Tag: Spiritual Healing

SEE, EXPOSE, LOVE, FREE: The Journey to Inner Freedom

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What if the thing holding you back wasn’t the trauma itself—but what you’ve been taught to believe about yourself because of it?

In our latest Thrive by The Rising Muse episode, we sit down with coach, author, and trauma survivor Danielle Bernock, whose story and method might just shift how you see healing… and yourself.

Danielle shares the heart and soul behind her S.E.L.F. method—SEE, EXPOSE, LOVE, FREE—and how it helps people step out of inner chaos and into ownership of their lives. We talk about spiritual trauma, childhood emotional neglect, identity, self-worth, boundaries, and the power of choosing you.

This episode is honest, layered, and deeply personal—for us and probably for you, too.

🎧 Whether you’re just starting your healing journey or deep in the work, this conversation will meet you where you are. With compassion. With clarity. With hope.

Spoiler: There’s even a taco named Gary. (Yes, really.)

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Danielle Bernock—a trauma survivor, coach, speaker, and the founder of 4F Media.
Danielle has helped countless people reclaim their worth, heal deep wounds, and walk in emotional and spiritual freedom. She’s also the author of books like Emerging With Wings, Because You Matter, and Love’s Manifesto. Her coaching method is called S.E.L.F.—SEE, EXPOSE, LOVE, FREE. It’s a four-part process that helps people come out of “inner chaos” and into clarity, healing, and ownership of their lives. To schedule a Discovery session with Danielle, click here. For her website, click here.

“That lady on the internet who loves you.”

🎙️ Available now on all major platforms.

From Tragedy to Triumph: Shelly Edwards Jorgensen’s Journey of Faith and Forgiveness

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In this episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we bring you an unforgettable story of resilience, faith, and the power of forgiveness. Shelly Edwards Jorgensen, author of Beautiful Ashes, joins us to share her harrowing yet inspiring journey. Imagine enduring the unimaginable—losing your mother to a violent crime, living through abuse, and facing overwhelming medical challenges. Shelly has survived these trials and found peace and healing in the most miraculous ways.

Through her conversation with hosts Naty and Veda, Shelly opens up about her path to healing and the pivotal moments that tested her faith. What kept her going? How did she learn to forgive in the face of such betrayal and loss? And, most importantly, what lessons does she want to share with others walking through their own darkness?

This episode is a powerful testament to the human spirit’s ability to rise above even the deepest of ashes. Tune in to hear how Shelly’s faith, courage, and the support of loved ones carried her through—and how her story can inspire you to overcome whatever life may throw your way.

Shelly attended Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah where she was the first female to graduate with a degree in Manufacturing Engineering.  After graduation, she moved back to her home state of Michigan and landed her dream job as a manufacturing engineer to start off her 20+ year career for Ford Motor Company. A few years into her engineering career, she decided to go back to school to get her MBA.

Shelly has spent over 30 years serving within her church congregation and community. She has always enjoyed serving others.

Shelly enjoys wood working and has amassed a workshop of her dreams.  She also enjoys being outside in the fresh air, trail riding in her ATV and enjoying the Great Lakes boating & jet skiing.

Shelly is happily married to her husband Glenn.  She is a step-mother, grandmother, and adored aunt!

If you want to know more about Shelly’s story, you can visit my website http://www.beautifulashesmemoir.com, Facebook Instagram, Twitter (X) and YouTube

Don’t miss this gripping conversation—it might just change the way you see your own struggles. Listen now on Thrive by The Rising Muse!

The Power of Preparation and Healing – Domestic Violence & Faith (Part 2)

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In part two of our Thrive by The Rising Muse series on domestic violence, faith, and healing, we delve even deeper into the complexities of escaping abusive relationships. Joined again by trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook, we uncover essential strategies for survival, including how to create a safety plan, the importance of finding your voice, and the power of faith in healing.

How Can You Prepare for the Unexpected?

Tabitha shares crucial tips on how to create a personalized safety plan—from where to safely store vital documents to the simple items that could make a world of difference in a crisis (like clean underwear and a toothbrush). But more than that, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself emotionally and spiritually during the process of leaving an abusive relationship.

Faith as a Guide Through Darkness

As we explore the role of faith, we discuss how churches can be a source of support, but also where they sometimes fall short. Tabitha doesn’t shy away from the difficult conversations, like reconciling faith with the harsh realities of abuse and understanding God’s true intentions when it comes to divorce and protection for the vulnerable.

