Author: Naty Matos

Great desire to worship God through the gift of writing and share a message of inspiration to all around me.

Praying Over Tithes and the Importance of Offering Beyond Tithes

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Tithing and offering are powerful acts of worship that connect us to God’s provision and blessings. While tithing is a biblical principle, giving offerings above the tithe is an act of faith and generosity that brings even greater spiritual and material rewards. However, before we give, we must pray over our tithes and offerings, seeking God’s guidance, blessing, and purpose.

Tithing—giving 10% of our income—was established in the Old Testament as a way for God’s people to honor Him and support His work. In Malachi 3:10, God challenges His people to test Him in tithing:

“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.”

Before giving our tithes, we should pray for:

  • A Grateful Heart – Acknowledge that everything we have comes from God (1 Chronicles 29:14).
  • Faith and Trust – Believe that God will supply all our needs (Philippians 4:19).
  • Blessings Over the Church and Its Mission – Pray that the resources will be used wisely for God’s kingdom.

When we pray over our tithe, we are not only obeying God’s command but also aligning our hearts with His will, trusting in His provision, and sowing into His kingdom with faith.

Offering: Giving Beyond the Tithe

While tithing is the foundation, the offering is an act of deeper generosity. Offerings are free-will gifts given beyond the tithe as an expression of love, gratitude, and faith in God. In 2 Corinthians 9:7, Paul encourages believers to give with a cheerful heart:

“Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

Offerings are important because:

  • They Reflect the Condition of Our Heart – Giving generously shows our love for God and others (Luke 6:38).
  • They Unlock Greater Blessings – God promises to multiply what we sow (2 Corinthians 9:6-8).
  • They Support the Needs of the Church and Others – Offerings help missions, outreach programs, and those in need (Proverbs 19:17).

Giving beyond the tithe is an act of faith that says, “God, I trust You not just with 10%, but with everything I have.” When we give sacrificially, God honors our faith and provides abundantly.

Biblical Examples of Generous Giving

The Widow’s Offering

In Mark 12:41-44, Jesus praised a widow who gave two small coins, which was all she had. While others gave from their abundance, she gave sacrificially. This demonstrates that the value of an offering is not in its amount but in the heart behind it.

“Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on.”

The Early Church’s Generosity

In Acts 2:44-45, the early Christians shared everything they had, ensuring no one was in need. Their selflessness strengthened the church and glorified God.

“All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.”

Praying Over Your Offerings

When giving an offering, it is important to pray for:

  • God’s Direction – Ask God how much to give and where to sow.
  • A Generous and Cheerful Heart – Pray against a spirit of reluctance or fear.
  • Multiplication of Your Seed – Believe that God will bless and increase what you sow.
  • Impact of Your Giving – Pray that your offering will bring transformation in people’s lives.

God’s Promises for Givers

Abundant Provision

In Luke 6:38, Jesus assures that giving leads to receiving:

“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

Prosperity and Overflow

In Proverbs 3:9-10, we are reminded that honoring God with our wealth leads to abundance:

“Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops; then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.”

Conclusion

Both tithes and offerings are acts of worship, trust, and obedience. Praying over our giving ensures that our hearts are in the right place and that we align with God’s will. As we tithe faithfully and give offerings generously, we invite God’s blessings into our lives and participate in His greater purpose.

May we always give with joy, faith, and expectation, knowing that God is our ultimate provider. Amen!

The Silent Struggle of Caregiving

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Have you ever felt like you’re giving everything you have—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—only to end the day completely drained? If you’ve been a caregiver for a parent, spouse, or loved one, you know the weight of that responsibility. It’s a journey of love, sacrifice, and deep exhaustion, but one that isn’t talked about nearly enough.

In our latest episode of Thrive By the Rising Muse, we’re breaking the silence on the realities of caregiving. Naty and Veda open up about their own experiences—navigating the emotional and mental toll, the unspoken guilt, and the faith struggles that arise when exhaustion meets devotion.

