What if every trial, every storm, and every heartbreak in your life led you toward something greater? What if the pain you’ve endured wasn’t meant to break you but to prepare you for your purpose?
In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we sit down with the incredible Bambi Makowski—a mother, grandmother, storyteller, and author whose journey is nothing short of extraordinary. From overcoming personal trauma to impacting lives one door at a time, Bambi’s testimony is a powerful reminder that faith can turn brokenness into beauty.
🚪 Knocking on Doors, Changing Lives Bambi shares how her years working with Nielsen TV Ratings and the Census Bureau taught her the power of human connection. Each door she knocked on held a different story—some heartbreaking, some inspiring, but all life-changing. Through these encounters, she learned to see people beyond their circumstances and embrace the beauty in every journey.
💔 From Trauma to Triumph Bambi opens up about the darkest moments of her life when she felt unseen and unheard. But she also reveals the incredible ways that God stepped in, time and time again, transforming her pain into purpose. Her story is raw, unfiltered, and filled with moments that will leave you speechless.
🙏 Faith, Healing, and the Power of Sharing Your Story In this episode, we discuss why sharing our stories is essential for healing, how God never wastes our pain, and why embracing our scars can lead to true freedom. Bambi reminds us that our past does not define us—God does.
Bambi is a mother of six, grandmother to thirteen—and counting!—a passionate storyteller, and an author of two published books with more on the way. Her journey hasn’t been easy, but through every trial, she’s found purpose and hope. You can reach her on her website Healing Through Stories.
🔥 You Don’t Want to Miss This! This conversation is one of the most powerful we’ve had on the podcast. It’s real. It’s vulnerable. It’s inspiring. If you’ve ever questioned your worth, struggled with trauma, or wondered if God has a purpose for your pain—this episode is for you.
Life often presents us with setbacks—moments when our plans unravel, our dreams seem distant, and our hearts ache with disappointment. In these challenging times, finding solace in faith can offer profound comfort and guide us toward unexpected growth. It is in these setbacks that we often find God’s hand at work, preparing us for greater things.
Embracing Setbacks as Divine Preparation
Setbacks are not merely obstacles but opportunities for spiritual transformation. They test our resilience, deepen our trust in God, and refine our character. As the apostle James wrote:
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” (James 1:2-3, NIV)
This perspective challenges us to see setbacks not as moments of despair but as chances to strengthen our faith and endurance. God uses these trials to prepare us for His purpose, shaping us into vessels capable of carrying His light in the darkest of times.
Trusting in God’s Sovereignty
Amid setbacks, it is natural to question God’s plan. Yet, Scripture reassures us of His sovereignty and unwavering love:
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11, NIV)
Even when our circumstances seem bleak, trusting in God’s promises allows us to find peace and hope. His plans for us transcend our understanding, guiding us toward growth and fulfillment beyond our present struggles.
Seeking Spiritual Growth Through Adversity
Every setback offers an invitation to deepen our relationship with God. It is through adversity that we discover His strength within us:
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9, NIV)
In moments of weakness, God’s grace sustains us, empowering us to overcome challenges and emerge stronger in faith. These experiences mold us into vessels of His grace, equipped to share His love with others who may be walking through similar trials.
Finding Purpose in Pain
While setbacks may seem senseless, God works all things for our good:
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28, NIV)
Even in our deepest pain, God is at work, crafting beauty from ashes and preparing us for His divine purpose. Our setbacks become part of a greater narrative of redemption and restoration, showcasing God’s faithfulness through every trial.
Conclusion
Finding God in your setbacks is not about denying pain or dismissing challenges. It is a journey of faith where we learn to trust in His timing, His wisdom, and His unfailing love. As we navigate life’s uncertainties, let us embrace setbacks as opportunities for spiritual growth, knowing that through them, God prepares us to shine His light and love in a world that desperately needs it.
“And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.” (1 Peter 5:10, NIV)
In every setback, may you find the seeds of growth, the presence of God, and the promise of His enduring grace.
