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Three Kings Day: Honoring the Journey, Not Just the Gift

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January 6th marks Three Kings Day, also known as Epiphany—the moment the Magi finally reached Jesus after a long, uncertain journey guided only by a star and faith that refused to let them turn back.

We often rush past this day, packing away the nativity and moving on to the next goal, the next resolution, the next task. But Three Kings Day invites us to pause—not at the destination—but at the journey.

Faith Isn’t Always a Straight Line

The Magi didn’t have a detailed map.
They didn’t know how long the road would be.
They didn’t have confirmation at every step.

They simply kept moving.

That’s important for us to remember as we step deeper into a new year. Faith doesn’t always feel confident. Sometimes it looks like asking questions, taking detours, or trusting God even when clarity hasn’t arrived yet.

Mental wellness and spiritual growth often work the same way. Healing, purpose, and alignment rarely come overnight. They unfold as we keep showing up—tired, hopeful, uncertain, but willing.

The Gifts We Bring Matter

The Magi brought gold, frankincense, and myrrh—gifts that symbolized kingship, divinity, and sacrifice. But what often gets overlooked is that the most powerful thing they offered wasn’t what they carried in their hands.

It was their obedience.
Their humility.
Their willingness to kneel.

As we reflect today, it’s worth asking:

  • What am I bringing into this season?
  • Am I offering God my trust—or just my plans?
  • Am I willing to surrender outcomes, not just intentions?

Sometimes the most meaningful gift we can bring is honesty—about our fears, our exhaustion, our hopes, and our need for guidance.

A Season of Revelation, Not Perfection

Epiphany is about revelation—God revealing Himself to the world. And revelation often comes quietly, through reflection rather than fireworks.

As you continue into this year, remember:
You don’t have to have everything figured out.
You don’t need to rush your growth.
You don’t need to compare your journey to anyone else’s.

Like the Magi, you are allowed to move at the pace of faith.

A Gentle Reflection for Today

Take a moment today to sit with these questions:

  • What “star” am I being asked to follow right now?
  • What distractions might I need to release?
  • What would it look like to trust God with the unknown parts of my life?

Three Kings Day reminds us that the journey itself is sacred—and that when we keep walking in faith, even imperfectly, we will arrive exactly where we’re meant to be.

Start Small: A Practical Guide to Tackling Debt

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On the path to financial freedom, the journey can often seem daunting. Nevertheless, starting small can lead to significant accomplishments. In this post, we explore the strategy of tackling debt by focusing on the smallest amounts first. This method provides a sense of achievement. It also builds momentum for larger financial goals. Make sure to check out the latest episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse for the full conversation.

The Power of Small Wins

Naty Matos shares a powerful insight: “Start small. You start with the smallest one. So if you owe $10,000 here, $5,000 there, but $2,000 here, try to finish that $2,000 one first.” This approach is not just about numbers. It’s about the psychological boost that comes from achieving a goal. No matter how small. By paying off the smallest debt first, you gain a sense of accomplishment and a feeling of progress. This fuels your motivation to tackle larger debts.

Building Momentum

Clear the smallest debt first. Then, redirect the funds that were allocated to it to the next debt. As Naty explains, “Then you move that hundred dollars to the next debt.” This snowball effect speeds up the debt repayment process. It also prevents burnout and discouragement. These are common pitfalls when facing large financial burdens.

A Sustainable Approach

The key to this strategy is sustainability. By focusing on small, manageable goals, you avoid the risk of burnout. As Naty points out, “If you get and start tackling the big one, you’re going to burn out.” This method ensures that you stay engaged and motivated throughout your financial journey.

Starting small doesn’t mean thinking small. It’s about creating a sustainable path to financial freedom, one step at a time. By focusing on the smallest debts first, you build confidence and momentum, setting the stage for tackling larger financial challenges. Remember, every small victory is a step closer to your ultimate goal of financial independence.

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Stepping Forward in Faith

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There comes a moment in every season of life when standing still becomes more painful than moving forward. Change knocks—sometimes gently, sometimes like a storm—and we are left with a choice: resist it in fear or embrace it in faith.

Moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting where you’ve been; it means trusting God with where you’re going.

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” — Martin Luther King Jr.

Trusting God When the Path Is Unclear

Trusting God is easy when life makes sense. It becomes harder when prayers feel unanswered, doors close without explanation, or the future looks unfamiliar. Yet Scripture reminds us that God’s faithfulness is not dependent on our understanding.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)

When we surrender control, we discover peace. God sees the full picture—every detour, every delay, and every breakthrough. What feels like an ending may actually be a divine redirection.