This episode is for:
✔️ Those currently in a caregiving role.
✔️ Anyone who has ever felt torn between their responsibilities and their well-being.
✔️ Those wondering, “Where is God in this?” when caregiving feels overwhelming.

We’ll talk about:
✨ The emotional burden of caregiving and how to protect your mental health.
✨ The guilt caregivers often feel—and why it’s time to release it.
✨ How to keep your faith strong when exhaustion makes praying hard.
✨ Practical ways to set boundaries, ask for help, and find moments of rest.

💡 If you’ve ever felt unseen in your role as a caregiver, this episode is for you. You are not alone, and you are doing more than enough.

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Have you been a caregiver? How did you navigate the emotional toll? Comment below or DM us—we’d love to hear your story.

Breaking Down The Truth About Therapy And Mental Health!

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Are you ready for an eye-opening conversation that challenges the way we think about mental health, medication, and the stigmas that still persist in our communities? In this powerful episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, hosts Naty and Veda sit down with the incredible Dr. Ronda Hampton, a clinical psychologist, advocate, and co-founder of REACH for Mental Health Awareness.

From breaking down mental health misconceptions in faith communities and communities of color to understanding when medication might be necessary, this discussion dives deep into the realities of therapy, healing, and the barriers that keep so many from seeking the help they need. Dr. Hampton shares her personal journey, her advocacy work in missing persons cases, and her passion for educating children through the Skool Kids book series.

💡 Did you know that antidepressants aren’t addictive? Or that abruptly stopping medication can have serious consequences? We tackle these myths and more, providing the real facts behind mental health treatment and how we can support those in need.

🔹 Why is therapy still stigmatized in many communities? 🔹 How can we redefine the role of mental health professionals? 🔹 What’s the truth about antidepressants and dependency? 🔹 What happens when someone stops taking their medication without supervision? 🔹 How can faith and mental health coexist?

This episode is packed with insights, raw honesty, and much-needed truth. Whether you or someone you love has struggled with mental health or you simply want to be part of the solution in changing the conversation, this is one you can’t afford to miss.

Dr. Ronda Hampton is a highly respected clinical psychologist based in California. She’s the co-founder of REACH for Mental Health Awareness, a nonprofit that assists families searching for missing loved ones while also working to spread awareness about mental health. You may also know her as a strong advocate for justice in the case of Mitrice Richardson, a young woman who went missing in 2009. Beyond her clinical work, Dr. Hampton is also the co-producer of Lost Compassion: The Mitrice Richardson Story, an award-winning documentary, and the author of Amber Goes Missing, a book aimed at educating children about personal safety.

You can reach Dr. Hampton on TikTok and IG

🎧 Listen now on your favorite podcast platform and join us as we break the silence, challenge the stigma, and create a space for healing and growth.

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Finding God in Your Setbacks: Preparation for Growth

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Life often presents us with setbacks—moments when our plans unravel, our dreams seem distant, and our hearts ache with disappointment. In these challenging times, finding solace in faith can offer profound comfort and guide us toward unexpected growth. It is in these setbacks that we often find God’s hand at work, preparing us for greater things.

Embracing Setbacks as Divine Preparation

Setbacks are not merely obstacles but opportunities for spiritual transformation. They test our resilience, deepen our trust in God, and refine our character. As the apostle James wrote:

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” (James 1:2-3, NIV)

This perspective challenges us to see setbacks not as moments of despair but as chances to strengthen our faith and endurance. God uses these trials to prepare us for His purpose, shaping us into vessels capable of carrying His light in the darkest of times.

Trusting in God’s Sovereignty

Amid setbacks, it is natural to question God’s plan. Yet, Scripture reassures us of His sovereignty and unwavering love:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11, NIV)

Even when our circumstances seem bleak, trusting in God’s promises allows us to find peace and hope. His plans for us transcend our understanding, guiding us toward growth and fulfillment beyond our present struggles.