Life is unpredictable; right now, it feels like we’re all riding a wave of uncertainty. In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we take off the script and get real—no filters, no outlines, just raw conversation about the struggles many face today. We’re calling it Thrive Raw because sometimes, we just need to speak from the heart.
From massive job layoffs to skyrocketing grocery prices to the weight of mental health struggles—these are more than just headlines. They’re real-life battles people are fighting every single day. In this episode, we unpack the emotions, the fears, and the faith it takes to move forward when life throws the unexpected our way.
So, what do you do when your security is shaken? How do you hold on when it feels like you’re losing everything? More importantly, where is God in all of this? We’re diving deep into these questions and offering encouragement, real talk, and most of all, hope.
✨ Why you need to listen: ✔️ Raw, unfiltered conversation about the struggles happening right now. ✔️ Faith-centered encouragement for anyone feeling lost or overwhelmed. ✔️ Practical advice on how to move forward, find purpose, and rebuild. ✔️ A heartfelt message about the value of your life, no matter your circumstances.
If you or someone you love has been affected by job loss, financial uncertainty, or feelings of hopelessness, we want you to know that you are not alone. Join us for this powerful episode, and let’s navigate these storms together.
Childhood trauma—a term that carries weight, emotion, and stories that are often left untold. In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we delve into this deeply personal and transformative topic, exploring how the past can impact mental, emotional, and even physical health well into adulthood.
Joining us is Julie Rebboah, a Christian communicator and Room to Bloom podcast host. With her unique blend of personal experience, academic knowledge, and a faith-driven approach, Julie offers profound insights into how we can navigate the lasting effects of adverse childhood experiences. From toxic stress to generational cycles, this episode provides a roadmap to resilience and healing.
Discover how faith, practical steps, and community support can lead to renewal and purpose. Julie’s story of overcoming a childhood filled with chaos and her commitment to helping others is a testament to the transformative power of healing.
But this conversation is more than an exploration of pain—it’s about hope. It’s about taking that first step, partnering with God, and unlocking the abundant life He has for you. Whether you’re dealing with trauma, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking encouragement, this episode offers a wellspring of wisdom and comfort.
Julie is the survivor of childhood trauma that occured from a parent’s undiagnosed mental illness. Because Julie has lived experience, education in Mental Health and Wellness, and a strong Christian faith, she is uniquely positioned to help you overcome inner pain and reach your God-given potential. Her mission is to equip, inspire, and transform lives through faith-based mental health and wellness strategies. She does this through speaking engagements, her Room to Bloom podcast, and coaching programs.
In this latest episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse, hosts Naty and Veda dive into one of the most challenging conversations for any parent – when a child questions their faith. This episode features Heather Hart, who opens up about her journey after her daughter expressed doubts about Christianity. With raw honesty, Heather shares how this moment reshaped their family dynamic and taught her to balance unconditional love with the values she holds dear.
Heather Hart is a passionate writer, speaker, and devoted mother who shares her journey of faith and resilience in navigating the complexities of parenting. Known for her candid insights and heartfelt stories, Heather writes extensively on topics of faith, family, and personal growth. She is the author of a powerful blog post on handling a child’s faith crisis, where she draws from her own experiences to help other parents facing similar challenges. Heather’s approach is grounded in love, empathy, and a deep commitment to fostering strong, compassionate relationships within her family and community.
Heather’s story goes beyond a personal faith crisis; it’s a testament to resilience, grace, and the art of “letting go” while still holding onto love. From emotional conversations about belief to the wisdom that only comes from experience, this episode is filled with heartfelt insights for parents and families of all backgrounds. Heather reveals how she finds peace amidst uncertainty and how her faith continues to guide her through the ups and downs of parenthood. Check out Heather’s book Candid Moments.
Tune in to hear Heather’s inspiring journey and discover valuable insights on how to navigate difficult conversations about faith and identity with loved ones. This episode ofThrive by the Rising Museis not just a conversation; it’s a guide to thriving with empathy, patience, and resilience. Don’t miss it – this could be the encouragement you need to handle your own family’s journey with grace and hope.
