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Embracing Resilience and Healing – Karin’s Journey

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In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we delve into an extraordinary story of resilience, faith, and healing. We are honored to host Karin, a remarkable woman who has turned her personal experiences with childhood abuse into a powerful testimony. Karin, an author, motivational speaker, and blogger, shares her journey of overcoming adversity and finding her purpose. This episode is a beacon of hope for those seeking to start their healing journey.

Karin’s journey is one of profound transformation. From enduring the trauma of childhood abuse to emerging as a source of inspiration for many, her story is a testament to the power of faith and resilience. In the podcast, she candidly shares how she navigated the complexities of her past, sought healing, and found her calling as an author.

Karin’s story is not just about surviving but thriving. She shares how she carried the emotional burden of her father’s abuse into adulthood, affecting her relationships and mental health. However, her unwavering faith and determination to break the cycle of pain set her on a path to healing. Through her faith, she learned the importance of forgiveness, not just for her abuser, but for her own peace and liberation.

A Message of Hope:
Karin’s book and her journey offer practical steps for those looking to start their healing journey. She emphasizes the need to let go of the past and embrace forgiveness as a means to move forward. Her story is a reminder that with faith, determination, and the willingness to change, it is possible to overcome even the most challenging circumstances.

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We invite you to listen to this empowering episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse. Karin’s story is a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith. Whether you are seeking inspiration, practical advice, or simply a message of hope, this episode is for you.

Karin and her husband, James, have been married for forty-seven years. They live in Sydney, Australia. They have two married sons and three grandkids that they adore. Karin writes in Christian non–fiction and clean fiction romance genres. After a long walk, she enjoys reading an excellent novel. She loves to read to her three grandchildren. Karin believes a splendid book can whisk you into the world of her characters.

Karin tells stories that make people happy. Enjoy a cup of coffee and immerse yourself in her characters’ escapades. Her novels are delightful escapades with charming characters and a touch of romance, humor, and anticipation.

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Interview with Shaazia Terry: A Journey of Faith and Resilience

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Welcome back to The Rising Muse, where we bring you inspiring stories of individuals who have overcome tremendous challenges to find their purpose and share their gifts with the world. Today, we have the pleasure of introducing Shaazia Terry, a young Christian author who has turned her life’s trials into a testament of faith and resilience. Join us as we delve into Shaazia’s journey, from experiencing homelessness to becoming a beacon of hope through her writing and music.

Shaazia Terry’s journey has been nothing short of remarkable. Reflecting on what led her to become homeless, Shaazia shared, “Yeah, at the time, both my mom and I were homeless. I left my job, which led to our situation.” This challenging period in her life profoundly shaped her perspective on faith and life. “It taught me to depend on God. It strengthened my faith as He came through and provided for my needs,” she said.

Raised in the church, Shaazia always believed in God, but it wasn’t until a significant personal loss that her faith deepened. “I always believed in God and was raised in the church, but I never had a personal relationship with Him. That changed after my mom died,” she recounted. This pivotal moment inspired her to rededicate her life to God.

Shaazia has been writing stories and songs since she was 14 years old. After her mother’s death and subsequent healing, she felt a new calling. “After the Lord healed me following my mom’s death, I decided to change my writing to glorify Him and help others through my God-given gifts,” she explained. The themes of hope and encouragement permeate her work, as she aims to show that “with God, all things are possible.”

Her latest book, “God’s House,” embodies these themes. Shaazia provided some insights into what readers can expect: “Readers can expect to see through this story that even when you accept God’s call, life isn’t always easy. It shows love, family secrets, and most importantly, that God is what gets you through each trial and struggle. No one is perfect, and that’s why we need God and His guidance, no matter what challenges come our way.”

The impact of losing her mother is a recurring theme in Shaazia’s life and work. “My mother’s death changed me. It made me more forgiving and loving towards people. It showed me that I wasn’t putting God first and that I needed to always do so. As hard as her death was, I wouldn’t change it. Pain led to purpose and brought me closer to God in a way I had never been before,” she shared. This profound transformation has fueled her purpose and driven her to share her testimony on platforms like YouTube and Facebook, bringing hope through her music and stories.

