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Finding Faith in the Wilderness: Shaazia Terry’s Journey

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In a world where life’s challenges often seem insurmountable, Shaazia Terry’s story is a beacon of hope and resilience. Her journey, marked by profound loss and unwavering faith, offers a powerful testament to the transformative power of belief and perseverance.

Shaazia’s life took a dramatic turn with the loss of her mother, a period that tested her faith and strength. “I was like, God, no, I don’t understand this,” she recalls. Yet, through the darkness, she found a renewed purpose, using her voice and creativity to glorify God and inspire others.

Throughout her trials, Shaazia’s faith remained her anchor. “Even when nobody else sees you, God always sees you,” she shares, emphasizing the importance of holding onto faith even when life gives every reason to let go. Her story is a reminder that faith can carry us through the wilderness, turning our struggles into testimonies of grace and purpose.

Shaazia’s journey is not just about overcoming adversity; it’s about embracing humanity in all its imperfections. Her book, “Being Human,” explores themes of love, family secrets, and the power of forgiveness. “It’s not about being perfect,” she says. “It’s about giving God your best and trusting Him to guide you.”

Shaazia Terry’s story is a testament to the power of faith and resilience. Her journey reminds us that brokenness doesn’t disqualify us; it’s often the place where God begins His greatest work in us. As we navigate our own challenges, may we find inspiration in Shaazia’s story and hold onto the hope that faith provides.

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When Love Hurts: Recognizing Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

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In a world where love is often portrayed as the ultimate healer, what happens when it becomes the source of our deepest wounds? Join Naty and Veda in this eye-opening episode of “Thrive by the Rising Muse” as they delve into the complexities of unhealthy relationship patterns, offering insights that are both personal and universally relatable.

Naty shares her personal journey through friendships and relationships that left her questioning her worth and identity. From constant criticism to emotional manipulation, she highlights the subtle signs that often go unnoticed until it’s too late. “Love is supposed to heal, not hurt,” she reminds us, urging listeners to recognize the red flags in their own lives.

Through candid anecdotes and heartfelt reflections, they emphasize the importance of vulnerability in healing. She recounts moments of self-doubt and the courage it took to break free from toxic dynamics. Her story serves as a powerful reminder that true love builds up, rather than tears down.

This episode is not just about identifying problems but also about finding solutions. The hosts provide practical resources and support for those seeking to escape unhealthy relationships. She encourages listeners to reach out, share their stories, and embrace the healing journey.

Whether you’re navigating romantic relationships, friendships, or family dynamics, this episode offers a beacon of hope and a path to healthier connections. Tune in to “Thrive by the Rising Muse” and discover how you can step into a love that truly reflects God’s heart.

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Love Beyond Valentine’s Day: Exploring the Depths of Love

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Valentine’s Day is often reduced to chocolates, flowers, and romantic gestures, but what if love is so much more? In our latest Thrive by The Rising Muse episode, we peel back the layers of love and explore its true essence.

From the unwavering love of God to the deep connections we share with family and friends—and even the challenge of loving those who don’t love us back—this conversation will challenge your perspective on love.

Join us as we discuss how to navigate relationships through faith, what it means to love beyond conditions, and why true love is an action, not just a feeling. We will also dive into self-love and setting boundaries, ensuring that love isn’t just something we give but something we nurture within ourselves.

This episode is more than a discussion—it’s an invitation to live out love every day. Are you ready to redefine what love means in your life? Tune in now and let’s thrive together!

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Being Loving, Kind, and Merciful: Does Not Mean I’m a Doormat

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As followers of Christ, we are called to embody love, kindness, and mercy. These attributes reflect God’s character and demonstrate His grace to the world. However, those with a tender heart may face challenges, including being taken for granted or used. How can we balance showing mercy with guarding our hearts?

The Call to Love, Kindness, and Mercy

Jesus set the ultimate example of love, kindness, and mercy. In Matthew 5:7, He says, “Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.” Reflecting on the call to clothe ourselves with compassion, Colossians 3:12-14 reminds us: “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another… And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” Living this way reflects Christ’s love and draws others to Him. Yet, we must also walk in wisdom, as Jesus instructs in Matthew 10:16: “Be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.”

