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Finding God in Your Setbacks: Preparation for Growth

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Life often presents us with setbacks—moments when our plans unravel, our dreams seem distant, and our hearts ache with disappointment. In these challenging times, finding solace in faith can offer profound comfort and guide us toward unexpected growth. It is in these setbacks that we often find God’s hand at work, preparing us for greater things.

Embracing Setbacks as Divine Preparation

Setbacks are not merely obstacles but opportunities for spiritual transformation. They test our resilience, deepen our trust in God, and refine our character. As the apostle James wrote:

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” (James 1:2-3, NIV)

This perspective challenges us to see setbacks not as moments of despair but as chances to strengthen our faith and endurance. God uses these trials to prepare us for His purpose, shaping us into vessels capable of carrying His light in the darkest of times.

Trusting in God’s Sovereignty

Amid setbacks, it is natural to question God’s plan. Yet, Scripture reassures us of His sovereignty and unwavering love:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11, NIV)

Even when our circumstances seem bleak, trusting in God’s promises allows us to find peace and hope. His plans for us transcend our understanding, guiding us toward growth and fulfillment beyond our present struggles.

Seeking Spiritual Growth Through Adversity

Every setback offers an invitation to deepen our relationship with God. It is through adversity that we discover His strength within us:

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9, NIV)

In moments of weakness, God’s grace sustains us, empowering us to overcome challenges and emerge stronger in faith. These experiences mold us into vessels of His grace, equipped to share His love with others who may be walking through similar trials.

Finding Purpose in Pain

While setbacks may seem senseless, God works all things for our good:

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28, NIV)

Even in our deepest pain, God is at work, crafting beauty from ashes and preparing us for His divine purpose. Our setbacks become part of a greater narrative of redemption and restoration, showcasing God’s faithfulness through every trial.

Conclusion

Finding God in your setbacks is not about denying pain or dismissing challenges. It is a journey of faith where we learn to trust in His timing, His wisdom, and His unfailing love. As we navigate life’s uncertainties, let us embrace setbacks as opportunities for spiritual growth, knowing that through them, God prepares us to shine His light and love in a world that desperately needs it.

“And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.” (1 Peter 5:10, NIV)

In every setback, may you find the seeds of growth, the presence of God, and the promise of His enduring grace.

Living in the World but Not of It: A Call to Reflect Christ

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In recent times, many Christians have been led to believe that we are called to impose our beliefs on the world by force, forgetting a fundamental truth of our faith: we are in this world, but we are not of it. This misunderstanding has led to behaviors and attitudes that run contrary to the teachings of Jesus. It’s like asking hotel management to remodel the room we’re renting temporarily. We’ve forgotten that this world is not our permanent home. As believers, our mission is not to change the world by worldly means but to point others to Christ so that their hearts can be transformed.

Jesus’ words in John 17:14-16 remind us of our place: “I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it.” Our calling is to live as ambassadors of Christ, reflecting His love, grace, and truth while remembering that hatred, division, and force are tools of the enemy, who seeks to kill, deceive, and destroy (John 10:10).

The Mission We’ve Forgotten

The Great Commission calls us to make disciples, not to coerce others into belief. Jesus commands in Matthew 28:19-20, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” This mission requires patience, humility, and love. It’s not about forcing others to conform to our standards but about lovingly pointing them to the truth found in God’s Word.

Some have even gone so far as to attempt to manufacture events to hasten Jesus’ return. This is not only an act of pride but also selfishness. In Matthew 24:36, Jesus said, “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.” It is not our place to decide when Christ will return. Our focus should remain on the mission He has given us. If we truly love others as ourselves (Matthew 22:39), we will desire their salvation as much as we desired our own. Remember, someone shared the Gospel with us when we were lost. Let us not give up on others who have yet to know the truth.

Jesus Was Not a Political Figure

Many Christians today seem to forget that Jesus did not come to establish a political kingdom. He didn’t seek to change the laws of Rome or Jerusalem. Instead, He came to reveal the kingdom of heaven and to transform hearts. When we focus on imposing our beliefs through political or social power, we lose sight of the example Christ set for us.

In John 18:36, Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jewish leaders. But now my kingdom is from another place.” This statement underscores the spiritual nature of His mission. Our task is not to make this world our home but to invite others to prepare for the kingdom of heaven.