When asked for advice for those facing similar hardships, Shaazia emphasized the importance of seeking God. “For those experiencing homelessness, I would say seek God, spend time with Him, read your word, and keep Him first. For those losing a loved one, it does get better. God will heal you and your heart, and it can be better than when the person was alive. Trust God, invite Him in; you don’t have to be alone. He wants to be there for you and take your pain away.”

Shaazia hopes her work will inspire others to never give up, especially in times of struggle. “I hope my work shows people to never give up, no matter what it looks like. When struggles come, hold closer to God. He can’t fail, and He is unbeatable. You can put your faith in Him,” she said.

Reflecting on her journey of faith and personal growth, Shaazia expressed gratitude for surrendering her life to God. “Looking back, I am so glad that I surrendered my life to Him and embraced the work He is doing in me. If not, I wouldn’t be who I am now,” she noted. A favorite scripture that has guided her is Genesis 50:20, where Joseph says, “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive as they are today.”

In closing, Shaazia left our audience with a powerful message: “Never give up and always trust God. Give your gifts back to the One who gave them to you and make sure to always forgive.”

Conclusion

Shaazia Terry’s journey is a powerful reminder of the strength and hope that can be found in faith. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of trusting in God and using one’s gifts to uplift others. We encourage our readers to follow Shaazia on Facebook and YouTube channel to stay updated on her inspiring work.

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Unlocking Freedom: How Biblical Truths Impact Mental Health

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As the 4th of July approaches, we often find ourselves reflecting on the concepts of liberty and independence that form the bedrock of our nation. But what if we told you that there’s a deeper level of freedom that can profoundly affect your mental well-being? In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we dive into the spiritual freedom presented in the Bible and its remarkable implications for mental health.

A Unique 4th of July Perspective

In this special episode, hosts Naty and Veda bring a refreshing take on what it means to be truly free. While fireworks and barbecues are wonderful traditions, the freedom that stems from spiritual liberation offers a sense of purpose, hope, and resilience that transcends our everyday experiences.

Biblical Narratives on Freedom

We journey through some of the most powerful stories in the Bible, starting with the Old Testament’s account of the Israelites’ exodus from Egypt. This tale of physical and spiritual liberation showcases God’s enduring commitment to freeing people from oppression. We also explore the Year of Jubilee, a time when debts were forgiven and slaves were freed, highlighting a divine mandate for economic and social justice.

In the New Testament, we delve into Paul’s writings, particularly Galatians 5:1, which speaks about the freedom found in Christ. This spiritual freedom, as emphasized by Jesus in John 8:36, transcends physical circumstances and liberates believers from the bondage of sin.

Freedom’s Impact on Mental Health

But how does this biblical concept of freedom translate into mental health benefits? Throughout the episode, Naty and Veda discuss:

  • A Sense of Purpose and Identity: Understanding your place and purpose through spiritual freedom can significantly boost self-esteem and reduce feelings of worthlessness.
  • Resilience and Coping Mechanisms: The promise of eternal life and the support of a faith community provide hope and resilience, essential for coping with life’s challenges.
  • Ethical and Moral Guidance: Biblical principles offer a moral compass, reducing internal conflict and stress by aligning actions with values.
  • Addressing Guilt and Shame: The belief in redemption through Christ provides a pathway to deal with guilt and shame, offering solace and a chance to start anew.

A Call to Reflect and Engage

As we celebrate this Independence Day, we encourage you to reflect on these timeless biblical truths and consider how they can transform your mental health. Whether you’re seeking support within a faith community or exploring these principles individually, the freedom offered by the Bible can lead to a healthier, more fulfilling life.

Don’t miss out on this enlightening episode. Tune in to “Thrive by The Rising Muse” and discover how true freedom comes from within. Share your thoughts, leave a comment, and join us in building a community where faith, family, and mental health thrive together.

Stay blessed, stay free, and don’t forget to thrive. Happy 4th of July!

Free Yourself: Embrace Forgiveness Today

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Are you seeking a way to find peace amidst life’s inevitable pains and challenges? Join us in our latest podcast episode as we delve deep into the essence of forgiveness—a journey from resentment to liberation.

