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Your Beliefs Are Sabotaging Your Goals

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In a world where new goals and fresh starts are often celebrated, it’s easy to overlook the underlying beliefs that shape our lives. In our latest episode, we delve into the transformative power of core beliefs and how they can either propel us forward or keep us stuck in old cycles.

Understanding Core Beliefs

Core beliefs are the deep-seated perceptions we hold about ourselves and the world. They often form in childhood and can be so ingrained that we don’t even realize they’re there. These beliefs act as lenses through which we view our experiences, influencing our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.

The Impact of Core Beliefs

Our episode explores how core beliefs can manifest in various aspects of life, from relationships to career choices. For instance, a belief of “I’m not enough” can lead to patterns of overworking or staying in toxic relationships. Recognizing these patterns is the first step towards change.

Rewriting the Narrative

We discuss practical tools for challenging and changing negative core beliefs. This involves identifying the lie, tracing its roots, and replacing it with truth. Repetition and community support play crucial roles in this transformative process.

As we journey through life, it’s essential to examine the beliefs that guide us. By rewriting the narratives that no longer serve us, we can embrace a life of authenticity and fulfillment. Subscribe now to stay updated on more insights and tools for personal growth.

How Core Beliefs Shape Your Life & How to Rewrite Them with God’s Truth

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Do you feel stuck in patterns you can’t explain—emotionally, spiritually, or relationally? Often, the issue isn’t a lack of effort or faith. Core beliefs formed early in life silently influence how we see ourselves, others, and God.

In this episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we explore how core beliefs develop. We investigate how they affect your adult life. You can begin rewriting them using biblical truth and practical tools.

What Are Core Beliefs?

Core beliefs are deeply rooted thoughts formed in childhood through experiences, relationships, and emotional moments. Because children interpret life emotionally rather than logically, painful experiences can lead to beliefs like:

  • “I’m not enough.”
  • “I must earn love.”
  • “I will always be abandoned.”

These beliefs don’t disappear with age—they show up as self-sabotage, fear of intimacy, overperformance, or spiritual insecurity.

Signs Your Core Beliefs May Be Holding You Back

You may be operating from limiting core beliefs if you:

  • Repeat the same relationship patterns
  • Feel unworthy despite success or affirmation
  • Overreact to rejection or criticism
  • Struggle to believe God’s love applies to you personally

Rewriting Core Beliefs with God’s Truth

Every false belief is rooted in a lie—and Scripture provides the truth to replace it.

  • Lie: “I am unlovable.”
    Truth: Nothing can separate you from God’s love (Romans 8:38–39).
  • Lie: “I’m not enough.”
    Truth: You are God’s workmanship, created with purpose (Ephesians 2:10).

Practical steps:

  1. Identify the lie
  2. Trace it to its origin
  3. Challenge it with Scripture
  4. Replace it with truth
  5. Repeat daily

Renewing your mind is both a spiritual and psychological process—and consistency leads to transformation.

You don’t have to stay stuck in old stories. God’s truth has the power to heal wounds, restore identity, and create lasting freedom.

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When Love Meets Uncertainty: Standing in Faith After 40 Years Together

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Forty years. More than four decades of holding hands through every chapter of life—raising children, building careers, weathering storms, laughing until tears fell, and learning from one another in ways no one else ever could. After that much time with someone, they become more than a spouse. They are your rhythm, your safe place, your steady.

And then suddenly… they’re in a hospital bed. All the strength they carried for years feels a world away.

For so long, I watched him work 16-hour shifts, seven days a week. I saw him stand strong—providing, protecting, and pouring himself out without complaint. He was dependable, resilient, unshakable—my earthly rock. And now, in this new season of retirement—when we imagined rest, travel, peace, and quiet—we’re facing battles we never saw coming: spiritual attacks, physical assaults on his body, weakness where there once was strength.

And the truth is…

It does something to your heart.

The Thoughts No One Wants to Admit

When your spouse is hospitalized, your mind becomes a battlefield.

What if he doesn’t recover the same?
What if this is the beginning of another long fight?
Will he be okay?
Will I have the strength to care for him the way he cared for us for so long?
Will God give us more time together?

No matter how old we get, no matter how many anniversaries we’ve celebrated…

It’s never enough time.

Not when you love someone this deeply.

You begin replaying memories—young love, early mornings, late-night conversations, road trips, holidays, and the moments that shaped your life together. You hold his hand tighter, noticing the warmth, the pulse, the gift of breath. And in the quiet moments between doctor visits and lab results, there’s a whisper in your spirit:

“Lord, I trust You. Even in this.”

When Faith Becomes More Than Words

It’s easy to say “God is good” when life feels steady. It’s different when fear presses on your chest in a hospital room.

But this is exactly where faith becomes real.
Where trust becomes a choice.
Where love deepens beyond comfort.

Psalm 73:26 reminds us:

“My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever.”

Even when bodies grow weak, God’s strength does not.
Even when hearts feel fragile, His hands hold everything together.

Choosing Trust in the Middle of the Unknown

I don’t know what tomorrow holds. I don’t know how long we will have together. I don’t know what this season will require from me—or from him.