In this episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we bring you an unforgettable story of resilience, faith, and the power of forgiveness. Shelly Edwards Jorgensen, author of Beautiful Ashes, joins us to share her harrowing yet inspiring journey. Imagine enduring the unimaginable—losing your mother to a violent crime, living through abuse, and facing overwhelming medical challenges. Shelly has survived these trials and found peace and healing in the most miraculous ways.
Through her conversation with hosts Naty and Veda, Shelly opens up about her path to healing and the pivotal moments that tested her faith. What kept her going? How did she learn to forgive in the face of such betrayal and loss? And, most importantly, what lessons does she want to share with others walking through their own darkness?
This episode is a powerful testament to the human spirit’s ability to rise above even the deepest of ashes. Tune in to hear how Shelly’s faith, courage, and the support of loved ones carried her through—and how her story can inspire you to overcome whatever life may throw your way.
Shelly attended Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah where she was the first female to graduate with a degree in Manufacturing Engineering. After graduation, she moved back to her home state of Michigan and landed her dream job as a manufacturing engineer to start off her 20+ year career for Ford Motor Company. A few years into her engineering career, she decided to go back to school to get her MBA.
Shelly has spent over 30 years serving within her church congregation and community. She has always enjoyed serving others.
Shelly enjoys wood working and has amassed a workshop of her dreams. She also enjoys being outside in the fresh air, trail riding in her ATV and enjoying the Great Lakes boating & jet skiing.
Shelly is happily married to her husband Glenn. She is a step-mother, grandmother, and adored aunt!
In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we dive into an eye-opening conversation with Marin Canaday—an author, national volleyball champion, and someone who’s bravely battled OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) since childhood. Marin shares the deeply personal journey that led her to write My Little Monster, a children’s book that creatively illustrates the struggles of living with OCD through the metaphor of a “little monster.”
But this isn’t just any monster story—it’s a powerful exploration of the invisible battles that many face daily. Marin opens up about how her OCD shaped her identity, from her childhood experiences of compulsively confessing small mistakes to her adult struggles with terrifying obsessive thoughts. Yet, her story is one of hope, resilience, and the importance of seeking professional help.
In this episode, we explore key questions:
How did Marin’s OCD influence her life as a student and athlete?
What role does faith play in navigating mental health challenges?
Why is professional support crucial when managing OCD, and how can it make a difference?
Marin’s vulnerability and strength shine through as she discusses how she continues to manage her OCD and the vital role that both therapy and faith have played in her healing process. This is more than a story about overcoming OCD—it’s a testament to the power of resilience and finding purpose even in our darkest moments.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by anxiety, mental health challenges, or simply want to better understand the struggles of those with OCD, this episode is a must-listen. Marin’s journey is a reminder that while we all have our own “little monsters,” they don’t have to control our lives.
Marin Canaday grew up with obsessive-compulsive disorder from early childhood. However, she was not formally diagnosed with OCD until her adult years. She found studying and sports helped her cope with her OCD as a child. In adulthood, she continued to struggle with her anxiety disorder but had to find new ways to cope as her athletic career and days of studying were behind her. Today, Marin writes in her free time. She is the author of My Little Monster and The Very Best Me, children’s picture books that describe her struggle with OCD. She writes to encourage children struggling with anxiety disorder. To connect with Marin go to her website.
Tune in to hear Marin’s incredible story and learn how you, too, can face your own monsters with strength, faith, and the right support.
Catch the full episode on Thrive by The Rising Muse and discover how Marin Canaday is helping others take control of their mental health—one monster at a time.
In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we are honored to have Tanisha Bankston, the remarkable author and founder of the ministry “My Pain is My Power,” share her deeply personal and transformative journey. This episode delves into the profound impact of childhood trauma and the incredible power of faith and resilience in overcoming life’s most challenging moments.