“God never wastes a season of your life. What feels like loss is often preparation.”

Embracing Change Without Fear

Change can feel uncomfortable because it stretches us beyond what is familiar. But growth never happens in comfort zones. God often uses change to refine our character, strengthen our faith, and reposition us for a greater purpose.

“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” — Isaiah 43:19 (NIV)

Sometimes God changes our surroundings so He can change our hearts. Letting go doesn’t mean losing; it means making room for what God is building next.

“Change isn’t the enemy—fear is. Faith transforms uncertainty into opportunity.”

Becoming a Better Version of Yourself

Becoming a better version of yourself isn’t about perfection; it’s about transformation. It’s allowing God to shape you day by day through prayer, obedience, and perseverance.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2 (NIV)

Growth requires honesty—about what needs healing, what needs releasing, and what God is calling you to become. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress.

“You are not becoming someone new; you are becoming who God always intended you to be.”

Moving Forward With Hope

Moving forward doesn’t erase the past—it redeems it. God uses every chapter of your story to prepare you for the next. Even when you feel uncertain, His promises remain sure.

“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” — Philippians 1:6 (NIV)

So take the step. Release what was. Embrace what is. Trust God with what’s ahead. The journey forward may not be easy, but it will be worth it—because God is walking with you every step of the way.

“Your next season requires a stronger faith, a softer heart, and a willingness to move forward.”

Embracing Small Steps: A Guide to Lasting Change

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As we step into 2026, many of us find ourselves setting ambitious resolutions, only to feel overwhelmed by the enormity of the changes ahead. But what if the key to success lies in starting small? In this post, we’ll explore how taking manageable steps can lead to lasting transformation.

The Power of Small Steps

Naty and Veda share their journey of transitioning from whole milk to 1% milk, illustrating how small dietary adjustments can have a significant impact on health. “I went from whole milk to 2%, and then to 1%,” she explains. This gradual approach can be applied to various aspects of life, from nutrition to exercise.

Building Habits with Intention

Creating new habits doesn’t happen overnight. “It takes 21 days to form a habit,” They reminds us. By focusing on one habit at a time, such as walking daily or journaling for a few minutes, we can build a foundation for sustainable change.

Mindful Living

Incorporating mindfulness into daily routines can enhance our well-being. They emphasize the importance of decluttering both physically and emotionally. “Give yourself permission to emotionally declutter,” she advises, encouraging us to let go of guilt and unrealistic expectations.

As we navigate the new year, let’s embrace the power of small steps. By setting realistic goals and being kind to ourselves, we can create a life of balance and peace. Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about progress.

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Embracing Your New Normal During the Holidays: An Invitation to Reflect and Connect

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The holiday season can be a challenging time, especially when you’re navigating a new normal. Whether it’s dealing with the absence of a loved one or adjusting to significant life changes, the holidays can amplify these feelings. Join us as we explore how to embrace this season with self-compassion and invite you to watch our latest episode for deeper insights.

Understanding the New Normal

The concept of a “new normal” is about adapting to life without certain familiar elements. As Naty & Veda share, “You go into another season of your life without that person, without that job, without whatever. So that is your new normal.” This holiday season, it’s important to acknowledge these changes and find ways to celebrate in a way that feels right for you.

Navigating the Holidays with Self-Compassion

During the holidays, self-compassion becomes even more crucial. It’s easy to feel pressured to be joyful, but as Naty & Veda remind us, “Be kind to yourself. That’s the most important.” Allow yourself to experience the holidays at your own pace, honoring your feelings without judgment.

We invite you to watch our latest episode, where we delve deeper into these themes. Discover how to navigate the holidays with grace and find comfort in knowing you’re not alone. Our conversation offers support and understanding for anyone facing a challenging holiday season.

As you embrace your new normal this holiday season, remember that it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions. Allow yourself the space to grieve, to heal, and to grow. Your journey is unique, and with self-compassion, you can find peace in the present moment.

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Rediscovering Connection: Beyond the Screen in Military Life

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In today’s digital age, it’s easy to feel connected through our screens, yet many of us, especially military spouses, still experience a profound sense of loneliness. This paradox is particularly challenging for those in military life, who often find themselves far from family and friends. In our latest episode, we explore the importance of stepping beyond digital connections to embrace real-life interactions.

The Challenge of Digital Connectivity in Military Life

Beth Runkle shares her insights on how the convenience of digital communication can sometimes fall short of fulfilling our deeper social needs. While social media and texting keep us in touch, they can’t replace the warmth of face-to-face interactions. For military spouses, who frequently relocate and face long deployments, the need for personal connections is even more critical.