On our most recent episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse we guide you through a profound conversation on forgiveness. With engaging and relatable storytelling, we explore how forgiveness intersects with faith, family, and mental health, offering transformative insights along the way.

We start by defining forgiveness through the lens of the American Psychology Association (APA), which describes it as an intentional process of letting go of anger and resentment while embracing empathy and compassion. They emphasize that forgiveness is not necessarily about reconciliation but about freeing oneself from the burden of bitterness.

There are 4 types of forgiveness:

  1. Forgiving Others: The most common form, where you forgive someone who has hurt you.
  2. Self-Forgiveness: Often the hardest, where you learn to forgive yourself for past mistakes.
  3. Forgiving Circumstances: Letting go of resentment towards situations beyond your control.
  4. Forgiving God: Acknowledging and processing feelings of anger towards God in times of personal loss or tragedy.

This episode also offers practical advice on how to embark on your own journey of forgiveness:

  • Acknowledge Your Pain: The first step is recognizing and admitting your hurt.
  • Gain Perspective: Try to understand the situation from different viewpoints.
  • Release Resentment: Learn to let go of grudges that weigh you down.
  • Practice Self-Compassion: Be patient and kind to yourself as you navigate the forgiveness process.
  • Seek Guidance: Whether through therapy, counseling, or spiritual guidance, don’t hesitate to seek help.

The Spiritual Dimension of Forgiveness

Our hosts discuss the spiritual aspects of forgiveness, referencing various scriptures that underscore the importance of forgiving others as God forgives us. They also touch on the necessity of forgiving God, a concept that might seem controversial but is essential for healing deep-seated anger and disappointment.

Why Listen?

This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with forgiveness. Whether you find it hard to forgive others, yourself, or even God, Naty and Veda provide compassionate and insightful guidance to help you release the emotional burdens that are holding you back.

Don’t miss out on this enlightening conversation that promises to uplift and inspire. Tune in to the Thrive podcast and start your journey towards true forgiveness today!

Ready to dive deeper into the topic of forgiveness? Click here to listen to the full episode now.

Understanding God’s Forgiveness: Navigating the Consequences of Our Sins

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In our journey of faith, understanding the depth of God’s forgiveness while grappling with the tangible consequences of our actions can be a complex process. It’s a concept that intertwines divine mercy with human responsibility, highlighting the transformative power of repentance and the enduring impact of our choices. This blog post explores the profound truth that while God’s forgiveness is absolute, it doesn’t necessarily exempt us from facing the repercussions of our sins—a lesson that encourages spiritual growth and a steadfast commitment to a righteous path.

The Nature of God’s Forgiveness

God’s capacity to forgive is one of the most comforting aspects of His character, offering us a beacon of hope in our moments of failure. Scriptures across various religious texts underscore the boundless mercy of the Divine. In Christianity, for instance, 1 John 1:9 (NIV) assures us, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” This verse not only highlights God’s readiness to forgive but also His desire to cleanse us from our wrongdoing.

However, embracing God’s forgiveness is not merely about obtaining a guilt-free pass; it’s about acknowledging our wrongs, genuinely repenting, and striving towards transformation. Repentance involves a sincere heart-change, not just a fleeting moment of regret.

Consequences: The Inescapable Reality

While divine forgiveness lifts the spiritual burden of sin, it doesn’t always erase the earthly consequences of our actions. This truth is vividly illustrated in the life of David, a man after God’s own heart, who despite being forgiven, faced severe repercussions for his sins (2 Samuel 12:10-14). The consequences of his actions served not as a punishment from an unforgiving God but as a reminder of the gravity of sin and the importance of walking in obedience.

The reality is, our choices have effects—some immediate, others long-lasting. Actions that breach trust, harm others, or lead us away from our moral compass can result in tangible repercussions in our lives and the lives of those around us. Whether it’s the breakdown of relationships, legal issues, or personal turmoil, the fallout from our sins can be a thorny path to navigate.

The Role of Consequences in Our Spiritual Growth

Interestingly, facing the consequences of our actions doesn’t signify that we are unforgiven or unloved by God. On the contrary, it’s often through navigating these challenging aftermaths that we experience profound spiritual growth. Consequences can act as a ‘thorn in our side’—a constant reminder of our past mistakes and a deterrent against future missteps. They teach us humility, dependence on God, and the importance of wise decision-making.

