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Tired of Chasing Happiness? How to Finally Reconnect with Real Joy

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Have you ever found yourself aggressively chasing joy?

Maybe it looks like planning the perfect, stress-free weekend, scrolling through curated “good vibes only” social media feeds, or repeating positive affirmations in the mirror when you actually feel completely depleted. We treat joy like a prize to be won, a goal to be checked off, or a reward for finally getting our lives perfectly together.

But let’s be honest: Chasing joy is exhausting. And more often than not, the harder we run after it, the more elusive it becomes. Why? Because joy isn’t a destination, and it certainly isn’t something you can force.

In our latest episode of The Rising Muse, Reconnecting with Joy, we dive deep into why your pursuit of happiness might actually be pushing it away—and how to switch from chasing joy to gently receiving it.

The Science of Joy: It’s Not a Choice, It’s a Feeling of Safety

We’ve all heard the well-meaning advice: “Joy is a choice!” While that sounds inspiring on a coffee mug, it can actually feel incredibly dismissive when you are genuinely struggling.

Here is the truth we discuss in the episode: Joy is physiological.

Your body and your nervous system operate on a fundamental need for survival. If your body doesn’t feel safe, it cannot access or sustain a state of joy. When you are stuck in survival mode—anxious, overwhelmed, or burnt out—your brain prioritizes protection, not praise.

To experience true joy, we have to stop pressuring ourselves to feel “maximum happiness” and instead focus on cultivating a felt sense of safety in our daily lives. Joy is a slow, honest unfolding that happens when our nervous system finally feels secure enough to let its guard down.

Why You Need to Listen to This Episode

If you are tired of putting on a brave face or if you feel like a bystander in your own life, wondering where your spark went, this conversation was recorded specifically for you.

In this episode, we explore:

  • The Difference Between Chasing and Reconnecting: Why your current strategy for finding happiness might be burning you out.
  • The Physiology of Emotions: How your nervous system controls your capacity for joy, and how to gently signal safety to your body.
  • Lowering the Bar: How removing the pressure to feel “perfectly happy” actually clears the path for genuine, deep-rooted joy to return.

You don’t have to fix everything in your life before you’re allowed to experience lighter moments. You just need to learn how to create a safe space for joy to come back home.

Take a Breath. Tune In.

Give yourself permission to pause the hustle today. Grab a cup of tea, find a quiet spot, and let’s talk about how to breathe easy again.

🎧 Click here to listen to “Reconnecting with Joy” on your favorite podcast platform!

Want to dive deeper into our series on joy? Don’t forget to check out our companion episodes on how joy coexists with grief, how to build an unshakable foundation, and finding strength in scripture.

When Love Meets Uncertainty: Standing in Faith After 40 Years Together

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Forty years. More than four decades of holding hands through every chapter of life—raising children, building careers, weathering storms, laughing until tears fell, and learning from one another in ways no one else ever could. After that much time with someone, they become more than a spouse. They are your rhythm, your safe place, your steady.

And then suddenly… they’re in a hospital bed. All the strength they carried for years feels a world away.

For so long, I watched him work 16-hour shifts, seven days a week. I saw him stand strong—providing, protecting, and pouring himself out without complaint. He was dependable, resilient, unshakable—my earthly rock. And now, in this new season of retirement—when we imagined rest, travel, peace, and quiet—we’re facing battles we never saw coming: spiritual attacks, physical assaults on his body, weakness where there once was strength.

And the truth is…

It does something to your heart.

The Thoughts No One Wants to Admit

When your spouse is hospitalized, your mind becomes a battlefield.

What if he doesn’t recover the same?
What if this is the beginning of another long fight?
Will he be okay?
Will I have the strength to care for him the way he cared for us for so long?
Will God give us more time together?

No matter how old we get, no matter how many anniversaries we’ve celebrated…

It’s never enough time.

Not when you love someone this deeply.

You begin replaying memories—young love, early mornings, late-night conversations, road trips, holidays, and the moments that shaped your life together. You hold his hand tighter, noticing the warmth, the pulse, the gift of breath. And in the quiet moments between doctor visits and lab results, there’s a whisper in your spirit:

“Lord, I trust You. Even in this.”