A Glimpse into Tanisha’s Journey
From an early age, Tanisha faced unimaginable pain and adversity. Her story begins at just five years old when she endured abuse and was subsequently disbelieved by those she trusted. This traumatic experience silenced her inner voice and set her on a path of fear, shame, and self-doubt that spanned nearly three decades.
In “My Pain is My Power,” Tanisha courageously recounts her journey of finding her voice again and reclaiming her life through faith. She speaks candidly about the struggles she faced, the healing power of prayer, and how she transformed her pain into a source of strength to empower others.
Tanisha also shares valuable information about her ministry, “My Pain is My Power,” and its mission to support women and children who have experienced similar traumas. She discusses the various initiatives and programs her ministry offers and how the community can better support individuals on their healing journeys.
Why You Should Listen
This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith. Tanisha’s story is not just one of survival but of thriving against all odds. Her journey from pain to power is an inspiration to anyone who has faced adversity and seeks hope and healing.
Tune In and Be Inspired
Don’t miss this compelling episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse.” Tanisha’s story will leave you inspired, uplifted, and ready to embrace the power within yourself to overcome any obstacle.
Tanisha Bankston is a mother of 3 children from Grenada, Mississippi. She is a survivor of childhood abuse and domestic violence, and now an author and speaker. Tanisha was abused at the age of 5, leading her to lose her inner voice and withdraw into a shell for 27 years. She was taken from her mother, separated from her siblings, and adopted by her aunt. Despite feeling protected, she faced further challenges within the broken judicial system. Tanisha became a teen mom at 14 and again at 17. She rediscovered her inner voice on July 3, 2020, and found healing and deliverance from her pain and past on September 4, 2020. Tanisha wrote and self-published her book “My Pain is My Power” on May 21, 2021. She created a private support group for survivors called “I Believe You” on Facebook and founded the nonprofit organization I Believe You Inc. Tanisha launched her podcast, “My Pain is My Power Podcast,” on April 1, 2022, aiming to inspire others that they can overcome their challenges with hope.
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Together, let’s turn pain into power and support one another on our journeys of healing and growth.
In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we delve into an extraordinary story of resilience, faith, and healing. We are honored to host Karin, a remarkable woman who has turned her personal experiences with childhood abuse into a powerful testimony. Karin, an author, motivational speaker, and blogger, shares her journey of overcoming adversity and finding her purpose. This episode is a beacon of hope for those seeking to start their healing journey.
Karin’s journey is one of profound transformation. From enduring the trauma of childhood abuse to emerging as a source of inspiration for many, her story is a testament to the power of faith and resilience. In the podcast, she candidly shares how she navigated the complexities of her past, sought healing, and found her calling as an author.
Karin’s story is not just about surviving but thriving. She shares how she carried the emotional burden of her father’s abuse into adulthood, affecting her relationships and mental health. However, her unwavering faith and determination to break the cycle of pain set her on a path to healing. Through her faith, she learned the importance of forgiveness, not just for her abuser, but for her own peace and liberation.
A Message of Hope: Karin’s book and her journey offer practical steps for those looking to start their healing journey. She emphasizes the need to let go of the past and embrace forgiveness as a means to move forward. Her story is a reminder that with faith, determination, and the willingness to change, it is possible to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.
Join the Conversation: We invite you to listen to this empowering episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse. Karin’s story is a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith. Whether you are seeking inspiration, practical advice, or simply a message of hope, this episode is for you.
Karin and her husband, James, have been married for forty-seven years. They live in Sydney, Australia. They have two married sons and three grandkids that they adore. Karin writes in Christian non–fiction and clean fiction romance genres. After a long walk, she enjoys reading an excellent novel. She loves to read to her three grandchildren. Karin believes a splendid book can whisk you into the world of her characters.
Karin tells stories that make people happy. Enjoy a cup of coffee and immerse yourself in her characters’ escapades. Her novels are delightful escapades with charming characters and a touch of romance, humor, and anticipation.
