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Living in the World but Not of It: A Call to Reflect Christ

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In recent times, many Christians have been led to believe that we are called to impose our beliefs on the world by force, forgetting a fundamental truth of our faith: we are in this world, but we are not of it. This misunderstanding has led to behaviors and attitudes that run contrary to the teachings of Jesus. It’s like asking hotel management to remodel the room we’re renting temporarily. We’ve forgotten that this world is not our permanent home. As believers, our mission is not to change the world by worldly means but to point others to Christ so that their hearts can be transformed.

Jesus’ words in John 17:14-16 remind us of our place: “I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it.” Our calling is to live as ambassadors of Christ, reflecting His love, grace, and truth while remembering that hatred, division, and force are tools of the enemy, who seeks to kill, deceive, and destroy (John 10:10).

The Mission We’ve Forgotten

The Great Commission calls us to make disciples, not to coerce others into belief. Jesus commands in Matthew 28:19-20, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” This mission requires patience, humility, and love. It’s not about forcing others to conform to our standards but about lovingly pointing them to the truth found in God’s Word.

Some have even gone so far as to attempt to manufacture events to hasten Jesus’ return. This is not only an act of pride but also selfishness. In Matthew 24:36, Jesus said, “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.” It is not our place to decide when Christ will return. Our focus should remain on the mission He has given us. If we truly love others as ourselves (Matthew 22:39), we will desire their salvation as much as we desired our own. Remember, someone shared the Gospel with us when we were lost. Let us not give up on others who have yet to know the truth.

Jesus Was Not a Political Figure

Many Christians today seem to forget that Jesus did not come to establish a political kingdom. He didn’t seek to change the laws of Rome or Jerusalem. Instead, He came to reveal the kingdom of heaven and to transform hearts. When we focus on imposing our beliefs through political or social power, we lose sight of the example Christ set for us.

In John 18:36, Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jewish leaders. But now my kingdom is from another place.” This statement underscores the spiritual nature of His mission. Our task is not to make this world our home but to invite others to prepare for the kingdom of heaven.

Reflecting Christ’s Love

When we are unkind to those who are different from us, we’re not acting like Jesus. Loving the sinner while rejecting the sin is the delicate balance we’re called to maintain. Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 provide a clear picture of what Christlike love looks like: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Sadly, many unbelievers are turned away from Christ and His church not solely because of deception but because of the behavior of Christians that fails to reflect Christ. As John 13:34-35 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Love, not force, is the mark of true discipleship.

Staying Focused on Our Calling

As followers of Christ, our job is not to participate in the ways of the world but to preach the Word of God so that more people can be saved. Romans 12:2 reminds us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” We cannot transform hearts—only God can do that. But we can live in a way that reflects His love, inviting others to experience His grace and truth.

The enemy seeks to sow division and hatred, but we are called to be instruments of peace. Let us remember our true mission: to share the Gospel, love others as Christ loves us, and reflect the kingdom of heaven in all we do. In doing so, we honor God and fulfill the purpose He has set before us.

Transform Your Thoughts: Practical Steps to Healing

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In the hustle and bustle of modern life, our thoughts often dictate our emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being. Negative thinking patterns, self-doubt, and internal struggles can weigh us down. However, Scripture reminds us that we have the power to renew our minds and experience healing, not only emotionally but also spiritually. If you’re seeking to transform your thoughts and walk a path of healing, here are some practical steps to get you started, backed by the timeless truths of the Bible.

1. Recognize and Acknowledge Your Thoughts

The first step to transforming your thoughts is to recognize them. What are the thoughts that dominate your mind? Are they uplifting, or are they pulling you into a cycle of negativity and despair? It’s important to be aware of your internal dialogue so that you can change what needs changing.

In Scripture, Paul advises us to take control of our thoughts:
“We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
— 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NIV)

By actively recognizing negative thoughts and holding them up to the truth of God’s Word, you can begin the process of transformation. Awareness is the foundation of change.

2. Renew Your Mind with the Word of God

The Bible provides powerful tools for renewing your mind. The Word of God acts as a mirror, reflecting the truth of who we are and the thoughts we should entertain. Immersing yourself in Scripture allows God’s truth to reshape your mental and spiritual patterns.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
— Romans 12:2 (NIV)

The renewal process involves replacing negative, harmful thoughts with positive, Christ-centered truths. This doesn’t happen overnight, but with consistent study and meditation on God’s promises, your thought life will begin to reflect His peace and wisdom.

Practical Tip:

  • Daily Bible Reading: Set aside time each day to read Scriptures related to peace, healing, and hope. Journaling these verses and reflecting on how they apply to your life can be incredibly powerful.

3. Speak Life Over Yourself

Our thoughts are often influenced by the words we speak. Negative self-talk can become a cycle of internal damage, while speaking words of life can transform how we view ourselves and our circumstances. Scripture emphasizes the power of the tongue in shaping our reality:

“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
— Proverbs 18:21 (NIV)

It’s not enough to simply think positively; speaking God’s truth over your life reinforces that mindset. Declare God’s promises over yourself daily.

Affirmation Exercise:

  • Affirmations Based on Scripture: Write down affirmations that are rooted in God’s Word. For example, if you’re struggling with fear, remind yourself, “God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7).

