Proverbs 3:5-6 – Naty Matos

We say we trust God. We quote Proverbs 3:5–6:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”
But if we’re honest, many of us are doing more leaning on our understanding than we admit. We often try to sit in God’s chair, crafting our own plans, and then asking Him to rubber-stamp them with His blessing.

How often do our prayers sound less like surrender and more like strategy meetings?

“God, Let Me In on the Plan.”

Many of us live like we’re entitled to God’s full blueprint. We forget that faith, by definition, involves the unseen (Hebrews 11:1).
We say, “I trust You,” but then we beg for full disclosure:

“Lord, show me exactly what You’re doing, when You’re doing it, and how it will all turn out.”

But God doesn’t always offer that level of detail—not because He’s withholding, but because He’s cultivating trust. Isaiah 55:8–9 reminds us:
“‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord. ‘As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’”

Faith doesn’t require all the details. It requires trust in the One who holds them.

“God, Let Me Take the Wheel.”

Sometimes, we take action first and pray later, when the consequences catch up. We might even spiritualize it:

“I’m stepping out in faith.”
But were we really? Or were we stepping out in impatience?

Abraham and Sarah tried to “help” God by orchestrating a plan to fulfill His promise through Hagar (Genesis 16). The result? Generational strife. God’s promises don’t need human manipulation. They need patient trust.

“God, Bless My Mess.”

Even when we’ve gone our own way, God is merciful. But how often do we expect Him to bless decisions made without Him?

James 4:13–15 cautions us against presumption:
“Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city…’ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow… Instead, you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.’”

Inviting God into our plans after they’ve failed isn’t the same as surrender. It’s triage. He may still redeem, but it’s far better to build with Him from the start.

Real Trust Looks Like Surrender

Trust is not passive—it’s deeply active. It looks like praying before deciding, seeking God’s heart before our own will, and obeying even when the path is unclear.

Psalm 37:5 puts it simply:
“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act.”

Let’s stop trying to get God on board with our plans. Let’s get on board with His.

In recent years, there has been a noticeable shift as many people choose to leave their churches or distance themselves from their faith. This trend often stems from negative experiences within their religious communities or deep disappointment in religious leaders who have been found guilty of despicable acts. These situations beg a crucial question: where is your faith placed? Is it in God or in the fallible humans who lead religious congregations?

It’s essential to acknowledge that religious leaders, despite their higher calling, are still human beings. They possess the same weaknesses and capacity for wrongdoing as anyone else. The Bible reminds us in Psalm 118:8, “It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in humans.” This verse emphasizes that placing our faith solely in human beings is fraught with risks. Humans can fail, disappoint, and lead us astray, but God remains constant and unchanging.

When a religious leader falls from grace, the impact on their congregation can be profound. Feelings of betrayal and disillusionment are natural. However, it is critical to remember that these leaders are not the foundation of our faith. Jeremiah 17:5-7 states, “Thus says the Lord: ‘Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord. Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord.’” These verses highlight the dangers of placing our ultimate trust in people rather than in God.

The Bible consistently directs us to place our faith in God, not in humans. Hebrews 12:2 advises, “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.” This guidance is crucial, particularly in times of disappointment and disillusionment. When our faith is firmly rooted in God, we can withstand the storms that arise from human failure and sin.

It is beneficial for each of us to reflect on the foundation of our faith. Are we more invested in the personalities and actions of our religious leaders than in God Himself? Matthew 7:24-27 tells the parable of the wise and foolish builders, emphasizing the importance of building our spiritual foundation on the solid rock of God’s teachings rather than on the shifting sands of human behavior.

For those feeling disheartened by the actions of others within their religious community, take heart. Use this opportunity to refocus and realign your faith. Galatians 6:9 encourages us, “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” Persistence in faith, despite human failings, will ultimately lead to spiritual growth and fulfillment.

As we navigate the complexities of faith within religious communities, it is vital to continually examine our hearts and ensure that our faith remains anchored in God. Reflect on where your faith is placed and recognize when it may have been affected by misplaced trust. By keeping our eyes fixed on God, we can find strength, resilience, and true peace, even amidst human imperfections.

In the end, let us remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” This scripture is a timeless reminder to trust in God above all else and to find our security and direction in Him alone.

Until next time, stay blessed.

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