But here’s what I do know:

God has been faithful for every one of these 40+ years.
He has walked with us through storms, disappointments, and miracles.
He carried us when we didn’t know how to move forward.

And I know—deep in my soul—that He is carrying us now.

So I choose trust.

Trust that God will strengthen his body.
Trust that God will equip me to care for him.
Trust that God is not finished with our story.
Trust that love is stronger than fear.
Trust that whatever time we are given—whether many more years or just one more precious day—God will be in the midst of it.

Still Standing on His Promises

In this season, I hold tightly to Isaiah 41:10:

“Fear not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, I will help you,
I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

And so, even here—in hospital halls and waiting rooms—I stand on His promises, trusting that the same God who carried us through forty years is faithful to carry us through this one.

V. Green

Breaking Generational Cycles: A Path to Healing

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In today’s episode of “Thrive by the Rising Muse,” we delve into the profound topic of breaking generational cycles. These cycles, often unconsciously passed down through families, shape our thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. But the power to change lies within us, and this episode explores how we can become the lineage changers.

Understanding Generational Cycles

Generational cycles are patterns of behavior, beliefs, and coping mechanisms inherited from previous generations. They can manifest as emotional suppression, financial instability, or unhealthy relationship dynamics. Recognizing these patterns is the first step towards breaking them.

The Emotional Cost of Change

Breaking these cycles is not without its challenges. It often involves feelings of guilt, loneliness, and the pressure to do better for future generations. However, choosing healing over history is a courageous act that can transform not only your life but also the lives of generations to come.

Tools for Breaking Cycles

To break these cycles, one must engage in inner child work, set boundaries, and seek therapy or counseling. It’s about creating new patterns that foster emotional, relational, and spiritual wholeness. Remember, healing is a form of inheritance, and by breaking these cycles, you leave a legacy of peace and emotional intelligence.

Breaking generational cycles is a transformative journey that requires strength and resilience. As you embark on this path, know that you are not alone. Share this journey with others who are also striving to break free from the past. Together, we can create a future filled with healing and hope.

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Stepping Forward in Faith

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There comes a moment in every season of life when standing still becomes more painful than moving forward. Change knocks—sometimes gently, sometimes like a storm—and we are left with a choice: resist it in fear or embrace it in faith.

Moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting where you’ve been; it means trusting God with where you’re going.

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” — Martin Luther King Jr.

Trusting God When the Path Is Unclear

Trusting God is easy when life makes sense. It becomes harder when prayers feel unanswered, doors close without explanation, or the future looks unfamiliar. Yet Scripture reminds us that God’s faithfulness is not dependent on our understanding.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)

When we surrender control, we discover peace. God sees the full picture—every detour, every delay, and every breakthrough. What feels like an ending may actually be a divine redirection.

“God never wastes a season of your life. What feels like loss is often preparation.”

Embracing Change Without Fear

Change can feel uncomfortable because it stretches us beyond what is familiar. But growth never happens in comfort zones. God often uses change to refine our character, strengthen our faith, and reposition us for a greater purpose.

“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” — Isaiah 43:19 (NIV)

Sometimes God changes our surroundings so He can change our hearts. Letting go doesn’t mean losing; it means making room for what God is building next.

“Change isn’t the enemy—fear is. Faith transforms uncertainty into opportunity.”

Becoming a Better Version of Yourself

Becoming a better version of yourself isn’t about perfection; it’s about transformation. It’s allowing God to shape you day by day through prayer, obedience, and perseverance.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2 (NIV)

Growth requires honesty—about what needs healing, what needs releasing, and what God is calling you to become. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress.

“You are not becoming someone new; you are becoming who God always intended you to be.”

Moving Forward With Hope

Moving forward doesn’t erase the past—it redeems it. God uses every chapter of your story to prepare you for the next. Even when you feel uncertain, His promises remain sure.

“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” — Philippians 1:6 (NIV)

So take the step. Release what was. Embrace what is. Trust God with what’s ahead. The journey forward may not be easy, but it will be worth it—because God is walking with you every step of the way.

“Your next season requires a stronger faith, a softer heart, and a willingness to move forward.”

Embracing Small Steps: A Guide to Lasting Change

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As we step into 2026, many of us find ourselves setting ambitious resolutions, only to feel overwhelmed by the enormity of the changes ahead. But what if the key to success lies in starting small? In this post, we’ll explore how taking manageable steps can lead to lasting transformation.

The Power of Small Steps

Naty and Veda share their journey of transitioning from whole milk to 1% milk, illustrating how small dietary adjustments can have a significant impact on health. “I went from whole milk to 2%, and then to 1%,” she explains. This gradual approach can be applied to various aspects of life, from nutrition to exercise.

Building Habits with Intention

Creating new habits doesn’t happen overnight. “It takes 21 days to form a habit,” They reminds us. By focusing on one habit at a time, such as walking daily or journaling for a few minutes, we can build a foundation for sustainable change.

Mindful Living

Incorporating mindfulness into daily routines can enhance our well-being. They emphasize the importance of decluttering both physically and emotionally. “Give yourself permission to emotionally declutter,” she advises, encouraging us to let go of guilt and unrealistic expectations.