When Faith Becomes More Than Words

It’s easy to say “God is good” when life feels steady. It’s different when fear presses on your chest in a hospital room.

But this is exactly where faith becomes real.
Where trust becomes a choice.
Where love deepens beyond comfort.

Psalm 73:26 reminds us:

“My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever.”

Even when bodies grow weak, God’s strength does not.
Even when hearts feel fragile, His hands hold everything together.

Choosing Trust in the Middle of the Unknown

I don’t know what tomorrow holds. I don’t know how long we will have together. I don’t know what this season will require from me—or from him.

But here’s what I do know:

God has been faithful for every one of these 40+ years.
He has walked with us through storms, disappointments, and miracles.
He carried us when we didn’t know how to move forward.

And I know—deep in my soul—that He is carrying us now.

So I choose trust.

Trust that God will strengthen his body.
Trust that God will equip me to care for him.
Trust that God is not finished with our story.
Trust that love is stronger than fear.
Trust that whatever time we are given—whether many more years or just one more precious day—God will be in the midst of it.

Still Standing on His Promises

In this season, I hold tightly to Isaiah 41:10:

“Fear not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, I will help you,
I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

And so, even here—in hospital halls and waiting rooms—I stand on His promises, trusting that the same God who carried us through forty years is faithful to carry us through this one.

V. Green

Three Kings Day: Honoring the Journey, Not Just the Gift

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January 6th marks Three Kings Day, also known as Epiphany—the moment the Magi finally reached Jesus after a long, uncertain journey guided only by a star and faith that refused to let them turn back.

We often rush past this day, packing away the nativity and moving on to the next goal, the next resolution, the next task. But Three Kings Day invites us to pause—not at the destination—but at the journey.

Faith Isn’t Always a Straight Line

The Magi didn’t have a detailed map.
They didn’t know how long the road would be.
They didn’t have confirmation at every step.

They simply kept moving.

That’s important for us to remember as we step deeper into a new year. Faith doesn’t always feel confident. Sometimes it looks like asking questions, taking detours, or trusting God even when clarity hasn’t arrived yet.

Mental wellness and spiritual growth often work the same way. Healing, purpose, and alignment rarely come overnight. They unfold as we keep showing up—tired, hopeful, uncertain, but willing.

The Gifts We Bring Matter

The Magi brought gold, frankincense, and myrrh—gifts that symbolized kingship, divinity, and sacrifice. But what often gets overlooked is that the most powerful thing they offered wasn’t what they carried in their hands.

It was their obedience.
Their humility.
Their willingness to kneel.

As we reflect today, it’s worth asking:

  • What am I bringing into this season?
  • Am I offering God my trust—or just my plans?
  • Am I willing to surrender outcomes, not just intentions?

Sometimes the most meaningful gift we can bring is honesty—about our fears, our exhaustion, our hopes, and our need for guidance.

A Season of Revelation, Not Perfection

Epiphany is about revelation—God revealing Himself to the world. And revelation often comes quietly, through reflection rather than fireworks.

As you continue into this year, remember:
You don’t have to have everything figured out.
You don’t need to rush your growth.
You don’t need to compare your journey to anyone else’s.

Like the Magi, you are allowed to move at the pace of faith.

A Gentle Reflection for Today

Take a moment today to sit with these questions:

  • What “star” am I being asked to follow right now?
  • What distractions might I need to release?
  • What would it look like to trust God with the unknown parts of my life?

Three Kings Day reminds us that the journey itself is sacred—and that when we keep walking in faith, even imperfectly, we will arrive exactly where we’re meant to be.

Stepping Forward in Faith

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There comes a moment in every season of life when standing still becomes more painful than moving forward. Change knocks—sometimes gently, sometimes like a storm—and we are left with a choice: resist it in fear or embrace it in faith.

Moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting where you’ve been; it means trusting God with where you’re going.

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” — Martin Luther King Jr.