Reflecting Christ’s Love

When we are unkind to those who are different from us, we’re not acting like Jesus. Loving the sinner while rejecting the sin is the delicate balance we’re called to maintain. Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 provide a clear picture of what Christlike love looks like: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Sadly, many unbelievers are turned away from Christ and His church not solely because of deception but because of the behavior of Christians that fails to reflect Christ. As John 13:34-35 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Love, not force, is the mark of true discipleship.

Staying Focused on Our Calling

As followers of Christ, our job is not to participate in the ways of the world but to preach the Word of God so that more people can be saved. Romans 12:2 reminds us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” We cannot transform hearts—only God can do that. But we can live in a way that reflects His love, inviting others to experience His grace and truth.

The enemy seeks to sow division and hatred, but we are called to be instruments of peace. Let us remember our true mission: to share the Gospel, love others as Christ loves us, and reflect the kingdom of heaven in all we do. In doing so, we honor God and fulfill the purpose He has set before us.

From Tragedy to Triumph: Shelly Edwards Jorgensen’s Journey of Faith and Forgiveness

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In this episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we bring you an unforgettable story of resilience, faith, and the power of forgiveness. Shelly Edwards Jorgensen, author of Beautiful Ashes, joins us to share her harrowing yet inspiring journey. Imagine enduring the unimaginable—losing your mother to a violent crime, living through abuse, and facing overwhelming medical challenges. Shelly has survived these trials and found peace and healing in the most miraculous ways.

Through her conversation with hosts Naty and Veda, Shelly opens up about her path to healing and the pivotal moments that tested her faith. What kept her going? How did she learn to forgive in the face of such betrayal and loss? And, most importantly, what lessons does she want to share with others walking through their own darkness?

This episode is a powerful testament to the human spirit’s ability to rise above even the deepest of ashes. Tune in to hear how Shelly’s faith, courage, and the support of loved ones carried her through—and how her story can inspire you to overcome whatever life may throw your way.

Shelly attended Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah where she was the first female to graduate with a degree in Manufacturing Engineering.  After graduation, she moved back to her home state of Michigan and landed her dream job as a manufacturing engineer to start off her 20+ year career for Ford Motor Company. A few years into her engineering career, she decided to go back to school to get her MBA.

Shelly has spent over 30 years serving within her church congregation and community. She has always enjoyed serving others.

Shelly enjoys wood working and has amassed a workshop of her dreams.  She also enjoys being outside in the fresh air, trail riding in her ATV and enjoying the Great Lakes boating & jet skiing.

Shelly is happily married to her husband Glenn.  She is a step-mother, grandmother, and adored aunt!

If you want to know more about Shelly’s story, you can visit my website http://www.beautifulashesmemoir.com, Facebook Instagram, Twitter (X) and YouTube

Don’t miss this gripping conversation—it might just change the way you see your own struggles. Listen now on Thrive by The Rising Muse!

The Power of Preparation and Healing – Domestic Violence & Faith (Part 2)

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In part two of our Thrive by The Rising Muse series on domestic violence, faith, and healing, we delve even deeper into the complexities of escaping abusive relationships. Joined again by trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook, we uncover essential strategies for survival, including how to create a safety plan, the importance of finding your voice, and the power of faith in healing.

How Can You Prepare for the Unexpected?

Tabitha shares crucial tips on how to create a personalized safety plan—from where to safely store vital documents to the simple items that could make a world of difference in a crisis (like clean underwear and a toothbrush). But more than that, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself emotionally and spiritually during the process of leaving an abusive relationship.

Faith as a Guide Through Darkness

As we explore the role of faith, we discuss how churches can be a source of support, but also where they sometimes fall short. Tabitha doesn’t shy away from the difficult conversations, like reconciling faith with the harsh realities of abuse and understanding God’s true intentions when it comes to divorce and protection for the vulnerable.

Why This Episode is a Must-Listen

Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or just someone looking to learn, this episode is filled with actionable insights and heartfelt wisdom. From personal stories to professional advice, Tabitha’s passion for helping those affected by domestic violence shines through, offering hope and practical steps for anyone who may be in a dangerous situation.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, and she co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.

Listen to part two of this compelling conversation on domestic violence, faith, and recovery now. Don’t forget to subscribe for more important discussions like this one, and share it with someone who might need to hear it.

If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available—you are not alone.

Domestic Violence, Faith & Healing (Part 1)

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Are you ready to confront one of our most difficult yet vital conversations? In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we sit down with renowned trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook for an unflinching look into domestic violence and its devastating impact on families, mental health, and faith.