As we navigate the new year, let’s embrace the power of small steps. By setting realistic goals and being kind to ourselves, we can create a life of balance and peace. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about progress.

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Embracing Your New Normal During the Holidays: An Invitation to Reflect and Connect

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The holiday season can be a challenging time, especially when you’re navigating a new normal. Whether it’s dealing with the absence of a loved one or adjusting to significant life changes, the holidays can amplify these feelings. Join us as we explore how to embrace this season with self-compassion and invite you to watch our latest episode for deeper insights.

Understanding the New Normal

The concept of a “new normal” is about adapting to life without certain familiar elements. As Naty & Veda share, “You go into another season of your life without that person, without that job, without whatever. So that is your new normal.” This holiday season, it’s important to acknowledge these changes and find ways to celebrate in a way that feels right for you.

Navigating the Holidays with Self-Compassion

During the holidays, self-compassion becomes even more crucial. It’s easy to feel pressured to be joyful, but as Naty & Veda remind us, “Be kind to yourself. That’s the most important.” Allow yourself to experience the holidays at your own pace, honoring your feelings without judgment.

We invite you to watch our latest episode, where we delve deeper into these themes. Discover how to navigate the holidays with grace and find comfort in knowing you’re not alone. Our conversation offers support and understanding for anyone facing a challenging holiday season.

As you embrace your new normal this holiday season, remember that it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions. Allow yourself the space to grieve, to heal, and to grow. Your journey is unique, and with self-compassion, you can find peace in the present moment.

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Finding Faith in the Wilderness: Shaazia Terry’s Journey

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In a world where life’s challenges often seem insurmountable, Shaazia Terry’s story is a beacon of hope and resilience. Her journey, marked by profound loss and unwavering faith, offers a powerful testament to the transformative power of belief and perseverance.

Shaazia’s life took a dramatic turn with the loss of her mother, a period that tested her faith and strength. “I was like, God, no, I don’t understand this,” she recalls. Yet, through the darkness, she found a renewed purpose, using her voice and creativity to glorify God and inspire others.

Throughout her trials, Shaazia’s faith remained her anchor. “Even when nobody else sees you, God always sees you,” she shares, emphasizing the importance of holding onto faith even when life gives every reason to let go. Her story is a reminder that faith can carry us through the wilderness, turning our struggles into testimonies of grace and purpose.

Shaazia’s journey is not just about overcoming adversity; it’s about embracing humanity in all its imperfections. Her book, “Being Human,” explores themes of love, family secrets, and the power of forgiveness. “It’s not about being perfect,” she says. “It’s about giving God your best and trusting Him to guide you.”

Shaazia Terry’s story is a testament to the power of faith and resilience. Her journey reminds us that brokenness doesn’t disqualify us; it’s often the place where God begins His greatest work in us. As we navigate our own challenges, may we find inspiration in Shaazia’s story and hold onto the hope that faith provides.

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The Transformative Power of Gratitude: A Thanksgiving Reflection

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As Thanksgiving approaches, we often find ourselves reflecting on the blessings of the past year. But what if gratitude went beyond the dinner table and transformed our very way of living? In this episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse, Naty and Veda explore the profound impact of gratitude when it is intertwined with grace and mercy.

We are reminded that true gratitude isn’t just about acknowledging what we have; it’s about letting that thankfulness change how we see and treat others. They discuss the importance of extending grace, even when it’s inconvenient, and how this can lead to deeper, more meaningful relationships.

The episode delves into the concept of grace—giving others what they don’t deserve—and mercy—refraining from giving them what they do deserve. Naty shares personal stories that highlight the power of these virtues in transforming lives and fostering compassion.

Listeners are encouraged to let their gratitude be visible, to let it sound like grace, and to let it move like mercy. We’re challenged to embody the love and compassion that Thanksgiving represents, not just during the holiday, but every day.

This Thanksgiving, let’s make a conscious effort to let our gratitude transform us. By embracing grace and mercy, we can create a ripple effect of kindness and compassion in our communities. Tune in to this inspiring episode and discover how you can make your gratitude truly transformative.

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Healing the Inner Child: A Journey to Wholeness

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In this episode of “Thrive by the Rising Muse,” hosts Naty and Veda explore the profound topic of healing the inner child. This conversation is not just about revisiting the past but about embracing the journey to emotional and spiritual wholeness. Naty and Veda share personal stories and insights, reminding us that the inner child is the part of us that holds both joy and pain, shaping who we become.

Understanding the Inner Child

Naty and Veda explain how childhood experiences, both joyful and painful, influence our adult lives. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging these memories to facilitate healing and personal growth. Steps to Healing: The episode outlines practical steps for healing, including acknowledging hurt, reparenting oneself, and setting boundaries. Naty and Veda share their personal journeys of forgiveness and the freedom it brings. Spiritual Insights: Drawing on scripture, they explore how faith and God’s love play a pivotal role in the healing process, providing hope and restoration.

Join us for this heartfelt episode as we explore the path to healing and thriving. Tune in to “Thrive by the Rising Muse” and embark on your journey to wholeness.

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