Avoiding Being Taken for Granted

  1. Set Healthy Boundaries: Loving others doesn’t mean allowing them to misuse your kindness. Jesus Himself set boundaries, withdrawing to pray and rest when needed (Luke 5:16). He invites us to find rest for our souls in Him, saying in Matthew 11:28-30, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
  2. Discern Motives: Pray for discernment to recognize when someone genuinely needs help versus taking advantage of your kindness. Philippians 1:9-10 says, “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best.”
  3. Speak the Truth in Love: When necessary, confront those who misuse your kindness with gentleness and respect. Ephesians 4:15 urges us to speak the truth in love, ensuring we build others up. As Proverbs 27:6 states, “Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.”
  4. Rely on God’s Strength: Acts of mercy must flow from God’s love, not human approval. Galatians 6:9 encourages us, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Depend on God’s Spirit, as Zechariah 4:6 reminds us, “Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty.”

Trusting God as Your Defender

Even when others misunderstand or misuse your kindness, take heart in knowing that God sees your heart. Psalm 62:6 declares, “Truly he is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken.” Rest in His promise from Exodus 14:14: “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Trust Him to vindicate you and provide the strength to continue loving others.

In all things, let Jesus’ words in John 13:34-35 guide you: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” As you navigate the balance of kindness and boundaries, let your actions glorify God, reflect His love, and steward the gifts He has entrusted to you.

True Value in a World Obsessed with Numbers

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As parents, we often find ourselves learning valuable lessons from our children, unexpected teachers in the school of life. This week, I had a simple yet profound encounter with my toddler while teaching him the names of coins—penny, dime, nickel, and quarter. Little did I know, this innocent lesson would unveil deeper truths about the nature of value in our lives.

I asked my three-year-old to arrange the coins in order of perceived value. His tiny hands meticulously placed the nickel ahead of the dime because, in his eyes, bigger meant better. It was a moment of innocence, but it carried a profound message: sometimes, our perception of value is skewed by superficial attributes like size or shine.

In reflecting on this, I couldn’t help but draw parallels to a recent incident I came across online. A professional, undoubtedly talented and passionate about her craft, was denied participation in a podcast simply because she lacked a substantial social media following. Her value was reduced to mere numbers, overlooking the quality of her content and the depth of her expertise.

It’s a sobering reality check—a reminder that in a world fixated on metrics and numbers, true worth often goes unnoticed. We’ve become conditioned to equate popularity with value, overlooking the substance beneath the surface. But what if, like my toddler’s perception of coins, our judgments are misguided? What if genuine talent, authenticity, and integrity hold more weight than mere numbers on a screen?

Scripture echoes this sentiment, urging us not to conform to the world’s standards of value and success. In Romans 12:2, we’re encouraged to “not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” It’s a call to recalibrate our understanding of value, to see beyond the superficial and embrace the intrinsic worth of each individual.

Furthermore, Proverbs 11:1 reminds us that “a false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight.” God’s perspective transcends worldly measures of worth; He sees the heart, not the external façade. In His eyes, true value lies in character, integrity, and the sincere pursuit of righteousness.

As we navigate a world that often distorts the true meaning of value, let us heed the lessons from a toddler’s innocent perspective. Let us resist the temptation to measure worth by external standards and instead seek the deeper truths that define genuine value. And above all, let us find solace in the unwavering truth that in God’s eyes, we are valued not for what we possess or portray, but for who we are—beloved children, cherished and esteemed beyond measure.

So, the next time you’re tempted to equate value with popularity or status, remember the lesson of the coins and the wisdom of Scripture. True worth cannot be quantified by numbers; it is found in the richness of character, the depth of integrity, and the purity of heart. In embracing this truth, we discover a freedom that transcends the fleeting measures of the world—a freedom rooted in the unshakable assurance of our infinite worth in the eyes of our Heavenly Father.