Trusting God When the Path Is Unclear

Trusting God is easy when life makes sense. It becomes harder when prayers feel unanswered, doors close without explanation, or the future looks unfamiliar. Yet Scripture reminds us that God’s faithfulness is not dependent on our understanding.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)

When we surrender control, we discover peace. God sees the full picture—every detour, every delay, and every breakthrough. What feels like an ending may actually be a divine redirection.

“God never wastes a season of your life. What feels like loss is often preparation.”

Embracing Change Without Fear

Change can feel uncomfortable because it stretches us beyond what is familiar. But growth never happens in comfort zones. God often uses change to refine our character, strengthen our faith, and reposition us for a greater purpose.

“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” — Isaiah 43:19 (NIV)

Sometimes God changes our surroundings so He can change our hearts. Letting go doesn’t mean losing; it means making room for what God is building next.

“Change isn’t the enemy—fear is. Faith transforms uncertainty into opportunity.”

Becoming a Better Version of Yourself

Becoming a better version of yourself isn’t about perfection; it’s about transformation. It’s allowing God to shape you day by day through prayer, obedience, and perseverance.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2 (NIV)

Growth requires honesty—about what needs healing, what needs releasing, and what God is calling you to become. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress.

“You are not becoming someone new; you are becoming who God always intended you to be.”

Moving Forward With Hope

Moving forward doesn’t erase the past—it redeems it. God uses every chapter of your story to prepare you for the next. Even when you feel uncertain, His promises remain sure.

“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” — Philippians 1:6 (NIV)

So take the step. Release what was. Embrace what is. Trust God with what’s ahead. The journey forward may not be easy, but it will be worth it—because God is walking with you every step of the way.

“Your next season requires a stronger faith, a softer heart, and a willingness to move forward.”

God I Trust You‐–All You Can Do Is Pray

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When the One You Love Is Hospitalized

Forty years. More than four decades of holding hands through every chapter of life—raising children, building careers, weathering storms, laughing until tears fell, and learning from each other in ways no one else ever could. After that much time with someone, they become more than a spouse. They are your rhythm, your safe place, your steady.

And then suddenly…they’re in a hospital bed. And all the strength they’ve shown for years seems a world away.

For so long, I watched him work 16-hour shifts, 7 days a week. I saw him stand strong, provide, protect, and pour himself out without complaint. He was dependable, resilient, unshakable—my earthly rock. And now, in this new season of retirement—when we thought we’d be enjoying rest, travel, peace, and quiet—we’re facing battles we never saw coming. Spiritual attacks. Physical attacks on his body. Weakness where there used to be strength.

And the truth is…
It does something to your heart.

The Thoughts No One Wants to Admit

When your spouse is hospitalized, your mind becomes a battlefield.

What if he doesn’t recover the same?
What if this is the beginning of another long fight?
Will he be okay?
Will I have the strength to care for him the way he cared for us for so long?
Will God give us more time together?

No matter how old we get, no matter how many anniversaries we’ve celebrated…
It’s never enough time.
Not when you love someone this deeply.

You start replaying memories—young love, early mornings, late-night talks, road trips, holidays, the moments that shaped your life together. You start holding his hand tighter, noticing the warmth, the pulse, the gift of breath. And in the quiet moments between doctor visits and lab results, there’s a whisper in your spirit: “Lord, I trust You. Even in this.”

When Faith Becomes More Than Words

It’s easy to say “God is good” when everything is steady. It’s different when fear presses on your chest in a hospital room.

But this is exactly where faith becomes real.
Where trust becomes a choice.
Where love becomes deeper than comfort.

Psalm 73:26 reminds us:
“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”

Even when bodies grow weak, God’s strength does not.
Even when our hearts break, His hands hold them together.

Choosing Trust in the Middle of the Unknown

I don’t know what tomorrow holds. I don’t know how long we will have together. I don’t know what this season will require from me—or from him.

But here’s what I do know:
God has been faithful for every one of these 40+ years.
He has walked with us through storms, disappointments, and miracles.
He carried us when we didn’t know how to move forward.
And I know—deep in my soul—that He is carrying us now.