The Lost Art of Hospitality

Hospitality is more than just inviting someone into your home; it’s about inviting them into your heart. Beth discusses how the pressure for perfection often prevents us from opening our doors. She encourages military families to embrace the imperfections of their homes and focus on the connections they can build with others.

Taking the Initiative in Military Communities

Loneliness is an epidemic that affects many, regardless of age or background. Beth highlights the importance of taking the initiative to make the first move in forming friendships. Whether it’s inviting someone for coffee or organizing a small gathering, these efforts can lead to meaningful relationships that enrich our lives, especially within military communities.

As we navigate the complexities of modern life, let’s remember that true connection goes beyond the screen. By fostering genuine relationships and practicing hospitality, we can combat loneliness and build a supportive community. For those in military life, these connections are vital. Let’s take the first step towards rediscovering the power of real-life connections.

Beth Runkle is an author, speaker, and women’s ministry leader whose new devotional, Another Move, God? encourages military wives to embrace the life God’s called them to — even when that means constant change. After twenty-five years as a military wife, fourteen moves, and raising two children through four deployments, Beth learned that peace isn’t about control — it’s about trust. She and her husband now serve with Cru Military, mentoring young military couples and cadets.

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During This Season, You Are Seen

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The holiday season is often wrapped in bright lights, warm gatherings, and words like joy, peace, and merry. But for many, December doesn’t feel merry at all. Instead, it magnifies the ache of what—and who—is missing.

Maybe you’re facing the first Christmas without someone you love.
Maybe a divorce has fractured your sense of home.
Maybe a job loss has left you anxious about the future.
Maybe your health has shifted your daily reality.
Or maybe a broken relationship has left an empty chair at the table—and an even emptier space in your heart.

If you’re dreading the holidays this year, you’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not forgotten by God.

Below is gentle truth, comfort, and hope for anyone walking into the season with grief, fear, or disappointment.

When You’re Grieving a Loved One

Scripture: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18

Loss has a way of turning familiar traditions into reminders of what has changed. What once brought joy may now stir pain. Grief doesn’t follow a calendar, and it certainly doesn’t pause for December.

Hopeful Hints

  • Give yourself permission to feel. God isn’t asking you to pretend.
  • Create a moment of remembrance—light a candle, share a story, display a photo.
  • Let this be a season of gentleness, not pressure.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, sit with me in this tender space where joy and sorrow coexist. Be my comfort today.”

When You’re Divorced or Separated

Scripture: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3

Shifts in family structure can cast a spotlight on what’s been lost. Traditions change, routines break, and loneliness tries to creep in where connection used to dwell.

Hopeful Hints

  • Release the pressure to recreate the past.
  • Start small, new traditions that honor where you are now.
  • Surround yourself with voices that speak life, hope, and peace.

Prayer Thought: “God, restore my sense of belonging and rebuild the places within me that feel broken.”

When You’ve Lost a Job or Financial Stability

Scripture: “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

When finances are uncertain, the holiday season can feel overwhelming. Expectations rise, but resources don’t. Yet your value has never been tied to what you can buy, give, or provide.

Hopeful Hints

  • Simplify the season—meaning always matters more than material.
  • Seek support without shame; community is God’s design.
  • Remember that provision rests in God’s hands, not your performance.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, be my Provider. Show me Your abundance even in this season of lack.”

When Relationships Are Broken or Strained

Scripture: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” — Romans 12:18

Heartbreak isn’t limited to romantic relationships. A shattered friendship, tension with a family member, or distance with a child can make the holidays especially painful.

Hopeful Hints

  • Let go of forced togetherness; sometimes peace means stepping back.
  • Protect your heart with healthy boundaries.
  • Pray for reconciliation, but also pray for your own healing.

Prayer Thought: “God, guide me in my relationships with grace, wisdom, and peace.”

When You’re Battling Health Issues

Scripture: “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

Illness—whether physical or emotional—can make the holidays feel heavy. Low energy, constant pain, or limitations can reshape what celebration looks like.

Hopeful Hints

  • Celebrate what you can, not what you feel you must.
  • Prioritize rest over expectation.
  • Allow others to support you—this is not a burden you have to carry alone.

Prayer Thought: “Lord, strengthen me, comfort me, and give me grace for every moment.”

A Final Word of Hope

Even when the holidays feel overwhelming, Christmas itself was born into darkness. Jesus stepped into a weary, grieving, broken world—and He still steps into ours. His birth remains good news for heavy hearts.