Why This Episode is a Must-Listen

Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or just someone looking to learn, this episode is filled with actionable insights and heartfelt wisdom. From personal stories to professional advice, Tabitha’s passion for helping those affected by domestic violence shines through, offering hope and practical steps for anyone who may be in a dangerous situation.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, and she co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.

Listen to part two of this compelling conversation on domestic violence, faith, and recovery now. Don’t forget to subscribe for more important discussions like this one, and share it with someone who might need to hear it.

If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available—you are not alone.

Transform Your Thoughts: Practical Steps to Healing

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In the hustle and bustle of modern life, our thoughts often dictate our emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being. Negative thinking patterns, self-doubt, and internal struggles can weigh us down. However, Scripture reminds us that we have the power to renew our minds and experience healing, not only emotionally but also spiritually. If you’re seeking to transform your thoughts and walk a path of healing, here are some practical steps to get you started, backed by the timeless truths of the Bible.

1. Recognize and Acknowledge Your Thoughts

The first step to transforming your thoughts is to recognize them. What are the thoughts that dominate your mind? Are they uplifting, or are they pulling you into a cycle of negativity and despair? It’s important to be aware of your internal dialogue so that you can change what needs changing.

In Scripture, Paul advises us to take control of our thoughts:
“We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
— 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NIV)

By actively recognizing negative thoughts and holding them up to the truth of God’s Word, you can begin the process of transformation. Awareness is the foundation of change.

2. Renew Your Mind with the Word of God

The Bible provides powerful tools for renewing your mind. The Word of God acts as a mirror, reflecting the truth of who we are and the thoughts we should entertain. Immersing yourself in Scripture allows God’s truth to reshape your mental and spiritual patterns.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
— Romans 12:2 (NIV)

The renewal process involves replacing negative, harmful thoughts with positive, Christ-centered truths. This doesn’t happen overnight, but with consistent study and meditation on God’s promises, your thought life will begin to reflect His peace and wisdom.

Practical Tip:

  • Daily Bible Reading: Set aside time each day to read Scriptures related to peace, healing, and hope. Journaling these verses and reflecting on how they apply to your life can be incredibly powerful.

3. Speak Life Over Yourself

Our thoughts are often influenced by the words we speak. Negative self-talk can become a cycle of internal damage, while speaking words of life can transform how we view ourselves and our circumstances. Scripture emphasizes the power of the tongue in shaping our reality:

“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
— Proverbs 18:21 (NIV)

It’s not enough to simply think positively; speaking God’s truth over your life reinforces that mindset. Declare God’s promises over yourself daily.

Affirmation Exercise:

  • Affirmations Based on Scripture: Write down affirmations that are rooted in God’s Word. For example, if you’re struggling with fear, remind yourself, “God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind” (2 Timothy 1:7).

4. Guard Your Mind Against Negative Influences

The Bible teaches us to guard our hearts and minds because what we allow into them will shape our thoughts and actions. In a world where negativity is constantly broadcast, it’s essential to be selective about what we consume—whether it be media, conversations, or relationships.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
— Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)

This means limiting exposure to toxic environments that fuel negative thoughts and embracing godly influences that encourage a spirit of love, joy, and peace. Consider the content you watch, listen to, and engage with.

Practical Tip:

  • Curate Your Content: Be intentional about what you read, listen to, and watch. Choose uplifting music, sermons, or podcasts that align with the transformation you are seeking in your thought life.

5. Practice Gratitude and Focus on the Good

Gratitude is a powerful antidote to negative thinking. When we intentionally focus on the blessings in our lives, our thoughts begin to shift from negativity to positivity. The Bible encourages us to dwell on what is good and praiseworthy:

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
— Philippians 4:8 (NIV)

Gratitude rewires your brain to see the good, even in challenging situations. By practicing this regularly, you can train your mind to default to positivity rather than dwelling on negativity.

Gratitude Practice:

  • Daily Gratitude List: At the end of each day, write down three things you are grateful for. This could be anything from a kind word spoken by a friend to the beauty of nature you observed. Focusing on blessings shifts your mindset from scarcity to abundance.

6. Surrender Your Worries to God

Many of our negative thoughts are rooted in anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about the future. The Bible invites us to cast our burdens on God and to trust Him with all our worries and concerns:

“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”
— 1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)

Learning to surrender control and trust God with the outcome can free your mind from the weight of constant worry. When anxiety starts to creep in, remind yourself that God is in control, and He is working everything for your good.

Practical Tip:

  • Prayer of Surrender: Begin your day with a prayer of surrender, laying your worries and fears before God. Trust Him to guide you and bring healing to every area of your life.