So I choose trust:
Trust that God will strengthen his body.
Trust that God will equip me to care for him.
Trust that God is not finished with our story.
Trust that love is stronger than fear.
Trust that whatever time we have—whether it’s many more years or just one more precious day—God will be in the midst of it.

Still Standing on His Promises

In this season, I hold tightly to Isaiah 41:10:
*“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand

During This Season, You Are Seen

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The holiday season is often wrapped in bright lights, warm gatherings, and words like joy, peace, and merry. But for many, December doesn’t feel merry at all. Instead, it magnifies the ache of what—and who—is missing.

Maybe you’re facing the first Christmas without someone you love.
Maybe a divorce has fractured your sense of home.
Maybe a job loss has left you anxious about the future.
Maybe your health has shifted your daily reality.
Or maybe a broken relationship has left an empty chair at the table—and an even emptier space in your heart.

If you’re dreading the holidays this year, you’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not forgotten by God.

Below is gentle truth, comfort, and hope for anyone walking into the season with grief, fear, or disappointment.

When You’re Grieving a Loved One

Scripture: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18

Loss has a way of turning familiar traditions into reminders of what has changed. What once brought joy may now stir pain. Grief doesn’t follow a calendar, and it certainly doesn’t pause for December.

Hopeful Hints

  • Give yourself permission to feel. God isn’t asking you to pretend.
  • Create a moment of remembrance—light a candle, share a story, display a photo.
  • Let this be a season of gentleness, not pressure.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, sit with me in this tender space where joy and sorrow coexist. Be my comfort today.”

When You’re Divorced or Separated

Scripture: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3

Shifts in family structure can cast a spotlight on what’s been lost. Traditions change, routines break, and loneliness tries to creep in where connection used to dwell.

Hopeful Hints

  • Release the pressure to recreate the past.
  • Start small, new traditions that honor where you are now.
  • Surround yourself with voices that speak life, hope, and peace.

Prayer Thought: “God, restore my sense of belonging and rebuild the places within me that feel broken.”

When You’ve Lost a Job or Financial Stability

Scripture: “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

When finances are uncertain, the holiday season can feel overwhelming. Expectations rise, but resources don’t. Yet your value has never been tied to what you can buy, give, or provide.

Hopeful Hints

  • Simplify the season—meaning always matters more than material.
  • Seek support without shame; community is God’s design.
  • Remember that provision rests in God’s hands, not your performance.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, be my Provider. Show me Your abundance even in this season of lack.”

When Relationships Are Broken or Strained

Scripture: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18

Heartbreak isn’t limited to romantic relationships. A shattered friendship, tension with a family member, or distance with a child can make the holidays especially painful.

Hopeful Hints

  • Let go of forced togetherness; sometimes peace means stepping back.
  • Protect your heart with healthy boundaries.
  • Pray for reconciliation, but also pray for your own healing.

Prayer Thought: “God, guide me in my relationships with grace, wisdom, and peace.”

When You’re Battling Health Issues

Scripture: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

Illness—whether physical or emotional—can make the holidays feel heavy. Low energy, constant pain, or limitations can reshape what celebration looks like.

Hopeful Hints

  • Celebrate what you can, not what you feel you must.
  • Prioritize rest over expectation.
  • Allow others to support you—this is not a burden you have to carry alone.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, strengthen me, comfort me, and give me grace for every moment.”

A Final Word of Hope

Even when the holidays feel overwhelming, Christmas itself was born into darkness. Jesus stepped into a weary, grieving, broken world—and He still steps into ours. His birth remains good news for heavy hearts.

Scripture to Hold Onto:
“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” — John 1:5

Whether this season finds you mourning, adjusting, rebuilding, hoping, or simply surviving, you are seen. You are loved. And God is with you in every breath, every tear, and every quiet moment.

May this be a gentle December, where the presence of God becomes your greatest gift and your steady place of peace.

🦃 A Heartfelt Thank You, A Harvest of Gratitude, and Exciting New Horizons!