Scripture to Hold Onto:
“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” — John 1:5

Whether this season finds you mourning, adjusting, rebuilding, hoping, or simply surviving, you are seen. You are loved. And God is with you in every breath, every tear, and every quiet moment.

May this be a gentle December, where the presence of God becomes your greatest gift and your steady place of peace.

Finding Faith in the Wilderness: Shaazia Terry’s Journey

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In a world where life’s challenges often seem insurmountable, Shaazia Terry’s story is a beacon of hope and resilience. Her journey, marked by profound loss and unwavering faith, offers a powerful testament to the transformative power of belief and perseverance.

Shaazia’s life took a dramatic turn with the loss of her mother, a period that tested her faith and strength. “I was like, God, no, I don’t understand this,” she recalls. Yet, through the darkness, she found a renewed purpose, using her voice and creativity to glorify God and inspire others.

Throughout her trials, Shaazia’s faith remained her anchor. “Even when nobody else sees you, God always sees you,” she shares, emphasizing the importance of holding onto faith even when life gives every reason to let go. Her story is a reminder that faith can carry us through the wilderness, turning our struggles into testimonies of grace and purpose.

Shaazia’s journey is not just about overcoming adversity; it’s about embracing humanity in all its imperfections. Her book, “Being Human,” explores themes of love, family secrets, and the power of forgiveness. “It’s not about being perfect,” she says. “It’s about giving God your best and trusting Him to guide you.”

Shaazia Terry’s story is a testament to the power of faith and resilience. Her journey reminds us that brokenness doesn’t disqualify us; it’s often the place where God begins His greatest work in us. As we navigate our own challenges, may we find inspiration in Shaazia’s story and hold onto the hope that faith provides.

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🦃 A Heartfelt Thank You, A Harvest of Gratitude, and Exciting New Horizons!

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Dear Thrive by The Rising Muse community,

As the calendar turns to November and the warmth of the holiday season approaches, I want to pause, take a deep breath, and extend my deepest, most heartfelt gratitude to each and every one of you. You—my dedicated listeners, wonderful guests, and engaged community members—are the true heart of this passion project.

🙏 Harvesting Our Shared Growth

Thanksgiving is a time for reflection, and as I look back on this journey, I am truly humbled. Your invaluable support, your willingness to share your stories, and your open-mindedness have been the fertilizer that has helped this community truly thrive. Watching our community grow from a seed of an idea into a vibrant ecosystem of personal growth and shared experiences has warmed my heart more than words can say.

Together, we are not just listening to a podcast; we are cultivating a beautiful journey. We’re exploring challenging topics, celebrating small victories, and committing to showing up as our best selves. Thank you for making this space one of genuine connection, inspiration, and mutual respect.

🚀 Exciting News: Tune In Wherever You Are!

We believe that cultivating personal growth should be convenient and accessible, no matter where your journey takes you. That’s why I am absolutely thrilled to announce that Thrive by The Rising Muse is now available on the incredible App Reveel platform!

This means you can now seamlessly integrate our episodes into your life, whether you’re relaxing on the couch, traveling, or just needing a boost of inspiration:

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Thank you once again for being the most supportive, inspiring part of this endeavor. I look forward to continuing to share our experiences, celebrating our growth, and connecting with you across these new platforms!

Warmest wishes for a happy and meaningful Thanksgiving season,

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The Transformative Power of Gratitude: A Thanksgiving Reflection

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As Thanksgiving approaches, we often find ourselves reflecting on the blessings of the past year. But what if gratitude went beyond the dinner table and transformed our very way of living? In this episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse, Naty and Veda explore the profound impact of gratitude when it is intertwined with grace and mercy.

We are reminded that true gratitude isn’t just about acknowledging what we have; it’s about letting that thankfulness change how we see and treat others. They discuss the importance of extending grace, even when it’s inconvenient, and how this can lead to deeper, more meaningful relationships.

The episode delves into the concept of grace—giving others what they don’t deserve—and mercy—refraining from giving them what they do deserve. Naty shares personal stories that highlight the power of these virtues in transforming lives and fostering compassion.

Listeners are encouraged to let their gratitude be visible, to let it sound like grace, and to let it move like mercy. We’re challenged to embody the love and compassion that Thanksgiving represents, not just during the holiday, but every day.

This Thanksgiving, let’s make a conscious effort to let our gratitude transform us. By embracing grace and mercy, we can create a ripple effect of kindness and compassion in our communities. Tune in to this inspiring episode and discover how you can make your gratitude truly transformative.

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