Breaking Generational Cycles: A Path to Healing

In today’s episode of “Thrive by the Rising Muse,” we delve into the profound topic of breaking generational cycles. These cycles, often unconsciously passed down through families, shape our thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. But the power to change lies within us, and this episode explores how we can become the lineage changers.

Understanding Generational Cycles

Generational cycles are patterns of behavior, beliefs, and coping mechanisms inherited from previous generations. They can manifest as emotional suppression, financial instability, or unhealthy relationship dynamics. Recognizing these patterns is the first step towards breaking them.

The Emotional Cost of Change

Breaking these cycles is not without its challenges. It often involves feelings of guilt, loneliness, and the pressure to do better for future generations. However, choosing healing over history is a courageous act that can transform not only your life but also the lives of generations to come.

Tools for Breaking Cycles

To break these cycles, one must engage in inner child work, set boundaries, and seek therapy or counseling. It’s about creating new patterns that foster emotional, relational, and spiritual wholeness. Remember, healing is a form of inheritance, and by breaking these cycles, you leave a legacy of peace and emotional intelligence.

Breaking generational cycles is a transformative journey that requires strength and resilience. As you embark on this path, know that you are not alone. Share this journey with others who are also striving to break free from the past. Together, we can create a future filled with healing and hope.

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During This Season, You Are Seen

The holiday season is often wrapped in bright lights, warm gatherings, and words like joy, peace, and merry. But for many, December doesn’t feel merry at all. Instead, it magnifies the ache of what—and who—is missing.

Maybe you’re facing the first Christmas without someone you love.
Maybe a divorce has fractured your sense of home.
Maybe a job loss has left you anxious about the future.
Maybe your health has shifted your daily reality.
Or maybe a broken relationship has left an empty chair at the table—and an even emptier space in your heart.

If you’re dreading the holidays this year, you’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not forgotten by God.

Below is gentle truth, comfort, and hope for anyone walking into the season with grief, fear, or disappointment.


When You’re Grieving a Loved One

Scripture: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18

Loss has a way of turning familiar traditions into reminders of what has changed. What once brought joy may now stir pain. Grief doesn’t follow a calendar, and it certainly doesn’t pause for December.

Hopeful Hints

  • Give yourself permission to feel. God isn’t asking you to pretend.
  • Create a moment of remembrance—light a candle, share a story, display a photo.
  • Let this be a season of gentleness, not pressure.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, sit with me in this tender space where joy and sorrow coexist. Be my comfort today.”


When You’re Divorced or Separated

Scripture: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3

Shifts in family structure can cast a spotlight on what’s been lost. Traditions change, routines break, and loneliness tries to creep in where connection used to dwell.

Hopeful Hints

  • Release the pressure to recreate the past.
  • Start small, new traditions that honor where you are now.
  • Surround yourself with voices that speak life, hope, and peace.

Prayer Thought: “God, restore my sense of belonging and rebuild the places within me that feel broken.”


When You’ve Lost a Job or Financial Stability

Scripture: “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

When finances are uncertain, the holiday season can feel overwhelming. Expectations rise, but resources don’t. Yet your value has never been tied to what you can buy, give, or provide.

Hopeful Hints

  • Simplify the season—meaning always matters more than material.
  • Seek support without shame; community is God’s design.
  • Remember that provision rests in God’s hands, not your performance.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, be my Provider. Show me Your abundance even in this season of lack.”


When Relationships Are Broken or Strained

Scripture: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18

Heartbreak isn’t limited to romantic relationships. A shattered friendship, tension with a family member, or distance with a child can make the holidays especially painful.

Hopeful Hints

  • Let go of forced togetherness; sometimes peace means stepping back.
  • Protect your heart with healthy boundaries.
  • Pray for reconciliation, but also pray for your own healing.

Prayer Thought: “God, guide me in my relationships with grace, wisdom, and peace.”


When You’re Battling Health Issues

Scripture: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

Illness—whether physical or emotional—can make the holidays feel heavy. Low energy, constant pain, or limitations can reshape what celebration looks like.

Hopeful Hints

  • Celebrate what you can, not what you feel you must.
  • Prioritize rest over expectation.
  • Allow others to support you—this is not a burden you have to carry alone.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, strengthen me, comfort me, and give me grace for every moment.”


A Final Word of Hope

Even when the holidays feel overwhelming, Christmas itself was born into darkness. Jesus stepped into a weary, grieving, broken world—and He still steps into ours. His birth remains good news for heavy hearts.

Scripture to Hold Onto:
“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” — John 1:5

Whether this season finds you mourning, adjusting, rebuilding, hoping, or simply surviving, you are seen. You are loved. And God is with you in every breath, every tear, and every quiet moment.

