all have our own “little monsters,” they don’t have to control our lives.

Marin Canaday grew up with obsessive-compulsive disorder from early childhood. However, she was
not formally diagnosed with OCD until her adult years. She found studying and sports helped her cope
with her OCD as a child. In adulthood, she continued to struggle with her anxiety disorder but had to
find new ways to cope as her athletic career and days of studying were behind her. Today, Marin writes
in her free time. She is the author of My Little Monster and The Very Best Me, children’s picture books
that describe her struggle with OCD. She writes to encourage children struggling with anxiety
disorder. To connect with Marin go to her website.

Tune in to hear Marin’s incredible story and learn how you, too, can face your own monsters with strength, faith, and the right support.

Catch the full episode on Thrive by The Rising Muse and discover how Marin Canaday is helping others take control of their mental health—one monster at a time.

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Toxic Work Environment? Here’s How To Escape.

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Are you feeling stuck in a toxic work or ministry environment? Do you find it challenging to break free from negativity and improve your mental health? This week on Thrive by The Rising Muse, we welcome Earl Morrison, a retired Chief of Police, mentor, and author, to help us tackle these very issues.

With over 29 years of leadership experience, Earl has seen it all. In this episode, he dives deep into how toxic environments can affect not just organizational growth but your personal well-being. He shares the most common signs of a toxic workplace and how these environments can slowly take a toll on your mental health.

But it’s not all doom and gloom—Earl also reveals practical strategies to transform these negative spaces into productive, healthier environments. From communication breakdowns to accountability and teamwork, Earl’s leadership strategies emphasize the importance of character-based leadership, rooted in both personal and professional growth.

If you’ve ever wondered how faith-based principles can play a role in overcoming these challenges, Earl’s insights are invaluable. He shares how integrating faith into leadership can help individuals not only rise above toxic environments but also thrive mentally and spiritually.

Want to know the practical steps Earl recommends for those struggling in toxic environments? Curious about how mentoring can significantly impact not only your professional life but also your mental health? Tune in to this episode and discover how you can start turning things around today.

To connect with Earl and or obtain his books :

Website: https://earlmorrison.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EarlMorrisonLeadingandLearningwithCharacter

Catch the full episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse now to learn more about Earl’s transformative insights and how you can apply them in your life!

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