Until next time, be blessed.

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The Essence of True Love

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In a world often marred by division and discord, the concept of true love stands as a beacon of hope, offering a transformative power that transcends human understanding. True love, as defined by Christ’s teachings, extends far beyond romantic notions and familial bonds. It is a love that emanates from the very heart of God, urging us to love our neighbors as ourselves.

The foundation of true love lies in the teachings and example set by Jesus Christ. In the Gospel of John 13:34-35, Jesus imparts a profound commandment to his disciples: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.”

Christ’s love goes beyond mere affection; it is sacrificial, unconditional, and boundless. His life serves as a living testament to the transformative power of true love, inviting us to emulate His example in our daily lives.

Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself:

The biblical concept of loving your neighbor as yourself is an extension of the love of Christ. In Matthew 22:39, Jesus declares, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” This commandment challenges us to look beyond our differences and treat others with the same compassion, empathy, and kindness that we desire for ourselves.

True love calls us to break down the barriers that divide us, embracing the diversity of humanity with open hearts and open minds. By embodying the love of Christ, we can create a ripple effect that spreads love, healing, and unity in our communities.

Embracing Unconditional Love:

Unconditional love, a central theme in the teachings of Christ, is the key to true love. In Romans 8:38-39, the Apostle Paul emphasizes the unwavering nature of God’s love: “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

As we strive to love our neighbors as ourselves, we must cultivate a love that transcends circumstances, prejudices, and judgments. True love, inspired by Christ, is a force that persists in the face of adversity, fostering unity and understanding.

In a world yearning for authentic connection and harmony, the love of Christ serves as the timeless blueprint for true love. By internalizing His teachings, embracing unconditional love, and extending that love to our neighbors, we can contribute to a society where compassion triumphs over division. As we embark on the journey of living out the love of Christ, let us remember the words of 1 Corinthians 16:14: “Do everything in love.” True love, rooted in the love of Christ, has the power to transform hearts, mend relationships, and create a world where love reigns supreme.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Breaking Free from the Prison of Expectations

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In the intricate dance of relationships, we often find ourselves stumbling over the unspoken expectations we place on others. It’s a familiar narrative – the silent anticipation that someone should intuitively understand our needs, emotions, and desires. But the truth is, expecting others to see the world through our lens is not only unfair but a recipe for heartache. In this blog post, we’ll delve into the perils of uncommunicated expectations and explore how the art of journaling, especially in the context of the “15 Day Challenge to a Stronger You!” book, can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and healthier relationships.

The Unspoken Burden of Expectations

Imagine a world where everyone perceives and processes information the same way you do. Sounds ideal, right? Yet, even identical twins possess unique perspectives. So, expecting those around us to filter information precisely as we do is setting the stage for disappointment. We often catch ourselves saying, “They should have known,” forgetting that fairness prevails only when expectations are communicated.

The Communication Gap

Communication is the key to any successful relationship, yet we frequently fall into the trap of assuming others can read our minds. “They should have known I needed help,” we lament, without realizing that our needs and feelings remain unexpressed. A recent personal experience highlights this common dilemma. Feeling overwhelmed, I expected assistance without explicitly asking for it. When the support didn’t materialize, frustration set in.

The Gut Check Moment

Upon reflection, I recognized the flaw in my expectations. How could I fault someone for not meeting unspoken needs? I hadn’t communicated my distress or explicitly asked for help. The initial resentment I felt melted away when I acknowledged my role in the miscommunication. I also understood that others, even those who typically support us, may not always be able or willing to do so.

The Liberating Power of Communication

The bottom line is clear: unspoken expectations are a breeding ground for disappointment and strained relationships. We construct intricate scenarios in our minds, clinging to the “should be” rather than accepting the “what is.” The key to liberation lies in freeing those around us from the prison of our expectations. This simple shift can transform our interactions, nurturing healthier relationships and shielding us from unnecessary grief.

Take the 15-Day Challenge to a Stronger You!