7. Seek Community and Support

Transformation and healing are not meant to be walked alone. The Bible highlights the importance of community in fostering growth and healing:

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”
— 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV)

Find a community of believers who will encourage you, pray with you, and keep you accountable. Healing and transformation often happen in the context of supportive, loving relationships where others can help guide you back to truth when your thoughts wander.

Action Step:

  • Join a Small Group or Bible Study: Being part of a Bible study or a small group provides the opportunity to share struggles, receive encouragement, and grow spiritually alongside others.

Conclusion

Transforming your thoughts is a journey, not an overnight fix. Through consistent effort, prayer, and reliance on God’s Word, you can experience profound healing and renewal in your mind and spirit. As you take these steps, remember that God is with you, guiding you every step of the way. His desire is for you to walk in freedom and peace, and by aligning your thoughts with His truth, you can live a life transformed.

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
— Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)

May your mind be renewed, your heart healed, and your life transformed as you walk in His truth and grace.

Domestic Violence, Faith & Healing (Part 1)

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Are you ready to confront one of our most difficult yet vital conversations? In the latest episode of Thrive by The Rising Muse, we sit down with renowned trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook for an unflinching look into domestic violence and its devastating impact on families, mental health, and faith.

The Darkness of Coercive Control

Too often, domestic violence is misunderstood or oversimplified. In this eye-opening episode, Tabitha walks us through the different, often invisible, forms of abuse like coercive control—where the victim’s freedom, identity, and autonomy are systematically stripped away. It’s not always about physical harm. As Tabitha explains, it’s the slow, methodical erosion of a person’s sense of self that can be just as, if not more, damaging.

Faith and the Journey to Healing

What role does faith play in both surviving and healing from domestic violence? As a survivor herself, Tabitha shares her deeply personal story of how God walked with her through the pain and ultimately called her to help others do the same. In this episode, she offers practical advice on how faith communities can provide real, life-changing support to those in abusive situations.

The Moment of Freedom

One of the most powerful moments in the conversation comes when Tabitha describes the importance of regaining autonomy. She recounts stories of survivors—some of whom felt a rush of liberation in the simplest moments, like sitting in a car, knowing they finally had control over their own lives. It’s a reminder that even in the darkest times, freedom is possible.

Why You Can’t Miss Part 2

This episode is just the beginning. We’ve only scratched the surface of this complex and important topic. In part two, we’ll dive even deeper into the spiritual and emotional aspects of domestic violence recovery, as well as provide actionable resources for those who may be suffering in silence.

Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, is a licensed therapist who helps people who have messy, funky pasts (and sometimes messy, funky presents) live amazing, empowered lives today. In addition to being a licensed counselor and supervisor, Tabitha is an EMDR Certified Therapist and Approved Consultant, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and Certified Christian Trauma Care Provider. 

She’s the Founder & CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice with offices in North Carolina and Texas, specializing in complex trauma, with a focus on domestic abuse and coercive control. Tabitha is a nationally known expert and speaker on domestic abuse & coercive control, providing training to churches, therapists, and agencies. She also helps train domestic abuse advocates through Called to Peace Ministries’ faith-based advocacy training, as well as co-facilitates the G5 Men’s Batterer Intervention Group. Tabitha is the author of the forthcoming book Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control.

Listen to part one of this transformative conversation on domestic violence, faith, and mental health now, and don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss the continuation of this powerful series.

If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. Help is available, and you are not alone.

Conquering Postpartum Depression

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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the shadows of postpartum depression? You’re not alone. Join us on a transformative journey with Amber Hoopengarner, a life coach and mental health advocate, who has faced the darkness of postpartum depression head-on and emerged stronger. Amber’s story is not just about surviving but thriving.

In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we dive deep into Amber’s experiences and insights. With four children and a series of mental health challenges, Amber knows firsthand the trials many mothers face. Her upcoming venture, Prayers, Progress, and Deliverance LLC, aims to be a beacon of hope, providing faith-based mental health support for those in need.

Amber’s book, “Three Parts of Healing All Parts Whole,” serves as a guide for those navigating the turbulent waters of postpartum depression. In this episode, she shares powerful strategies from her book, practical advice, and her own journey from pain to empowerment.

Why should you tune in? This episode isn’t just about understanding postpartum depression; it’s about finding strength, hope, and a path to healing. Whether you’re a mother, a family member, or someone supporting a loved one, Amber’s story will resonate deeply and provide the encouragement needed to move forward.