Moreover, enduring through the consequences with faith can deepen our understanding of God’s grace. It’s a journey that underscores the essence of 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV), where Paul speaks of God’s grace being sufficient, His power made perfect in weakness. Our struggles and the repercussions of our sins become platforms for experiencing God’s strength and mercy in new dimensions.

Moving Forward with Hope

Encountering the consequences of our sins is not the end of the road; it’s a part of our journey toward spiritual maturity. It invites us to live in the light of God’s forgiveness, making conscious choices that reflect our repentance and commitment to a life aligned with divine principles. Let the knowledge of God’s unfailing love and forgiveness be the cornerstone of your resilience as you navigate the consequences of past actions.

Remember, God’s forgiveness does not remove the consequences of our sins, but it provides the strength to face them, learn from them, and ultimately, emerge stronger and more aligned with His will. Let the grace of God be your guide as you tread the path of redemption, bearing in mind that each step, no matter how painful, is an opportunity for growth and renewal.

In this journey of faith, let us hold fast to the promise of Psalm 34:18 (NIV), “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” May this assurance of God’s nearness and compassion be a source of comfort and strength as you embrace the fullness of His forgiveness and the reality of your redemption story.

WF: East to West

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I think one of the things Christians, especially new Christians struggle the most is condemnation. We live in the world of “forgive and not forget” and we have the tendency to look at God in the same light.

I have said many times that understanding God’s mercy was hard for me. How could he forgive the things I had done when his Word said that those things were against his will? Then I discovered Grace. That favor that God gives us that covers all our sins. That which brings to life the sacrifice of the cross.

Even after salvation we are not perfect, and there are times when we life in this fear of when will be the day when he will say enough, you’ve crossed the line of unforgiveness. But lucky for us that day will not arrive. As long as we repent we will be covered once again by the blood of the lamb, because Jesus died for ALL our sins. The ones we did and the ones to be done.

 1 Peter 1:18-20

For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your ancestors, but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect.  He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake.

Let’s Praise God for that!

God’s Love and Forgiveness As Seen in the Romance Novel Desires of the Heart

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By Steve Biddison

How far does God’s love and forgiveness extend? We all know the theological answer that tells us God forgives even our gravest sins and that there is nothing that can separate us from His love. And that is true. However, often times, in our own shame and guilt, we do not feel God’s love and we our subconscious does not allow us to accept His forgiveness. We either wallow in our own mire of disparity or we completely turn our back on God, believing that we do not deserve what He can give us.

That theme of God’s love and forgiveness is a big part of my recent fictional romance book, Desires of the Heart. Both the Eric and Lacey are in dire need of God’s forgiveness for things they had done in the past. Though the book is a romance between two people, at its core we see how God works in their hearts, through a variety of means, to show His love and forgiveness.

I want to share with you an excerpt from the book that not only started Lacey’s conviction of needing to return to the God of her childhood, but also has a message for anyone today who might feel they have gone too far for God to still want them.

Lacey again reached over to lay her hand on top of Eric’s. She needed the strength he gave her when she held his hand. The preacher’s words were stinging her. As hard as she tried, she could not ignore them. God can’t really use me, she told herself. I have blown it so many times, there is no chance that I could be of any use to God!!! I can’t be anything. God, don’t you understand the family I came from? Don’t you know what I have done? How could I amount to anything after having been such a loser?

“You might be thinking that your past is too bad for God to use you,” the preacher said. “But the reality is that God loves using people who are not supposed to succeed. In fact, sometimes the more of a loser the person is, the greater God uses him.” Lacey squeezed Eric’s hand tighter and leaned her head against his shoulder. She needed his strength to keep the tears from flowing freely.

“The book of Matthew opens the New Testament with the same type of genealogy as we read about in the Gospel of Luke.” The preacher continued. “Only this time we see the line from Abraham to Joseph, who was Jesus’ adoptive father on earth. We see several great people of God like King David and Abraham. But we also see people who were not so great in history. King Manasseh, one of the very wicked kings in Jewish history is in that line. We see Gentiles who were considered to be unclean by Jewish standards and we see women who unfortunately in that society were not usually deemed important enough to mention. Perhaps most interesting is that we even see a prostitute in the line of Jesus.” Lacey had never realized that before. God had used a prostitute to carry out His plan. Could God really still use her?

