The Power of Preparation and Healing – Domestic Violence & Faith (Part 2)

In part two of our Thrive by The Rising Muse series on domestic violence, faith, and healing, we delve even deeper into the complexities of escaping abusive relationships. Joined again by trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook, we uncover essential strategies for survival, including how to create a safety plan, the importance of finding your voice, and the power of faith in healing.

How Can You Prepare for the Unexpected?

Tabitha shares crucial tips on how to create a personalized safety plan—from where to safely store vital documents to the simple items that could make a world of difference in a crisis (like clean underwear and a toothbrush). But more than that, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself emotionally and spiritually during the process of leaving an abusive relationship.

Faith as a Guide Through Darkness

As we explore the role of faith, we discuss how churches can be a source of support, but also where they sometimes fall short. Tabitha doesn’t shy away from the difficult conversations, like reconciling faith with the harsh realities of abuse and understanding God’s true intentions when it comes to divorce and protection for the vulnerable.

Why This Episode is a Must-Listen

Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or just someone looking to learn, this episode is filled with actionable insights and heartfelt wisdom. From personal stories to professional advice, Tabitha’s passion for helping those affected by domestic violence shines through, offering hope and practical steps for anyone who may be in a dangerous situation.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, and she co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.


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If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available—you are not alone.


Conquering Postpartum Depression

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the shadows of postpartum depression? You’re not alone. Join us on a transformative journey with Amber Hoopengarner, a life coach and mental health advocate, who has faced the darkness of postpartum depression head-on and emerged stronger. Amber’s story is not just about surviving but thriving.

In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we dive deep into Amber’s experiences and insights. With four children and a series of mental health challenges, Amber knows firsthand the trials many mothers face. Her upcoming venture, Prayers, Progress, and Deliverance LLC, aims to be a beacon of hope, providing faith-based mental health support for those in need.

Amber’s book, “Three Parts of Healing All Parts Whole,” serves as a guide for those navigating the turbulent waters of postpartum depression. In this episode, she shares powerful strategies from her book, practical advice, and her own journey from pain to empowerment.

Why should you tune in? This episode isn’t just about understanding postpartum depression; it’s about finding strength, hope, and a path to healing. Whether you’re a mother, a family member, or someone supporting a loved one, Amber’s story will resonate deeply and provide the encouragement needed to move forward.

Don’t miss out on this heartfelt conversation filled with hope, resilience, and actionable steps to overcome postpartum depression. Listen now and join us in the mission to support mental health and well-being within our community.

About Amber Hoopengarner

Amber Hoopengarner is a passionate advocate for women and children who struggle with mental illness, shame, and loneliness. She dedicates her life to encouraging and praying for those in need, with a profound desire for everyone to understand the value and identity God has bestowed upon them. Amber shares her inspiring testimony of supernatural healing and true freedom through God’s grace.

As an accomplished author, prophetic intercessor, life coach, and speaker, Amber’s mission is to uplift and empower others through her words and actions. Her recent book, “Three Parts of Healing All Parts Whole,” reflects her commitment to providing faith-based support and guidance to those facing postpartum depression and other mental health challenges.

Beyond her professional endeavors, Amber treasures her role as the mother of four beautiful children, finding joy and purpose in nurturing and guiding them. Her new venture, Prayers, Progress, and Deliverance LLC, is a testament to her unwavering commitment to creating a supportive community for mental health through faith.

Amber’s journey from pain to empowerment serves as a beacon of hope for many, and her work continues to inspire and transform lives.


Ready to embark on this journey from pain to power? Catch the full episode on here, and be sure to subscribe to “Thrive by The Rising Muse” for more inspiring stories and insights.


Call to Action:
If you are in crisis, don’t forget that you can call 988. If your child is in crisis, remember that you can dial 911 or take them to the nearest emergency room. We want everyone to be safe.

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Dive into Amber’s world, hear her story, and learn how you too can turn pain into power. This episode is not just an interview; it’s a lifeline. Tune in now!

Unveiling Stories of Hope with Jacob Bowker

Mental health is a profound journey, often marked by challenges and revelations. In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we dive deep into this topic with a remarkable guest, Jacob Bowker. As a father of four boys, an author, a podcaster, and a certified mental health coach, Jacob brings a wealth of knowledge and personal experience to our conversation.

Jacob’s story is both moving and inspiring. When his son was hospitalized due to mental health issues, Jacob realized the dire need for faith-based resources for families struggling with similar challenges. This realization spurred the creation of Story Ministry, an organization dedicated to supporting families through the intersections of mental health, addiction, and faith.

Story Ministry’s unique family-centered approach aims to empower families, helping them establish healthy boundaries and become stronger together. Jacob emphasizes the importance of not neglecting any family member and working collectively to heal and support one another.

Jacob discusses how Story Ministry collaborates with licensed therapists to create resources that guide individuals through their mental health journeys. By incorporating Bible verses and faith-based teachings, they offer a holistic approach to coping and healing. Jacob’s perspective on the need for healthy coping mechanisms, as opposed to simply relying on medication, provides a refreshing take on mental health treatment.

A key aspect of Story Ministry’s mission is to proactively educate and support communities. Jacob highlights their efforts to integrate mental health education into schools, starting with teachers and staff. By equipping educators with the knowledge and tools to support students, they aim to foster a more understanding and supportive environment from a young age.

Story Ministry also partners with churches, offering weekly small groups and Bible study sessions focused on mental health. These groups provide a safe space for individuals to share their struggles and find support within their faith community.

Jacob’s message is clear: mental health is an integral part of our overall well-being and should not be separated from our spiritual lives. He encourages listeners to reach out for help, support one another, and approach mental health with empathy and understanding.

Are you intrigued by Jacob’s insights and the mission of Story Ministry? Tune into the full episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse to hear more about Jacob’s journey and how Story Ministry is making a difference in the lives of many.


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