Seeking Spiritual Growth Through Adversity

Every setback offers an invitation to deepen our relationship with God. It is through adversity that we discover His strength within us:

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9, NIV)

In moments of weakness, God’s grace sustains us, empowering us to overcome challenges and emerge stronger in faith. These experiences mold us into vessels of His grace, equipped to share His love with others who may be walking through similar trials.

Finding Purpose in Pain

While setbacks may seem senseless, God works all things for our good:

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28, NIV)

Even in our deepest pain, God is at work, crafting beauty from ashes and preparing us for His divine purpose. Our setbacks become part of a greater narrative of redemption and restoration, showcasing God’s faithfulness through every trial.

Conclusion

Finding God in your setbacks is not about denying pain or dismissing challenges. It is a journey of faith where we learn to trust in His timing, His wisdom, and His unfailing love. As we navigate life’s uncertainties, let us embrace setbacks as opportunities for spiritual growth, knowing that through them, God prepares us to shine His light and love in a world that desperately needs it.

“And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.” (1 Peter 5:10, NIV)

In every setback, may you find the seeds of growth, the presence of God, and the promise of His enduring grace.

When the World Feels Unstable, How Do We Thrive?

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Life is unpredictable; right now, it feels like we’re all riding a wave of uncertainty. In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we take off the script and get real—no filters, no outlines, just raw conversation about the struggles many face today. We’re calling it Thrive Raw because sometimes, we just need to speak from the heart.

From massive job layoffs to skyrocketing grocery prices to the weight of mental health struggles—these are more than just headlines. They’re real-life battles people are fighting every single day. In this episode, we unpack the emotions, the fears, and the faith it takes to move forward when life throws the unexpected our way.

So, what do you do when your security is shaken? How do you hold on when it feels like you’re losing everything? More importantly, where is God in all of this? We’re diving deep into these questions and offering encouragement, real talk, and most of all, hope.

✨ Why you need to listen:
✔️ Raw, unfiltered conversation about the struggles happening right now.
✔️ Faith-centered encouragement for anyone feeling lost or overwhelmed.
✔️ Practical advice on how to move forward, find purpose, and rebuild.
✔️ A heartfelt message about the value of your life, no matter your circumstances.

If you or someone you love has been affected by job loss, financial uncertainty, or feelings of hopelessness, we want you to know that you are not alone. Join us for this powerful episode, and let’s navigate these storms together.

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Let’s keep thriving—together.

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The Power of Hobbies: A Path to Mental Wellness

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Life is full of stressors, and in today’s world, it can feel like we’re constantly being pulled in different directions. The weight of responsibilities, financial strain, and global uncertainties can take a toll on our mental well-being. It’s easy to put self-care on the back burner, but finding healthy ways to cope is essential. One simple and effective way to prioritize mental wellness is by engaging in a hobby.

How Hobbies Benefit Mental Health

Hobbies are more than just pastimes; they are powerful tools that can improve our mental health in significant ways:

  • Stress Reduction: Engaging in an enjoyable activity helps lower cortisol levels, the hormone responsible for stress.
  • Improved Mood: Activities that bring joy increase dopamine and serotonin, neurotransmitters linked to happiness.
  • Mindfulness and Relaxation: Focusing on a creative or physical task helps bring us into the present moment, reducing anxiety.
  • Sense of Accomplishment: Learning a new skill or finishing a project can boost confidence and self-esteem.
  • Social Connection: Some hobbies provide opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals, reducing feelings of loneliness.

Affordable Hobbies for Mental Wellness

Self-care doesn’t have to be expensive. There are plenty of budget-friendly hobbies that offer the same mental health benefits without straining your finances:

Creative Outlets

  • Drawing or Coloring: A simple sketchbook and pencils can provide a relaxing way to express emotions.
  • Journaling or Creative Writing: Writing down thoughts can be therapeutic and help process emotions.
  • DIY Crafts: Repurposing old items or using inexpensive materials to create something new can be fulfilling.
  • Photography with a Smartphone: Capturing beautiful moments in nature or daily life can be a form of mindful appreciation.