Lacey closed her eyes, trying to shut out the flood of guilt that had begun to flood over her. She opened them again when she heard keyboard and guitar music sounding in the background. The preacher was still speaking. “If you have had some trouble in your past that you think might be keeping you from fully experiencing God, then I invite you to come to the front and meet with God. We have prayer counselors waiting for you up here or you can pray alone.”

Within seconds, Lacey watched as scores of people flooded the isles heading to the front of the auditorium. Could so many people have such serious problems? Everyone stood to their feet as the music continued to play and the guy who had been introduced as the worship leader at the beginning of the service began to lead them all in another song.

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But then the memories of college began to announce themselves firmly in her mind. That was the period in her life when her downward spiral intensified. No, she had been no worse than most other college students. In fact, probably better than most. But she knew that she had fully turned her back on God and admittedly refused to have anything to do with Him or a church. But now, as she watched the line of people marching forward, she wondered if she needed to join that group.

But what would Eric think of her? She tilted her head upwards to try to read his face. His eyes were lost in his own trance of thought. Maybe God was dealing with him too? She continued to watch his face, looking for any twitch or thought that might give him an inkling to step towards the isle and make his way to the front. If he goes up, I’ll go up, she promised herself. But Eric never moved.

Forgiving Those Who Hurt Me :One of the Hardest Steps in My Healing Process

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During this month we’re talking about the dangers of hatred and my dear friend Shelley Hitz is here to talk to us about forgiveness. Very timely, enjoy!!

I practiced as a Physical Therapist for twelve years, and therefore know the general process required to heal from a broken bone. First, the doctor will give you a diagnosis via x-ray, MRI or other test. Then, a cast or splint is applied and you are given orders to rest your body part as the healing takes place. For a broken leg, crutches are often needed for a period of time. Finally, the last step is to exercise your joints and muscles again to regain your strength and be able to walk again on your own.

However, when God began to heal my broken heart, this was new territory for me. There is no textbook answer on what the process is for healing a broken heart. However, one of the first steps God took me through was forgiving those that hurt me.

Forgiveness…Often the Hardest Step To Take But Necessary For Lasting Freedom

Years ago, I was at a retreat for Christian women where the speaker shared her story of being sexually abused and the healing God brought to her broken heart. As I listened to her story, a memory from my past began to surface. I could relate to her story in that I was not violently raped and therefore had unknowingly dismissed the incident as simply part of “growing up.” However, when I later shared with my counselor what happened to me in junior high when a boy did sexual things to me that I neither wanted nor knew how to resist, she affirmed that it was indeed sexual abuse.

Feelings surfaced that I did not even know existed…anger, grief, unforgiveness. For the first time, I cried and grieved the innocence that was taken from me that day. As I sobbed, I asked God to help me. And He gently showed me that I needed to forgive the boy that did this to me. Forgiving him did not mean that what he did was right or that I was justifying his actions. It was for me, so that I could be free. I’ve heard it said that unforgiveness and bitterness is like taking poison and expecting it to kill the other person. The only person it hurts is me.

I Did Not Feel Like Forgiving

It took a step of faith to forgive as I did not feel like letting go of my anger and unforgiveness. Not only was my innocence taken that day, but there was a door opened to the enemy in the area of my sexuality. And later on in my life, I became captive to sexual sin. As a Christian woman, I found myself struggling with pornography. Although I don’t blame my choices and my sin on the sexual abuse, I know it was part of the process. And so I was angry and did not feel like forgiving.

And yet, God empowered me to surrender my anger to Him and forgive.

It was a process and not an instant fix. But, as I took the step of forgiveness, God led me down the path of healing my broken heart. I am thankful today that I am free from my struggle with pornography. God is now using what the enemy meant for evil for good – to provide hope to many.

clip_image002Shelley Hitz has been ministering alongside her husband, CJ, since 1998. They currently travel and speak to teens and adults around the country. Shelley’s main passion is to share God’s truth and the freedom in Christ she has found with others. She does this through her books, websites and speaking engagements. Shelley’s openness and vulnerability, as she shares her own story of hope and healing, will inspire and encourage you.