Embark on a transformative journey with the “15 Day Challenge to a Stronger You!” book. Delve into the power of journaling, a potent tool to uncover patterns of unspoken expectations. The journaling challenge, in particular, equips you with the skills to detect moments where unrealistic expectations may sabotage your relationships.

Don’t miss out on the opportunity to break free from the confines of unspoken expectations. Grab your copy of “15 Day Challenge to a Stronger You!” and immerse yourself in the journaling challenge. Discover the profound impact of effective communication on your relationships and witness the positive transformation in your life.

Take the first step toward a stronger, more fulfilling you – communicate, express, and break free from the prison of unspoken expectations. Your relationships will thank you for it.

Embarking on a 15-Day Challenge: A Sneak Peek into My Upcoming Book!”

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Hey there, amazing souls!

I hope this post finds you in high spirits as we step into the festive month of December. I had planned a grand announcement for today—the launch of my new book. However, as life often unfolds, technology threw a curveball my way. Despite the setbacks, I’m thrilled to share a sneak peek with you and shed some light on the journey that led to the creation of this transformative piece of work.

This book, born out of a deep realization, is a fusion of the practical and the spiritual. I observed how, as humans, we grapple with our daily struggles individually. As Christians, prayer becomes our beacon, but what if there was more, we could do? What if uniting the practical aspects of our lives with the spiritual could propel us forward?

Without further ado, let me introduce you to “15-Day Challenge to a Stronger You!” The title might make you wonder—will all your struggles vanish in just 15 days? Of course not! But what it will provide is a golden opportunity to embark on a journey of self-improvement. Consider this book not as a main course, but as a delectable appetizer, designed to kickstart your personal development alongside your spiritual journey with Christ.

The rationale behind the challenge aspect is simple, we humans are inherently competitive beings. When we frame personal growth as a challenge, it ignites our inner fire, propelling us towards positive change. And why 15 days? Well, we’re following a timeframe to start forming a habit that sticks.

As we approach the dawn of a new year, many of us will be contemplating resolutions. My proposition is simple: consider the “15-Day Challenge to a Stronger You” as your primary resolution. Regardless of how much or how little you accomplish, the growth you experience will be enduring and profound.

I genuinely hope this snippet piques your interest. I encourage you to share this exciting endeavor with those around you and, most importantly, to revel in the process of working on yourself. Your journey will unfold alongside Jesus, guiding you through the realms of prayer and purpose.

Without further delay, here’s a glimpse of the cover. I’m tirelessly working to iron out the technical kinks, and with a bit of luck, the book will be in your hands next week. Let’s embrace this challenge together, and may it be the catalyst for a remarkable transformation in your life.

Stay inspired, stay motivated, and let the journey begin!

Looking forward to sharing more with you soon!

As always, be blessed!

The Power of Words: Spreading Love, Not Fear

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In our journey as ambassadors of Christ, we often find ourselves in situations where our words hold immense power. We’ve all been there, uttering statements in the heat of the moment that we later regret. But as representatives of Christ, it is our duty to ensure that our words are guided by the spirit, not dominated by the flesh.

One concerning trend we see today is people telling others that they are destined for hell simply because of a difference in opinion or belief. It’s essential to recognize that no human possesses the authority to determine another person’s eternal fate. When we pass such judgment, we are essentially laying stumbling blocks on our own path.

The reality is, none of us can fully comprehend another person’s journey with Christ. Rather than assuming that our unkind words will act as a wake-up call, we should consider the potential harm they may inflict on someone’s spiritual path. Feeling judged and shamed by others is not our role as followers of Christ; it’s the Holy Spirit’s job to guide us when we stray.

Some individuals might hide behind the notion of “telling the truth in love.” However, it’s crucial to scrutinize our motives when sharing our beliefs. Are we genuinely concerned for the other person’s soul, or are we seeking to feel superior to them? Are our words driven by love or condemnation? Examining our hearts for our true intentions is essential.