May this be a gentle December, where the presence of God becomes your greatest gift and your steady place of peace.

Healing the Inner Child: A Journey to Wholeness

In this episode of “Thrive by the Rising Muse,” hosts Naty and Veda explore the profound topic of healing the inner child. This conversation is not just about revisiting the past but about embracing the journey to emotional and spiritual wholeness. Naty and Veda share personal stories and insights, reminding us that the inner child is the part of us that holds both joy and pain, shaping who we become.

Understanding the Inner Child

Naty and Veda explain how childhood experiences, both joyful and painful, influence our adult lives. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging these memories to facilitate healing and personal growth. Steps to Healing: The episode outlines practical steps for healing, including acknowledging hurt, reparenting oneself, and setting boundaries. Naty and Veda share their personal journeys of forgiveness and the freedom it brings. Spiritual Insights: Drawing on scripture, they explore how faith and God’s love play a pivotal role in the healing process, providing hope and restoration.

Join us for this heartfelt episode as we explore the path to healing and thriving. Tune in to “Thrive by the Rising Muse” and embark on your journey to wholeness.

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Holistic Healing and Faith: A Journey Toward Wholeness

In today’s fast-paced world, our minds, bodies, and spirits are often treated as separate parts of who we are. But what if true healing comes from seeing ourselves as whole beings? This is where holistic healing and faith integration meet—creating a path that brings balance, peace, and restoration.

On this week’s episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, hosts Naty and Veda sit down with Melissa Armstrong, a former nurse turned holistic health coach, to explore how faith and wellness complement each other. Melissa opens up about her personal journey from traditional nursing into holistic health, sharing the ways trauma, emotional wounds, and nutrition all impact our well-being.

Together, they dive deep into the role of faith as a bridge that connects the inner world with the divine—allowing healing to flow naturally. Through practices like meditation, mindful living, and spiritual grounding, Melissa reminds us that healing isn’t just about fixing symptoms, but about restoring joy, balance, and connection.

Key Takeaways from this Episode:

  • Trauma affects both the mind and the body—and healing requires tending to both.
  • Faith provides purpose, strength, and hope throughout the wellness journey.
  • Holistic practices like meditation, nutrition, and mindful living create harmony when integrated with spiritual beliefs.
  • Healing is a journey, not a destination, and every person is worthy of wholeness.

If you’ve ever wondered how faith and wellness can work together, this conversation will inspire and encourage you. Whether you’re seeking healing from trauma, looking for balance in your daily life, or simply curious about holistic health, this episode will leave you with powerful insights and practical steps forward.

To connect with Melissa, www.holistichealthbymelissa.com

🎧 Listen now and discover how faith and holistic healing can transform the way you see wellness and wholeness.

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Love Beyond Valentine’s Day: Exploring the Depths of Love

Valentine’s Day is often reduced to chocolates, flowers, and romantic gestures, but what if love is so much more? In our latest Thrive by The Rising Muse episode, we peel back the layers of love and explore its true essence.

From the unwavering love of God to the deep connections we share with family and friends—and even the challenge of loving those who don’t love us back—this conversation will challenge your perspective on love.

Join us as we discuss how to navigate relationships through faith, what it means to love beyond conditions, and why true love is an action, not just a feeling. We will also dive into self-love and setting boundaries, ensuring that love isn’t just something we give but something we nurture within ourselves.

This episode is more than a discussion—it’s an invitation to live out love every day. Are you ready to redefine what love means in your life? Tune in now and let’s thrive together!

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Breaking the Stigma: Finding Hope and Healing in the Midst of Negative Emotions

We’ve all been there—caught in a whirlwind of emotions like stress, anxiety, and self-doubt. But what if you could transform those negative feelings into something empowering? In this deeply moving episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, hosts Naty and Veda sit down with Sue Bowles, a master certified life coach and award-winning author, who has turned her personal struggles into a message of hope and healing.

Sue’s journey from trauma to thriving is both inspiring and eye-opening. She’s not only learned to navigate her own emotional ups and downs but has become a powerful advocate for mental health. If you’ve ever wondered how to break free from the grip of anxiety or tackle those negative thoughts head-on, this episode is for you.

Why You Should Listen:

In this candid conversation, Sue shares:

  • The power of vulnerability and how it’s key to healing.
  • The practice of gratitude and how it can immediately interrupt anxiety.
  • Why seeking professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness—especially in faith communities.
  • How to help others who are struggling without judgment, and the role of service in healing.