Physical Activities

  • Walking or Hiking: A free and effective way to clear the mind while benefiting from fresh air and movement.
  • Yoga or Stretching: Plenty of free online videos offer guided practices for relaxation and flexibility.
  • Dancing at Home: Turning on some music and moving freely can boost endorphins and relieve stress.

Intellectual and Social Engagement

  • Reading: Libraries offer free access to books, audiobooks, and e-books.
  • Learning a New Language: Apps like Duolingo provide free lessons to stimulate the brain and expand knowledge.
  • Listening to Podcasts: Countless free podcasts cover various interests, from storytelling to self-improvement. Of course, you can check ours out (Thrive by The Rising Muse)
  • Joining Online Communities: Engaging in forums, social media groups, or free online classes can provide social support and learning opportunities.

Gardening and Nature-Based Hobbies

  • Growing Houseplants: Taking care of plants can be soothing and rewarding.
  • Foraging or Birdwatching: Exploring local parks to identify plants and birds is a fun and educational way to connect with nature.
  • Urban Gardening: Even if you don’t have a yard, growing herbs in small pots or window boxes can be a fulfilling activity.

Making Time for Yourself

Life can be overwhelming, but carving out time for a hobby—even for just a few minutes a day—can make a significant difference in how we feel. Whether it’s something artistic, active, or intellectually stimulating, hobbies offer a break from the chaos and an opportunity to recharge. Investing in your mental health doesn’t have to be costly; sometimes, the simplest activities bring the most peace.

If stress is weighing you down, consider exploring a new hobby. It may be just what you need to find balance and joy amid life’s challenges.

Can We Talk? A Conversation That Will Change Your Relationships

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Have you ever felt unheard, misunderstood, or stuck in unhealthy patterns in your relationships? What if the key to better communication, deeper respect, and emotional healing was just one conversation away?

In our latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we sit down with the incredible Rhonda Green, author of Can We Talk? and founder of Healing In Script (HIS). Rhonda’s journey is nothing short of inspiring—she never planned to become an author, but divine inspiration led her to use writing as a tool for healing and transformation.

Her newest book, Can We Talk?, is a game-changer for anyone looking to build stronger relationships. It focuses on four key areas: respect, communication, emotions, and habits—the very foundation of our interactions with others. But what inspired Rhonda to write this book? And how can we apply her insights to our own lives?

💬 What happens when we don’t set boundaries in our relationships?
💬 Why do so many struggle to truly listen and be heard?
💬 How do unhealed emotions and past trauma affect our ability to connect with others?

Rhonda shares powerful insights, personal experiences, and real-life strategies to help you navigate the relationships in your life—whether it’s with family, friends, or even yourself.

Rhonda Green, author of Can We Talk?, uses her gift of writing to inspire and motivate others to become their greatest selves. Rhonda didn’t start as an author—it was divine inspiration that led her to pick up the pen. She’s here to talk about her newest book, Can We Talk?, which is a guide to improving relationships by focusing on respect, communication, emotions, and habits. We’re excited to unpack her story and gain some wisdom on building healthier, stronger relationships.

This episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, and thought-provoking discussion. If you’re ready to start having the conversations that matter, you won’t want to miss this one!

🎧 Tune in now and let’s talk about it!

📲 Listen on your favorite podcast platform and don’t forget to share with a friend who needs to hear this!

🔗 Connect with Rhonda Green:

🌐 Website: www.rhondagreen.me
📖 Book: Can We Talk? (Available online)
🎙️ Podcast: Inspire Podcast
📱 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook (@RhondaGreenHIS)

The Importance of Observing Black History Month

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Black History Month, celebrated every February in the United States, is a profound tribute to the significant contributions of African Americans throughout history. More than an annual commemoration, it’s a pivotal time for reflection, learning, and engaging with a rich cultural, social, and political legacy that continues to shape our world. Here’s why observing Black History Month is crucial:

1. Illuminating Untold Stories

Black History Month highlights stories and achievements that have often been sidelined in traditional narratives. Pioneers, intellectuals, artists, and activists from the African American community have historically had their contributions overlooked or minimized. By recognizing their impact, we not only correct historical oversights but also inspire future generations.