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In this heartfelt interview, we sit down with Kim Gilson, a Christian author and certified Zig Ziglar trainer, to discuss her journey of faith, resilience, and the inspiration behind her latest book, “Made for Community: A Biblical Model to Activate Your Purpose.” Join us as Kim shares her experiences and insights on navigating grief, the power of community, and finding joy and purpose through faith.
How did you navigate the challenges of losing your husband while starting a new job and caring for your sons?
Kim Gilson: I know people say to take it one day at a time. Honestly, that was too much. Some days I just made it from one meal to the next. I adopted the word “forward” and set my face towards building a new normal. I really didn’t have an “Option B.” I had no choice but to get up each day and do the next thing. I was fortunate that I had great family and friends who carried us along the way!
What role did faith play in your journey towards finding joy again for you and your boys?
Kim Gilson: I don’t know how people survive a major loss without the Lord. I believed He would take care of us, and I saw so many ways He fulfilled His promise. I was in church one Sunday by myself thinking, “I’m alone.” I so clearly heard His voice say, “You’ll never be alone.” I held onto that. My faith gave me the hope that Paul was in a better place and we would find our Promised Land on this side of heaven.
What were some of the key moments or realizations that helped you find strength and hope during those difficult times?
Kim Gilson: The night he died, I vowed I would fight for our joy. I couldn’t let that be the last good day my boys had. I knew if they were going to have joyful whole lives, I had to show them it was OK and I had to show them how. I saw a long dark tunnel ahead of me, but I knew if I squinted hard enough, I could see a flicker of light. I held on to the belief that we would find our new normal and smile again.
How did your relationship with your sons evolve as you all worked together to rebuild your lives?
Kim Gilson: It’s one of my proudest accomplishments in life. I knew I had to be a safe place for them. I’d say we gave each other space and grace to make mistakes. If any of us messed up, we forgave quickly. I recently remarried, and at the reception, one of them made a speech about how I led them through that time to give them the lives they have today. He had everyone in tears. When the other took the mic, I braced for more! He thanked my new husband for taking my antique shopping so they didn’t have to! The entire room burst into laughter. I just thought, “Those are my boys!” I’m so proud of their resilience.
Kim Gilson: It was a very organic process. I had a “moment” in our ladies’ Bible study where I felt like I didn’t belong and started to leave. I heard the Lord say, “You sit right there. I created you in my image and it’s too vast, too perfect for any one person to represent all of me. Sit right there and contribute your piece of the puzzle.” He continued to show me things through scripture, experience, and revelation that led to a sermon and a class. I realized it all went together to make a book!
Can you explain the analogy of cups and pitchers and how it relates to your message in the book?
Kim Gilson: God designed us to live in reciprocal relationships where we pour into and receive from each other, like pitchers pouring into cups. At some point, the cups should overflow and become pitchers themselves. No one can hear the words “Well done, good and faithful servant” unless they help other people hear them.
What are the main themes you hope readers will take away from your book?
Kim Gilson: I hope they first of all appreciate how God designed them to contribute to the Body of Christ. Then I hope they appreciate how God designed other people for them to engage in cups and pitcher relationships.
How does your book address the current climate of division and loneliness?
Kim Gilson: I hope it gives people a new way to think about themselves and others. We are more dependent on each other than we realize. So many people are isolated at home, and I’d love to think this encourages them to branch out and take a chance on engaging with other people again.
How does your book define and describe the concept of community from a biblical perspective?
Kim Gilson: Paul describes the Body of Christ. Each of us has a valuable part to make, and though one part may look more important, all are necessary for God’s Kingdom on this earth!
Can you elaborate on how reciprocal relationships among the body of Christ can help individuals fulfill their God-given purposes?
Kim Gilson: God’s purposes for our lives seldom are limited to our benefit. We often think our hopes and dreams are for our gain, fame, fortune, or reputation. They invariably impact other people. That impact will bless others in a way that enables their contribution. Say for instance you’re a business owner. Your business provides goods or services to others, but you also serve as a provider to your employees. That provision enables families to meet their needs. One of many examples would be paying for a child’s education to pursue God’s calling on his/her life.