The Darkness of Coercive Control

Too often, domestic violence is misunderstood or oversimplified. In this eye-opening episode, Tabitha walks us through the different, often invisible, forms of abuse like coercive control—where the victim’s freedom, identity, and autonomy are systematically stripped away. It’s not always about physical harm. As Tabitha explains, it’s the slow, methodical erosion of a person’s sense of self that can be just as, if not more, damaging.

Faith and the Journey to Healing

What role does faith play in both surviving and healing from domestic violence? As a survivor herself, Tabitha shares her deeply personal story of how God walked with her through the pain and ultimately called her to help others do the same. In this episode, she offers practical advice on how faith communities can provide real, life-changing support to those in abusive situations.

The Moment of Freedom

One of the most powerful moments in the conversation comes when Tabitha describes the importance of regaining autonomy. She recounts stories of survivors—some of whom felt a rush of liberation in the simplest moments, like sitting in a car, knowing they finally had control over their own lives. It’s a reminder that even in the darkest times, freedom is possible.

Why You Can’t Miss Part 2

This episode is just the beginning. We’ve only scratched the surface of this complex and important topic. In part two, we’ll dive even deeper into the spiritual and emotional aspects of domestic violence recovery, as well as provide actionable resources for those who may be suffering in silence.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, as well as co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.

Listen to part one of this transformative conversation on domestic violence, faith, and mental health now, and don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss the continuation of this powerful series.

If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available, and you are not alone.

Where Is Your Faith?

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In recent years, there has been a noticeable shift as many people choose to leave their churches or distance themselves from their faith. This trend often stems from negative experiences within their religious communities or deep disappointment in religious leaders who have been found guilty of despicable acts. These situations beg a crucial question: where is your faith placed? Is it in God or in the fallible humans who lead religious congregations?

It’s essential to acknowledge that religious leaders, despite their higher calling, are still human beings. They possess the same weaknesses and capacity for wrongdoing as anyone else. The Bible reminds us in Psalm 118:8, “It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in humans.” This verse emphasizes that placing our faith solely in human beings is fraught with risks. Humans can fail, disappoint, and lead us astray, but God remains constant and unchanging.

When a religious leader falls from grace, the impact on their congregation can be profound. Feelings of betrayal and disillusionment are natural. However, it is critical to remember that these leaders are not the foundation of our faith. Jeremiah 17:5-7 states, “Thus says the Lord: ‘Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord. Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord.’” These verses highlight the dangers of placing our ultimate trust in people rather than in God.

The Bible consistently directs us to place our faith in God, not in humans. Hebrews 12:2 advises, “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.” This guidance is crucial, particularly in times of disappointment and disillusionment. When our faith is firmly rooted in God, we can withstand the storms that arise from human failure and sin.

It is beneficial for each of us to reflect on the foundation of our faith. Are we more invested in the personalities and actions of our religious leaders than in God Himself? Matthew 7:24-27 tells the parable of the wise and foolish builders, emphasizing the importance of building our spiritual foundation on the solid rock of God’s teachings rather than on the shifting sands of human behavior.

For those feeling disheartened by the actions of others within their religious community, take heart. Use this opportunity to refocus and realign your faith. Galatians 6:9 encourages us, “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” Persistence in faith, despite human failings, will ultimately lead to spiritual growth and fulfillment.

As we navigate the complexities of faith within religious communities, it is vital to continually examine our hearts and ensure that our faith remains anchored in God. Reflect on where your faith is placed and recognize when it may have been affected by misplaced trust. By keeping our eyes fixed on God, we can find strength, resilience, and true peace, even amidst human imperfections.

In the end, let us remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” This scripture is a timeless reminder to trust in God above all else and to find our security and direction in Him alone.

Until next time, stay blessed.

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Unlocking Freedom: How Biblical Truths Impact Mental Health

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As the 4th of July approaches, we often find ourselves reflecting on the concepts of liberty and independence that form the bedrock of our nation. But what if we told you that there’s a deeper level of freedom that can profoundly affect your mental well-being? In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we dive into the spiritual freedom presented in the Bible and its remarkable implications for mental health.

A Unique 4th of July Perspective

In this special episode, hosts Naty and Veda bring a refreshing take on what it means to be truly free. While fireworks and barbecues are wonderful traditions, the freedom that stems from spiritual liberation offers a sense of purpose, hope, and resilience that transcends our everyday experiences.

Biblical Narratives on Freedom

We journey through some of the most powerful stories in the Bible, starting with the Old Testament’s account of the Israelites’ exodus from Egypt. This tale of physical and spiritual liberation showcases God’s enduring commitment to freeing people from oppression. We also explore the Year of Jubilee, a time when debts were forgiven and slaves were freed, highlighting a divine mandate for economic and social justice.