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Shelley has been writing and publishing books since 2008 including the book she co-authored with S’ambrosia Curtis, “A Christian Woman’s Guide to Breaking Free From Pornography: It’s Not Just a Guy’s Problem.” During their book launch on 9/26/12 – 9/27/12, you can download a free Kindle copy and also enter to win over $400 worth of resources. Find out more at www.ChristianWomenandPorn.com

It’s a new day!

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I was reading the scripture below and it reminded me that we should never take for granted that the best thing God made was one day after another. The pain of yesterday can be the strength of today and the blessings of tomorrow.

It is good to remember that his mercies are brand new everyday. That His love is endless. On those days where you think you can’t go on anymore, know that you are still loved and cared for. Know that there’s hope and to never give up. Life goes on aside from our personal tragedies and usually we come out stronger, wiser, and with a brighter future.

Let’s start this week with an attitude of praise. We are alive, we are healthy, we are loved and we are cared for (sometimes we need more than one reminder). Yesterday is gone and tomorrow is not here; live today intentionally.

  • If life took you down yesterday you have the choice of standing up today. This is a new day. This day is a new present with new mercies that God has provided for you.
  • If you were hurt yesterday, it’s time to forgive and forget and not bring into today the pain for the past forgoing the enjoyment of today’s blessings.  Do not forget that forgiveness frees your soul.
  • If you made a mistake yesterday. Forgive yourself, ask God for forgiveness, learn from your mistake, and move on. It’s a new day where you have a brand new opportunity to do a new thing with your life. Embrace it!

Lamentations 3:22-33

(The Message)

God’s loyal love couldn’t have run out,
his merciful love couldn’t have dried up.
They’re created new every morning.
How great your faithfulness!
I’m sticking with God (I say it over and over).
He’s all I’ve got left.

God proves to be good to the man who passionately waits,
to the woman who diligently seeks.
It’s a good thing to quietly hope,
quietly hope for help from God.
It’s a good thing when you’re young
to stick it out through the hard times.

When life is heavy and hard to take,
go off by yourself. Enter the silence.
Bow in prayer. Don’t ask questions:
Wait for hope to appear.
Don’t run from trouble. Take it full-face.
The “worst” is never the worst.

Why? Because the Master won’t ever
walk out and fail to return.
If he works severely, he also works tenderly.
His stockpiles of loyal love are immense.
He takes no pleasure in making life hard,
in throwing roadblocks in the way


Be blessed!

Too close to home

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I’ve had several conversations this week with people who are struggling with the fact that their biggest troubles are with the ones closest to their hearts.  In the middle of the storm is hard to remember that the enemy makes a point to know where things will hurt you the most. If you were to have the same issues with someone who wasn’t closer to your heart you would not care as much, and the purpose of the enemy is to steal, kill and destroy, so he’s not going to have tender thoughts towards us, because YOU servant of God are a threat to his plans.

The bible warns us about this when it says, “ From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” Luke 12:52-54

The most important thing is to remember that there have been times when we have allowed ourselves to be used by the enemy to hurt others and that at this moment when you are the one hurting it’s not them, it’s him.” For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms” Ephesians 6:12

Try not to engage and fall for the trap. Retrieving is not a sign of weakness but of wisdom. Go to your Father because “the Lord will fight for you, you need only to be still” (Exodus 14:14) Pray that the Lord will give you wisdom to handle the situation. Sometimes the Lord will tell you that you need to confront the situation and set boundaries with that person. Sometimes the Lord will tell you to allow him to deal with them, and then ask him to comfort you on your pain…

As always I like to hear from you… Have you been in a situation when you feel defeated because the hardest blows are coming in the shape of the ones you love? If you want to share, I’m here to hear it. Even if you don’t I pray God’s wisdom over you.

Many blessings

Do you want to be encouraged in times of trouble? Do you know someone who could use some light out of their tunnel?  Don’t forget to pick your copy of Growth Lessons, which is still at 99 cents. It’s never late for giving the gift of faith.