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Dear Thrive by The Rising Muse community,

As the calendar turns to November and the warmth of the holiday season approaches, I want to pause, take a deep breath, and extend my deepest, most heartfelt gratitude to each and every one of you. You—my dedicated listeners, wonderful guests, and engaged community members—are the true heart of this passion project.

🙏 Harvesting Our Shared Growth

Thanksgiving is a time for reflection, and as I look back on this journey, I am truly humbled. Your invaluable support, your willingness to share your stories, and your open-mindedness have been the fertilizer that has helped this community truly thrive. Watching our community grow from a seed of an idea into a vibrant ecosystem of personal growth and shared experiences has warmed my heart more than words can say.

Together, we are not just listening to a podcast; we are cultivating a beautiful journey. We’re exploring challenging topics, celebrating small victories, and committing to showing up as our best selves. Thank you for making this space one of genuine connection, inspiration, and mutual respect.

🚀 Exciting News: Tune In Wherever You Are!

We believe that cultivating personal growth should be convenient and accessible, no matter where your journey takes you. That’s why I am absolutely thrilled to announce that Thrive by The Rising Muse is now available on the incredible App Reveel platform!

This means you can now seamlessly integrate our episodes into your life, whether you’re relaxing on the couch, traveling, or just needing a boost of inspiration:

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Thank you once again for being the most supportive, inspiring part of this endeavor. I look forward to continuing to share our experiences, celebrating our growth, and connecting with you across these new platforms!

Warmest wishes for a happy and meaningful Thanksgiving season,

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Setting Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace

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In today’s fast-paced world, setting boundaries is more crucial than ever for maintaining personal peace and emotional safety. Boundaries are not about shutting people out; they are about protecting your peace and energy. This episode explores the significance of boundaries, drawing on biblical references, personal anecdotes, and practical advice to help you establish boundaries without guilt.

The Importance of Boundaries

Boundaries are essential for protecting personal peace. They are like doors, not walls, defining where you end and others begin. Even Jesus set boundaries, withdrawing to rest and pray, showing us that saying no is a complete sentence and can be a holy act. Boundaries help prevent resentment and maintain healthy relationships.

Practical Advice on Setting Boundaries

Communicating boundaries clearly and lovingly is crucial. Expect pushback when setting boundaries, but remain consistent. Boundaries are a form of sacred stewardship of one’s emotions and peace. Choosing peace over guilt is a powerful act of faith.

Embracing boundaries is embracing peace. By setting boundaries, you guide your emotional well-being and show others how to love you well. Remember, boundaries are not a rejection; they are a direction.

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Breaking the Silence on Burnout: A Journey to Healing

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In today’s fast-paced world, burnout is a silent epidemic affecting countless individuals. It’s more than just feeling tired; it’s a deep soul-level exhaustion that leaves us feeling empty and disconnected. In this episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse, Naty and Veda open up about the hidden struggles of burnout and share insights on how to recognize and heal from it.

Burnout isn’t just about being overworked. It’s the exhaustion that comes when you give more than you receive, when the balance between pouring out and being poured into disappears. It manifests as irritability, numbness, loss of motivation, and even spiritual silence. Recognizing these signs is the first step towards healing.

Rest is not laziness; it’s sacred. In faith circles, we’re often encouraged to push through, but sometimes strength looks like taking a step back. Naty emphasizes that rest is a holy practice, modeled by God Himself. It’s essential to release the guilt associated with rest and embrace it as a form of self-care and stewardship.

Burnout thrives where boundaries are missing. Saying ‘no’ is crucial for maintaining balance and preventing burnout. It’s important to prioritize your well-being and understand that you can’t pour from an empty cup. Setting boundaries allows you to serve others from a place of abundance rather than obligation.

In faith communities, burnout can be mistaken for a spiritual attack. However, it’s often a sign that you’re doing too much of the wrong thing for too long. Naty reminds us that God doesn’t call us to burn out; He calls us to balance. By reconnecting with ourselves and God, we can find the strength to overcome burnout.