Sue also opens up about her personal battles with childhood trauma, an eating disorder, and even suicidal thoughts, offering real, raw insights into how she found healing—and how you can too. It’s not a quick fix, but Sue’s philosophy of taking “one step ahead” is the key to navigating your own journey.

Don’t Miss Out:

This episode is filled with wisdom, hope, and practical tools you can start using today. Whether you’re looking for ways to manage negative emotions or simply want to feel inspired by someone who has walked through the fire and emerged stronger, Sue’s message will leave you motivated and empowered.

Sue Bowles is a survivor turned thriver as an author, speaker, and Master Certified Life Coach. Having done the hard work of healing from a childhood rape, an eating disorder, other sexual assaults, and considering suicide, Sue now defines the effect the life-altering events have on her. The events no longer define Sue; she defines them.
“You only have to be a step ahead to help the person behind you” is the bedrock to the value Sue brings. She founded My Step Ahead and is the “Chief Instigator” behind the new Dare to Believe Movement, whose purpose is to nurture others to ‘dare to believe that you matter,’ knowing that nothing changes until that bedrock belief is solidified.
Whether speaking on a podcast, a stage, or one-on-one, Sue’s enthusiasm is contagious, shining the light of hope wherever the listener needs.
Sue’s award-winning first book, “This Much I Know…The Space Between” is available on Amazon and Kindle.

Call to Action:

Ready to break the stigma surrounding mental health and start your healing journey? Listen to the full episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse now!

And for more resources, visit SueBowles.com to grab her free PDF, “Quieting Your Inner Karen,” and discover how to silence that inner critic for good.

Finding Gratitude in Absence: Honoring Loved Ones During Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is a season of gratitude, connection, and the warmth of sharing meals with those closest to our hearts. Yet, for many, it’s also a time when the ache of absence feels especially profound. An empty chair at the table may remind us of loved ones who are distant, estranged, or no longer with us. These quiet moments of longing reflect cherished memories and unspoken wishes.

But even amid the bittersweet pangs of missing someone, there are ways to honor those feelings, foster meaningful connections, and embrace the gratitude that Thanksgiving inspires.

1. Acknowledge Their Absence

Grief and longing are natural companions during the holiday season. Rather than suppress these emotions, invite them to be part of the day. Speak your loved one’s name, share a favorite story about them, or recall a cherished memory. Acknowledging their absence doesn’t diminish the joy of the season—it creates a space for joy to coexist with remembrance.

Consider a simple ritual to honor them, such as:

  • Lighting a candle in their memory at the dinner table.
  • Displaying a meaningful memento they treasured.
  • Writing a heartfelt letter expressing your thoughts and feelings.

These acts of remembrance not only honor their legacy but also keep their presence alive in your heart.

2. Create New Traditions

When the weight of absence feels too heavy, creating new traditions can offer a sense of renewal and comfort. You don’t have to replicate the past to honor it. Instead, find ways to infuse the holiday with fresh meaning:

  • Cook a dish they loved and share stories about why it was special.
  • Take a walk in their honor and reflect on the lessons they imparted.
  • Start a gratitude jar where everyone contributes a note of thanks, creating a shared experience that bridges the gap between past and present.

For those separated by distance, a video call or sharing a favorite photo can provide a moment of connection that transcends miles.

3. Lean on Community

Grief often feels isolating, but you don’t have to bear it alone. Reach out to friends, family, or trusted support groups. Sharing memories of your loved one can foster connection and mutual healing. Others may be missing them too, and together you can honor their impact on your lives.

If the loneliness feels too much, consider giving back. Volunteer to serve meals, donate to a cause your loved one cared about, or spend time with others who may also feel the weight of loss during the holidays. Acts of kindness can bring purpose and comfort to the day.

4. Find Gratitude in the Present

Even in the midst of loss, gratitude remains a powerful balm. Reflect on the laughter, lessons, and love your loved one brought into your life. These memories are gifts that continue to shape who you are.

At the same time, open your heart to the blessings still present—those gathered around you, the warmth of a shared meal, or even the beauty of a quiet, reflective moment. Gratitude doesn’t erase longing, but it can remind us of the richness of what we’ve experienced and what still lies ahead.

5. Be Gentle With Yourself

Holidays stir up complex emotions, and it’s okay to feel them all—joy, sorrow, love, and grief. There’s no right or wrong way to navigate the absence of someone you hold dear.

Allow yourself to let go of the pressure to make the day perfect. If the emotions feel too overwhelming, take a moment to step away, breathe, or cry if you need to. Honoring what your heart needs is an act of grace.