2. Fostering Understanding and Empathy

Celebrating Black History Month fosters a space for learning and empathy. It allows people of all backgrounds to grasp the struggles and triumphs of Black individuals throughout history. Understanding the past enables us to appreciate ongoing challenges in racial equality and strive towards a more just society.

3. Empowering Future Generations

For young Black individuals, Black History Month serves as a powerful source of empowerment. It underscores their lineage of resilience, innovation, and influence. The legacies of figures like Rosa Parks, Martin Luther King Jr., and Maya Angelou offer blueprints for perseverance, creativity, and courage, instilling pride and a sense of identity.

4. Cultivating a More Inclusive Society

Beyond retrospective, Black History Month charts a course forward by promoting an inclusive and diverse culture. It underscores that Black history is integral to American history. By exploring this rich tapestry, society gains deeper understanding, respect, and openness to diverse perspectives.

5. Acknowledging the Struggle for Equality

While a month of celebration, Black History Month also prompts reflection on the historical struggles and ongoing fight for racial equality. It’s a time to acknowledge progress and recommit to activism, advocacy, and allyship against systemic racism.

6. Inspiring Transformation

Above all, Black History Month catalyzes change. By spotlighting the accomplishments of Black individuals and the challenges they still face, the month initiates conversations that drive positive societal shifts. It encourages us to challenge stereotypes, confront biases, and actively pursue a more equitable future.

Conclusion

Black History Month transcends a designated period—it’s a reminder of the indelible contributions of Black individuals across history and today. It invites reflection on the past, engagement in the present, and a commitment to shaping a future grounded in inclusivity, equality, and mutual respect. Whether you’re a student, professional, or community member, this month invites you to participate in a movement that honors history, celebrates progress, and advocates for a brighter tomorrow.

Breaking the Chains of Trauma

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Trauma can feel like an invisible weight, holding you back from the life you truly want to live. But what if healing was closer than you think?

In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we sit down with licensed clinical social worker Daniel Gospodarek, who has dedicated his career to helping men, military members, and first responders heal from the lasting effects of trauma. With personal experience overcoming a traumatic brain injury, Daniel brings a unique and deeply empathetic perspective to his work.

During our conversation, we explore:
✔️ Why men struggle to seek help and how societal expectations play a role.
✔️ The impact of trauma on the body and mind—and how it often manifests in unexpected ways.
✔️ Game-changing therapies like EMDR and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy that are transforming lives.
✔️ The power of acknowledging pain without letting it define your future.

This is more than just a discussion—it’s a conversation about reclaiming control, embracing healing, and stepping into a life of purpose and resilience. If you or someone you love has ever felt trapped by trauma, you won’t want to miss this episode.

Daniel is a licensed clinical social worker with extensive experience helping men heal from trauma and regain control of their lives. He specializes in working with populations like military members, first responders, and those dealing with traumatic brain injuries. Daniel brings a unique perspective, having overcome his own traumatic brain injury as a teenager, and now uses that experience to guide others through their healing journeys. You can reach him at https://www.revitalizementalhealth.com/

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Love Beyond Valentine’s Day: Exploring the Depths of Love

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Valentine’s Day is often reduced to chocolates, flowers, and romantic gestures, but what if love is so much more? In our latest Thrive by The Rising Muse episode, we peel back the layers of love and explore its true essence.

From the unwavering love of God to the deep connections we share with family and friends—and even the challenge of loving those who don’t love us back—this conversation will challenge your perspective on love.

Join us as we discuss how to navigate relationships through faith, what it means to love beyond conditions, and why true love is an action, not just a feeling. We will also dive into self-love and setting boundaries, ensuring that love isn’t just something we give but something we nurture within ourselves.

This episode is more than a discussion—it’s an invitation to live out love every day. Are you ready to redefine what love means in your life? Tune in now and let’s thrive together!

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