Don’t miss out on this heartfelt conversation filled with hope, resilience, and actionable steps to overcome postpartum depression. Listen now and join us in the mission to support mental health and well-being within our community.

About Amber Hoopengarner

Amber Hoopengarner is a passionate advocate for women and children who struggle with mental illness, shame, and loneliness. She dedicates her life to encouraging and praying for those in need, with a profound desire for everyone to understand the value and identity God has bestowed upon them. Amber shares her inspiring testimony of supernatural healing and true freedom through God’s grace.

As an accomplished author, prophetic intercessor, life coach, and speaker, Amber’s mission is to uplift and empower others through her words and actions. Her recent book, “Three Parts of Healing All Parts Whole,” reflects her commitment to providing faith-based support and guidance to those facing postpartum depression and other mental health challenges.

Beyond her professional endeavors, Amber treasures her role as the mother of four beautiful children, finding joy and purpose in nurturing and guiding them. Her new venture, Prayers, Progress, and Deliverance LLC, is a testament to her unwavering commitment to creating a supportive community for mental health through faith.

Amber’s journey from pain to empowerment serves as a beacon of hope for many, and her work continues to inspire and transform lives.

Ready to embark on this journey from pain to power? Catch the full episode on here, and be sure to subscribe to “Thrive by The Rising Muse” for more inspiring stories and insights.

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How I Transformed My Pain Into Power- Tanisha’s Story

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In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we are honored to have Tanisha Bankston, the remarkable author and founder of the ministry “My Pain is My Power,” share her deeply personal and transformative journey. This episode delves into the profound impact of childhood trauma and the incredible power of faith and resilience in overcoming life’s most challenging moments.

A Glimpse into Tanisha’s Journey

From an early age, Tanisha faced unimaginable pain and adversity. Her story begins at just five years old when she endured abuse and was subsequently disbelieved by those she trusted. This traumatic experience silenced her inner voice and set her on a path of fear, shame, and self-doubt that spanned nearly three decades.

In “My Pain is My Power,” Tanisha courageously recounts her journey of finding her voice again and reclaiming her life through faith. She speaks candidly about the struggles she faced, the healing power of prayer, and how she transformed her pain into a source of strength to empower others.

Tanisha also shares valuable information about her ministry, “My Pain is My Power,” and its mission to support women and children who have experienced similar traumas. She discusses the various initiatives and programs her ministry offers and how the community can better support individuals on their healing journeys.

Why You Should Listen

This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith. Tanisha’s story is not just one of survival but of thriving against all odds. Her journey from pain to power is an inspiration to anyone who has faced adversity and seeks hope and healing.

Tune In and Be Inspired

Don’t miss this compelling episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse.” Tanisha’s story will leave you inspired, uplifted, and ready to embrace the power within yourself to overcome any obstacle.

Tanisha Bankston is a mother of 3 children from Grenada, Mississippi. She is a survivor of childhood abuse and domestic violence, and now an author and speaker. Tanisha was abused at the age of 5, leading her to lose her inner voice and withdraw into a shell for 27 years. She was taken from her mother, separated from her siblings, and adopted by her aunt. Despite feeling protected, she faced further challenges within the broken judicial system. Tanisha became a teen mom at 14 and again at 17. She rediscovered her inner voice on July 3, 2020, and found healing and deliverance from her pain and past on September 4, 2020. Tanisha wrote and self-published her book “My Pain is My Power” on May 21, 2021. She created a private support group for survivors called “I Believe You” on Facebook and founded the nonprofit organization I Believe You Inc. Tanisha launched her podcast, “My Pain is My Power Podcast,” on April 1, 2022, aiming to inspire others that they can overcome their challenges with hope.

To connect with Tanisha:

Listen to the full episode on here and join us in supporting Tanisha’s mission to empower others through her ministry.

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Together, let’s turn pain into power and support one another on our journeys of healing and growth.

Interview with Shaazia Terry: A Journey of Faith and Resilience

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Welcome back to The Rising Muse, where we bring you inspiring stories of individuals who have overcome tremendous challenges to find their purpose and share their gifts with the world. Today, we have the pleasure of introducing Shaazia Terry, a young Christian author who has turned her life’s trials into a testament of faith and resilience. Join us as we delve into Shaazia’s journey, from experiencing homelessness to becoming a beacon of hope through her writing and music.

Shaazia Terry’s journey has been nothing short of remarkable. Reflecting on what led her to become homeless, Shaazia shared, “Yeah, at the time, both my mom and I were homeless. I left my job, which led to our situation.” This challenging period in her life profoundly shaped her perspective on faith and life. “It taught me to depend on God. It strengthened my faith as He came through and provided for my needs,” she said.