4. Guard Your Mind Against Negative Influences

The Bible teaches us to guard our hearts and minds because what we allow into them will shape our thoughts and actions. In a world where negativity is constantly broadcast, it’s essential to be selective about what we consume—whether it be media, conversations, or relationships.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
— Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)

This means limiting exposure to toxic environments that fuel negative thoughts and embracing godly influences that encourage a spirit of love, joy, and peace. Consider the content you watch, listen to, and engage with.

Practical Tip:

  • Curate Your Content: Be intentional about what you read, listen to, and watch. Choose uplifting music, sermons, or podcasts that align with the transformation you are seeking in your thought life.

5. Practice Gratitude and Focus on the Good

Gratitude is a powerful antidote to negative thinking. When we intentionally focus on the blessings in our lives, our thoughts begin to shift from negativity to positivity. The Bible encourages us to dwell on what is good and praiseworthy:

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
— Philippians 4:8 (NIV)

Gratitude rewires your brain to see the good, even in challenging situations. By practicing this regularly, you can train your mind to default to positivity rather than dwelling on negativity.

Gratitude Practice:

  • Daily Gratitude List: At the end of each day, write down three things you are grateful for. This could be anything from a kind word spoken by a friend to the beauty of nature you observed. Focusing on blessings shifts your mindset from scarcity to abundance.

6. Surrender Your Worries to God

Many of our negative thoughts are rooted in anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about the future. The Bible invites us to cast our burdens on God and to trust Him with all our worries and concerns:

“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”
— 1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)

Learning to surrender control and trust God with the outcome can free your mind from the weight of constant worry. When anxiety starts to creep in, remind yourself that God is in control, and He is working everything for your good.

Practical Tip:

  • Prayer of Surrender: Begin your day with a prayer of surrender, laying your worries and fears before God. Trust Him to guide you and bring healing to every area of your life.

7. Seek Community and Support

Transformation and healing are not meant to be walked alone. The Bible highlights the importance of community in fostering growth and healing:

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”
— 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV)

Find a community of believers who will encourage you, pray with you, and keep you accountable. Healing and transformation often happen in the context of supportive, loving relationships where others can help guide you back to truth when your thoughts wander.

Action Step:

  • Join a Small Group or Bible Study: Being part of a Bible study or a small group provides the opportunity to share struggles, receive encouragement, and grow spiritually alongside others.

Conclusion

Transforming your thoughts is a journey, not an overnight fix. Through consistent effort, prayer, and reliance on God’s Word, you can experience profound healing and renewal in your mind and spirit. As you take these steps, remember that God is with you, guiding you every step of the way. His desire is for you to walk in freedom and peace, and by aligning your thoughts with His truth, you can live a life transformed.

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
— Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)

May your mind be renewed, your heart healed, and your life transformed as you walk in His truth and grace.

True Value in a World Obsessed with Numbers

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As parents, we often find ourselves learning valuable lessons from our children, unexpected teachers in the school of life. This week, I had a simple yet profound encounter with my toddler while teaching him the names of coins—penny, dime, nickel, and quarter. Little did I know, this innocent lesson would unveil deeper truths about the nature of value in our lives.

I asked my three-year-old to arrange the coins in order of perceived value. His tiny hands meticulously placed the nickel ahead of the dime because, in his eyes, bigger meant better. It was a moment of innocence, but it carried a profound message: sometimes, our perception of value is skewed by superficial attributes like size or shine.

In reflecting on this, I couldn’t help but draw parallels to a recent incident I came across online. A professional, undoubtedly talented and passionate about her craft, was denied participation in a podcast simply because she lacked a substantial social media following. Her value was reduced to mere numbers, overlooking the quality of her content and the depth of her expertise.

It’s a sobering reality check—a reminder that in a world fixated on metrics and numbers, true worth often goes unnoticed. We’ve become conditioned to equate popularity with value, overlooking the substance beneath the surface. But what if, like my toddler’s perception of coins, our judgments are misguided? What if genuine talent, authenticity, and integrity hold more weight than mere numbers on a screen?

Scripture echoes this sentiment, urging us not to conform to the world’s standards of value and success. In Romans 12:2, we’re encouraged to “not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” It’s a call to recalibrate our understanding of value, to see beyond the superficial and embrace the intrinsic worth of each individual.

Furthermore, Proverbs 11:1 reminds us that “a false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight.” God’s perspective transcends worldly measures of worth; He sees the heart, not the external façade. In His eyes, true value lies in character, integrity, and the sincere pursuit of righteousness.

As we navigate a world that often distorts the true meaning of value, let us heed the lessons from a toddler’s innocent perspective. Let us resist the temptation to measure worth by external standards and instead seek the deeper truths that define genuine value. And above all, let us find solace in the unwavering truth that in God’s eyes, we are valued not for what we possess or portray, but for who we are—beloved children, cherished and esteemed beyond measure.

So, the next time you’re tempted to equate value with popularity or status, remember the lesson of the coins and the wisdom of Scripture. True worth cannot be quantified by numbers; it is found in the richness of character, the depth of integrity, and the purity of heart. In embracing this truth, we discover a freedom that transcends the fleeting measures of the world—a freedom rooted in the unshakable assurance of our infinite worth in the eyes of our Heavenly Father.

Until next time, be blessed.

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