In the New Testament, we delve into Paul’s writings, particularly Galatians 5:1, which speaks about the freedom found in Christ. This spiritual freedom, as emphasized by Jesus in John 8:36, transcends physical circumstances and liberates believers from the bondage of sin.

Freedom’s Impact on Mental Health

But how does this biblical concept of freedom translate into mental health benefits? Throughout the episode, Naty and Veda discuss:

  • A Sense of Purpose and Identity: Understanding your place and purpose through spiritual freedom can significantly boost self-esteem and reduce feelings of worthlessness.
  • Resilience and Coping Mechanisms: The promise of eternal life and the support of a faith community provide hope and resilience, essential for coping with life’s challenges.
  • Ethical and Moral Guidance: Biblical principles offer a moral compass, reducing internal conflict and stress by aligning actions with values.
  • Addressing Guilt and Shame: The belief in redemption through Christ provides a pathway to deal with guilt and shame, offering solace and a chance to start anew.

A Call to Reflect and Engage

As we celebrate this Independence Day, we encourage you to reflect on these timeless biblical truths and consider how they can transform your mental health. Whether you’re seeking support within a faith community or exploring these principles individually, the freedom offered by the Bible can lead to a healthier, more fulfilling life.

Don’t miss out on this enlightening episode. Tune in to “Thrive by The Rising Muse” and discover how true freedom comes from within. Share your thoughts, leave a comment, and join us in building a community where faith, family, and mental health thrive together.

Stay blessed, stay free, and don’t forget to thrive. Happy 4th of July!

Beyond The Easter Commercialization

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The commercialization of Easter has become an undeniable reality in our modern society. From colorful eggs to chocolate bunnies, the springtime holiday has often lost its deeper significance amidst the frenzy of consumerism. But do we truly understand the origins and the profound symbolism behind the treats and gifts exchanged during this religious occasion?

One aspect often overlooked is the origin of the Easter bunny. While many attribute its roots to commercialism, historians trace it back to Eostre, the pagan goddess of fertility and spring. According to ancient tales, Eostre transformed a freezing bird into a rabbit, which continued to lay eggs like a bird. This bunny, in gratitude, decorated its eggs—a tradition that has transcended centuries.

Yet, beyond pagan folklore, Easter eggs carry a profound religious connotation. According to Eastern Orthodox tradition, Mary Magdalene, upon witnessing Jesus’ resurrection, held an egg as a symbol of rebirth and the eternal cycle of life. (I’m not sure where this comes from. All the versions of the bible I have say nothing about Mary Magdalene holding and egg. Why would you run to a tomb holding an egg? Doesn’t make sense to me)

The story goes that Emperor Tiberius Caesar dismissed her proclamation, likening the likelihood of Christ’s resurrection to the redness of the egg—a symbol of skepticism that contrasts with the profound truth of the resurrection.

As Christians, it’s crucial to pause and reflect on the essence of this celebration. The resurrection of Jesus Christ stands at the core of our faith—it’s the pivotal moment that defines our redemption and salvation. While the birth of Christ holds its significance, it’s through his resurrection that he transcends from mere man to the Messiah, offering humanity the promise of eternal life.

Amid chocolate indulgence and bunny-themed festivities, it’s imperative to reconnect with the true essence of Resurrection Day. It’s not about forsaking celebration but about refocusing our hearts and minds on the ultimate sacrifice and triumph of Jesus Christ. It’s about instilling in our children the profound truth of salvation, the love that compelled God to send His Son for our sake.

Transitioning from Easter to Resurrection Day may seem like a subtle semantic shift, but it carries profound implications. It’s a declaration that our celebration isn’t merely about eggs and bunnies but about the transformative power of resurrection. It’s a reminder to prioritize the spiritual over the material, the eternal over the ephemeral.

So, as we gather with loved ones this spring, let’s reclaim the true essence of this sacred holiday. Let’s exchange chocolate with gratitude, colored eggs with reverence, and above all, let’s celebrate the resurrection of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Happy Resurrection Day to you and your loved ones!

May the joy of the risen Christ illuminate your hearts and homes, now and forevermore.

Remember, the time is near. Our first episode of Thrive will launch on April 7th, discussing the the stigma of mental health in the faith community. Eventually the podcast will be available in all podcasting platforms, but YouTube and Spotify will have it first as of 7pm. Stay tuned, many good things are coming.