As Christians, our primary calling is to spread the good news of Christ. Threatening someone with the prospect of hell is not good news. Our words and actions can either draw people closer to Christ or push them away from the gospel. It’s disheartening to hear non-believers say, “If being like you is what it means to be a Christian, I’d rather go to hell.” Such a statement should serve as a wake-up call, a reminder that we may not be reflecting Jesus as we are called to do.

We must remember that the core message of Christianity is one of love, redemption, and salvation. It’s about extending a hand of grace, not casting stones of judgment. Our role as ambassadors of Christ is to demonstrate love, compassion, and understanding to those around us, regardless of their beliefs or opinions.

In conclusion, let us strive to be vigilant in ensuring that our words and actions align with the teachings of Christ. We must refrain from pronouncing judgment upon others and instead focus on spreading the message of love, hope, and redemption. After all, our purpose is to bring people to Christ, not repel them from the gospel. In this way, we can reflect Jesus in the way He has called us to, shining His light and love in a world that desperately needs it.

My book, The Road Home, speaks about how sometimes we forget where we came from once we start our journey with Christ and forget to extend grace to others.

Until next time, Be Blessed

Confessions of a control freak

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By Brian Peart

I have had heartbreak in my life, early death of a father, a failed business after the
recession of 2008, issues with my kids. But nothing could compare to the pain I
felt when I lost my wife. She was the great love of my life, a fairy tale story if
there ever was one. And now it was gone. She was off at the lake forming another
life and I was at home crying to Ed Sheeran. She said I was a “control freak” and
that I was verbally abusive. To be clear, I never hit her…there was no physical
violence, but you can tear down a person with words and apparently, that is what I
was doing. At first, I said she was crazy but at one of my lowest points it dawned
on me…maybe there was something to what she said.
As I began to look into what makes a control freak it became increasingly clear, the
heart of the control freak is fear. For me, this fear was based on insecurity. She
was beautiful and amazing and deep down, I did not think I deserved someone like
her. That led to a fear of losing her which led to my subtle and not so subtle
attempts to control the situation. The heart of a control freak is fear-fear of losing
control causes you to try harder to keep control…and in the end, the thing you fear
often happens anyway. So now I knew the cause of why I acted that way, but what
was the cure? I went to the ultimate source of wisdom, the Bible, to find out how
to stop this pattern and came across this verse, “Perfect love casts out fear”. Ah
Ha! That’s it. Perfect love casts out fear…I knew then I had to dive into the Bible
and get to the heart of love to conquer this fear once and for all. That journey led
to the writing of my book, “Perfect Love”. I feel the Lord led me through some
carefully orchestrated steps to walk me from my bitterest defeat-the loss of my
wife-to my greatest victory. Within 4 months my book was written and within 6
months it was published. Writing that book healed me, but more importantly God
showed me a simple strategy to help ANYONE who has experienced heartbreak
and defeat to rise above and get back to the victorious life Jesus promised when He
said, “I come to give you life to the full. “ And if that was the end of the story, it
would be a great victory. But God was not done.
Unbeknownst to me, my ex wife found a copy of the book and read it. At first she
was put off but the Lord guided her to read it a second time and it changed her life.
Divorce is never one sided, there are always two people in every marriage. She
had habits and issues herself and amazingly, the book spoke to her as well. She
reached out to me, we started dating again and now are re-married! Reconciled!
Praise the Lord what an Amazing Grace! God’s Grace is the key my friends, His
love is overflowing. When you are in doubt, when you are down, when you are
struggling, you need only to look to Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, and
you will find peace. His Grace is sufficient for you!

19095577_1521594441247778_4644025883748247842_o (1)Brian Peart is a man sold out to God.  He lives in Monroe, Georgia and owns a mortgage company.  Brian is happily married and father to seven children with a granddaughter on the way.  Brian has laid out a battle plan in his book that takes you from the feeling of an epic fail, to the greatest point in your life.  He calls this a “God Help Book” and if you let the Lord lead you, with the simple steps in this book, you will be amazed at the results.

Brian Peart is author of a book entitled “Perfect Love”. In it he powerfully
reminds us of who we are, and steps out a simple plan to gain and keep a
victorious life all year long.

perfect love book cover