Carrying Their Love Forward

While Thanksgiving may amplify their absence, it also provides a chance to honor their love and legacy. Whether through stories, new traditions, or quiet moments of reflection, you carry their essence forward with you.

This Thanksgiving, as you gather around the table, let yourself hold them close in your heart. In doing so, you may find that they’ve never truly left. Missing them is a testament to the deep connection you shared—a bond that transcends time and space.

May your Thanksgiving be filled with gratitude, gentle healing, and the comforting presence of cherished memories.

Unlock the Secrets to Healing from Grief with Carolyn J. Murphy!

Are you struggling to move forward after loss, or perhaps supporting someone who is? You won’t want to miss this powerful episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse! This week, hosts Naty and Veda sit down with Carolyn J. Murphy—author, coach, and certified peer recovery specialist—who knows the depths of grief and the heights of healing.

In this episode, Carolyn shares her personal journey of loss, anger, and eventual transformation. Known as the “Mindshift Coach,” she reveals how shifting your mindset can be the key to unlocking emotional freedom. With profound insights from her book God, Why Did You Save Me?, Carolyn offers practical steps for those feeling stuck in grief and searching for a way out.

Whether you’re looking for tips on how to cope with grief, curious about how faith can carry you through dark times, or simply need some encouragement, this conversation will open your eyes to the possibility of healing. Carolyn reminds us that grief isn’t just about death—it’s about any kind of loss. And more importantly, it’s about finding purpose again.

Get ready for an episode filled with honesty, compassion, and wisdom. Carolyn’s message of hope is exactly what we all need to hear.


Highlights You Won’t Want to Miss:

  • How Carolyn learned to manage her grief after years of wearing a “mask.”
  • Why the first step to healing is giving yourself permission to grieve.
  • Practical strategies to break free from emotional cycles like anger and perfectionism.
  • The powerful role of faith and mindset in the recovery process.

To contact Carolyn

E-business card link: https://hihello.me/p/04d445a5-0f11-4815-9545-23287743ab43?sharer_id=UjMtyTW6SrQQUbmIMXt9U3caGTC3 (includes social media links)

Listening Sessions: https://payhip.com/FirmFoundationsCO

Mindfulness Practice Challenge: https://firm-foundations-co-llc.ck.page/15be6b2d67


Tune in now and take the first step towards healing. This conversation could be the spark that changes everything!


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From Tragedy to Triumph: Shelly Edwards Jorgensen’s Journey of Faith and Forgiveness

In this episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we bring you an unforgettable story of resilience, faith, and the power of forgiveness. Shelly Edwards Jorgensen, author of Beautiful Ashes, joins us to share her harrowing yet inspiring journey. Imagine enduring the unimaginable—losing your mother to a violent crime, living through abuse, and facing overwhelming medical challenges. Shelly has survived these trials and found peace and healing in the most miraculous ways.

Through her conversation with hosts Naty and Veda, Shelly opens up about her path to healing and the pivotal moments that tested her faith. What kept her going? How did she learn to forgive in the face of such betrayal and loss? And, most importantly, what lessons does she want to share with others walking through their own darkness?

This episode is a powerful testament to the human spirit’s ability to rise above even the deepest of ashes. Tune in to hear how Shelly’s faith, courage, and the support of loved ones carried her through—and how her story can inspire you to overcome whatever life may throw your way.

Shelly attended Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah where she was the first female to graduate with a degree in Manufacturing Engineering.  After graduation, she moved back to her home state of Michigan and landed her dream job as a manufacturing engineer to start off her 20+ year career for Ford Motor Company. A few years into her engineering career, she decided to go back to school to get her MBA.

Shelly has spent over 30 years serving within her church congregation and community. She has always enjoyed serving others.

Shelly enjoys wood working and has amassed a workshop of her dreams.  She also enjoys being outside in the fresh air, trail riding in her ATV and enjoying the Great Lakes boating & jet skiing.

Shelly is happily married to her husband Glenn.  She is a step-mother, grandmother, and adored aunt!

If you want to know more about Shelly’s story, you can visit my website http://www.beautifulashesmemoir.com, Facebook Instagram, Twitter (X) and YouTube

Don’t miss this gripping conversation—it might just change the way you see your own struggles. Listen now on Thrive by The Rising Muse!

Transform Your Thoughts: Practical Steps to Healing

In the hustle and bustle of modern life, our thoughts often dictate our emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being. Negative thinking patterns, self-doubt, and internal struggles can weigh us down. However, Scripture reminds us that we have the power to renew our minds and experience healing, not only emotionally but also spiritually. If you’re seeking to transform your thoughts and walk a path of healing, here are some practical steps to get you started, backed by the timeless truths of the Bible.