Burnout doesn’t mean you’re broken; it means you’ve been carrying too much for too long without refills. Remember, you are still enough, still chosen, and still loved. Embrace rest as your right and take the necessary steps to heal. Subscribe now to continue this journey with us and discover more insights on thriving in life.

Subscribe now to our podcast for more episodes on mental health and spiritual well-being. Let’s walk this journey together and find balance in our lives.

Legalizing the Gospel

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This may not be a popular topic, but here we go.

In the last decade or so, I have seen a movement of Christians trying to put laws in place according to what the Bible says we should or should not do. I am a follower of Jesus, but this movement, in my opinion, has brought out several issues.

1. Politicians who pretend to be Christian just to obtain votes.
The Bible says, “You will recognize them by their fruits” (Matthew 7:16). However, in my observation, the masses are bending over backwards to justify some people’s behaviors, decisions, and actions just because their mouths have said they are Christians—even though their fruits are not showing.

2. Looking the other way.
I’ve also observed Christians compromising their own values just to have someone in office who will get things done the way they want, something like “the end justifies the means.”

Here’s my issue with Christianity by law: Are people realizing that forcing someone into a particular behavior does not mean they are accepting or living for Christ?

For example, you could mandate by law that all citizens attend church every Sunday. People might show up at their nearest church, but that doesn’t mean the message is going into their hearts.

God gave us free will. “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Corinthians 3:17). Jesus never forced anyone to accept Him. Why are we? Jesus came to show us His unconditional love—a love that leads us to repentance and to fall in love with Him enough to follow Him to the ends of the earth.

When you force someone into submission, they don’t love what they’re doing—they resent it. They may outwardly show the “good” behavior you want to see, but their heart has not turned toward God.

Legislating Faith vs. Living Faith

Legislating faith is spiritual laziness. We are called to “go and make disciples of all nations” (Matthew 28:19), to witness what God has done in our lives, and to show His love through our actions. Instead, some want the government to force people to behave according to our beliefs so we can feel like we’ve accomplished something—when in reality, we have not.

We don’t want to do the hard work of loving everyone, forgiving everyone, and showing mercy to everyone. Instead, we often live with selective love for those who think, believe, and behave like we do. We exercise selective outrage toward those we judge, while ignoring the person in the mirror.

Should society be a free-for-all? No. But when we impose laws to force our faith on the masses, we are not pleasing God. We are not making disciples—we are making people who resent the gospel. And it’s not because of their hardened hearts, but because of our hypocrisy.

We appear hypocritical when we only address the sins of others but excuse the sins of those “within the faith.” “Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” (Matthew 7:3).

When someone outside the church falls, we often respond with outrage. But when someone in our faith circle falls, we excuse it as a “moment of weakness.” That’s not mirroring Jesus—it’s hypocrisy.

The Call to Love

When someone doesn’t think like us, we dismiss them as evil, forgetting that God placed them in our path so we could witness to them and love them.

And yes, even love our enemies. “But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).

So when I see people who claim to follow Christ spewing hate, it hurts my heart. Because we should know better. Did we forget where we were before Jesus rescued us? Did we forget that He forgave our sins—and continues to forgive them?

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God” (Ephesians 2:8-9).

If that’s true for us, then it is also true for those around us.

The Harvest Is Plentiful

The Word says, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few” (Luke 10:2). It is time to reflect on how our thoughts and behaviors are either drawing people to Jesus or pushing them away.

You may say you’ve tried and seen no results. But sometimes you’re only meant to plant the seed. Someone else waters, and another sees the fruit (1 Corinthians 3:6–7). But don’t miss your role as a planter.

I know it’s hard not to give up, but I can testify: I was a wreck, and God chased me relentlessly to show me His love. Even now, when I fall flat on my face, He picks me up, cleans me off, and sets me back on solid ground. He knows my flaws, yet He still uses me to reach people. He has assigned each of us to love and serve specific souls.

The Bottom Line

It is our job to show God’s love, grace, and mercy. It is not the government’s job to legislate Christianity, so we can feel good about forcing people into behaviors that don’t lead to salvation.

We don’t win souls by writing laws. We win them by living out the gospel.

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