What practical steps do you suggest for readers who want to build and nurture these reciprocal relationships?
Kim Gilson: You’ve got to make the first step. We can’t just wait for someone else to reach out to us and then be sad if it doesn’t happen. There’s a good chance whoever you approach is also hungry for connection! When you go to church, get there early enough to talk to people, invite someone to lunch or coffee, attend an event or go to Bible study. I’m also a big believer in Meetup.com. This is an unpaid advertisement for them, but it’s where I met my new husband! I joined a Christian Singles group merely looking for new friends and found him.
How can churches and Christian communities implement the model you propose to foster a stronger sense of belonging and purpose among their members?
Kim Gilson: I led a class on this model at my church. We gave people a chance to explore their personality types, spiritual giftings, and talents. As they shared with others, people learned about themselves and each other in new ways. We even did an activity where people told in what ways they’re cups or pitchers, so they could see how they could combine forces. Anything the church can do to foster connection and conversations with people who don’t normally interact at that level will go far towards progress in this area.
Looking back on the past ten years, what are some of the most important lessons you’ve learned about faith, resilience, and community?
Kim Gilson: God is always up to something good, even when things look the worst. You can’t control what happens to you, only your response. Joy is a choice. Life is a group project. We’re meant to do it together.
How has your journey influenced your understanding of God’s goodness and purpose for your life?
Kim Gilson: As long as there is breath in us, God still has a purpose for our lives. Each day we wake up, it’s for a reason. Someday our clock will expire, but until then, we need to lean into His plans for us. I once heard Him tell me to “Honor the calling of today.”
What advice would you give to someone who is struggling with grief and loss?
Kim Gilson: Get therapy or counseling, depending on your circumstances. I went through Griefshare, and it was instrumental in my healing. You’ll know when it’s time!
How can individuals find joy and purpose after experiencing significant life challenges?
Kim Gilson: Believe that you will see God’s goodness in the land of the living, and there IS a promised land for you! The desert season won’t last forever.
What is the one message you would like to leave with our readers today?
Kim Gilson: The Body of Christ NEEDS YOU! No one is perfect. God is working to sanctify us all, and you don’t have to wait to have it all figured out before you can pour into and receive from others. Share what He’s given you and bless others by letting them bless you in return!
How can readers connect with you and learn more about your work and ministry?
Kim Gilson: I’m on Instagram and Facebook, or they can contact me via email at kimgilson@excellivate.com
Do you have any upcoming projects or plans that you would like to share with us?
Kim Gilson: My next plan is to repackage my testimony workbook with videos!
About Kim Gilson:
Kim Gilson was born to be a teacher. As far back as she can remember, she played school in her room, teaching dolls and stuffed animals from a chalkboard, and holding parent/teacher conferences with those who struggled. As she grew older, the stuffed animals became real students, to whom she taught band and then math. As her career in public education blossomed, Kim learned her passion was teaching adults, making difficult topics easier to understand and enjoying laughter in the process. The sudden loss of her husband, Paul, to a blood clot in 2014 sent her on a personal journey of grief and a battle to reclaim joy in her life for her and her sons. Wanting to share her zeal for life with others, she became a certified Zig Ziglar trainer, speaker, and coach. After retiring from public education in 2022, she felt a calling to utilize her teaching and speaking skills to revitalize the hearts, minds, and dreams of people, activating them towards fulfilling their God-given purpose. Kim lives in Midlothian, Texas with her 2 dogs, Duchess and Cosmo. Her sons, Trent and Cade, have grown into fine young men pursuing their own dreams. She and her husband, Don, enjoy traveling across Texas to take selfies in front of its many courthouses. Kim approaches everything in life with passion and humor, and her hatred of kale is legendary. She attends Harvest Hill Church, where she’s a member of the preaching team. Kim’s website is excellivate.com
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