1. Recognize and Acknowledge Your Thoughts

The first step to transforming your thoughts is to recognize them. What are the thoughts that dominate your mind? Are they uplifting, or are they pulling you into a cycle of negativity and despair? It’s important to be aware of your internal dialogue so that you can change what needs changing.

In Scripture, Paul advises us to take control of our thoughts:
“We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
2 Corinthians 10:5 (NIV)

By actively recognizing negative thoughts and holding them up to the truth of God’s Word, you can begin the process of transformation. Awareness is the foundation of change.

2. Renew Your Mind with the Word of God

The Bible provides powerful tools for renewing your mind. The Word of God acts as a mirror, reflecting the truth of who we are and the thoughts we should entertain. Immersing yourself in Scripture allows God’s truth to reshape your mental and spiritual patterns.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Romans 12:2 (NIV)

The renewal process involves replacing negative, harmful thoughts with positive, Christ-centered truths. This doesn’t happen overnight, but with consistent study and meditation on God’s promises, your thought life will begin to reflect His peace and wisdom.

Practical Tip:

  • Daily Bible Reading: Set aside time each day to read Scriptures related to peace, healing, and hope. Journaling these verses and reflecting on how they apply to your life can be incredibly powerful.

3. Speak Life Over Yourself

Our thoughts are often influenced by the words we speak. Negative self-talk can become a cycle of internal damage, while speaking words of life can transform how we view ourselves and our circumstances. Scripture emphasizes the power of the tongue in shaping our reality:

“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
Proverbs 18:21 (NIV)

It’s not enough to simply think positively; speaking God’s truth over your life reinforces that mindset. Declare God’s promises over yourself daily.

Affirmation Exercise:

  • Affirmations Based on Scripture: Write down affirmations that are rooted in God’s Word. For example, if you’re struggling with fear, remind yourself, “God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7).

4. Guard Your Mind Against Negative Influences

The Bible teaches us to guard our hearts and minds because what we allow into them will shape our thoughts and actions. In a world where negativity is constantly broadcast, it’s essential to be selective about what we consume—whether it be media, conversations, or relationships.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)

This means limiting exposure to toxic environments that fuel negative thoughts and embracing godly influences that encourage a spirit of love, joy, and peace. Consider the content you watch, listen to, and engage with.

Practical Tip:

  • Curate Your Content: Be intentional about what you read, listen to, and watch. Choose uplifting music, sermons, or podcasts that align with the transformation you are seeking in your thought life.

5. Practice Gratitude and Focus on the Good

Gratitude is a powerful antidote to negative thinking. When we intentionally focus on the blessings in our lives, our thoughts begin to shift from negativity to positivity. The Bible encourages us to dwell on what is good and praiseworthy:

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
Philippians 4:8 (NIV)

Gratitude rewires your brain to see the good, even in challenging situations. By practicing this regularly, you can train your mind to default to positivity rather than dwelling on negativity.

Gratitude Practice:

  • Daily Gratitude List: At the end of each day, write down three things you are grateful for. This could be anything from a kind word spoken by a friend to the beauty of nature you observed. Focusing on blessings shifts your mindset from scarcity to abundance.

6. Surrender Your Worries to God

Many of our negative thoughts are rooted in anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about the future. The Bible invites us to cast our burdens on God and to trust Him with all our worries and concerns:

“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”
1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)

Learning to surrender control and trust God with the outcome can free your mind from the weight of constant worry. When anxiety starts to creep in, remind yourself that God is in control, and He is working everything for your good.

Practical Tip:

  • Prayer of Surrender: Begin your day with a prayer of surrender, laying your worries and fears before God. Trust Him to guide you and bring healing to every area of your life.

7. Seek Community and Support

Transformation and healing are not meant to be walked alone. The Bible highlights the importance of community in fostering growth and healing:

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”
1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV)

Find a community of believers who will encourage you, pray with you, and keep you accountable. Healing and transformation often happen in the context of supportive, loving relationships where others can help guide you back to truth when your thoughts wander.

Action Step:

  • Join a Small Group or Bible Study: Being part of a Bible study or a small group provides the opportunity to share struggles, receive encouragement, and grow spiritually alongside others.

Conclusion

Transforming your thoughts is a journey, not an overnight fix. Through consistent effort, prayer, and reliance on God’s Word, you can experience profound healing and renewal in your mind and spirit. As you take these steps, remember that God is with you, guiding you every step of the way. His desire is for you to walk in freedom and peace, and by aligning your thoughts with His truth, you can live a life transformed.

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)

May your mind be renewed, your heart healed, and your life transformed as you walk in His truth and grace.