Raised in the church, Shaazia always believed in God, but it wasn’t until a significant personal loss that her faith deepened. “I always believed in God and was raised in the church, but I never had a personal relationship with Him. That changed after my mom died,” she recounted. This pivotal moment inspired her to rededicate her life to God.

Shaazia has been writing stories and songs since she was 14 years old. After her mother’s death and subsequent healing, she felt a new calling. “After the Lord healed me following my mom’s death, I decided to change my writing to glorify Him and help others through my God-given gifts,” she explained. The themes of hope and encouragement permeate her work, as she aims to show that “with God, all things are possible.”

Her latest book, “God’s House,” embodies these themes. Shaazia provided some insights into what readers can expect: “Readers can expect to see through this story that even when you accept God’s call, life isn’t always easy. It shows love, family secrets, and most importantly, that God is what gets you through each trial and struggle. No one is perfect, and that’s why we need God and His guidance, no matter what challenges come our way.”

The impact of losing her mother is a recurring theme in Shaazia’s life and work. “My mother’s death changed me. It made me more forgiving and loving towards people. It showed me that I wasn’t putting God first and that I needed to always do so. As hard as her death was, I wouldn’t change it. Pain led to purpose and brought me closer to God in a way I had never been before,” she shared. This profound transformation has fueled her purpose and driven her to share her testimony on platforms like YouTube and Facebook, bringing hope through her music and stories.

When asked for advice for those facing similar hardships, Shaazia emphasized the importance of seeking God. “For those experiencing homelessness, I would say seek God, spend time with Him, read your word, and keep Him first. For those losing a loved one, it does get better. God will heal you and your heart, and it can be better than when the person was alive. Trust God, invite Him in; you don’t have to be alone. He wants to be there for you and take your pain away.”

Shaazia hopes her work will inspire others to never give up, especially in times of struggle. “I hope my work shows people to never give up, no matter what it looks like. When struggles come, hold closer to God. He can’t fail, and He is unbeatable. You can put your faith in Him,” she said.

Reflecting on her journey of faith and personal growth, Shaazia expressed gratitude for surrendering her life to God. “Looking back, I am so glad that I surrendered my life to Him and embraced the work He is doing in me. If not, I wouldn’t be who I am now,” she noted. A favorite scripture that has guided her is Genesis 50:20, where Joseph says, “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive as they are today.”

In closing, Shaazia left our audience with a powerful message: “Never give up and always trust God. Give your gifts back to the One who gave them to you and make sure to always forgive.”

Conclusion

Shaazia Terry’s journey is a powerful reminder of the strength and hope that can be found in faith. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of trusting in God and using one’s gifts to uplift others. We encourage our readers to follow Shaazia on Facebook and YouTube channel to stay updated on her inspiring work.

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Navigating Life’s Transformations with Faith and Gratitude

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Change is the only constant in life, an undeniable truth that shapes our journey in unpredictable ways. Some changes bring joy and fulfillment, like new relationships, homes, or jobs, while others, such as health issues or the loss of a loved one, can be painful and challenging to accept. Regardless of the nature of change, it leaves an indelible mark on our lives, and it’s crucial to recognize that it’s okay to take the time to process and grieve the losses associated with these shifts.

In my own life, I’ve encountered numerous changes, both positive and challenging. There were times when I wished I could seamlessly transition to the next chapter without acknowledging the impact of the change. However, the truth is that when a part of our world changes, it’s not only okay but necessary to pause, reflect on the lessons learned, grieve the loss, and then embrace the next phase.

Grief is a personal journey, and the pace of life may not always allow for an extended period of mourning. Yet, even amid new activities and responsibilities, it’s essential to carve out time to acknowledge and process our feelings. It’s important to choose wisely whom we share our grief with, as not everyone may be equipped to handle it. Selecting supportive and understanding individuals to confide in can make a significant difference in the healing process.

Journaling, prayer, and meditation can be powerful tools during times of change. Turning to our faith, we find solace in knowing that Jesus is always there to listen and comfort us. The scriptures offer guidance and assurance that, even in the face of change, we are not alone.

Interestingly, grief can accompany positive changes as well. Take the example of marriage—a joyous occasion that still requires adjustments. As someone accustomed to a solitary routine, sharing space with a life partner necessitated adapting to a new way of life. Even in moments of celebration, it’s okay to acknowledge and process the adjustments that come with change.

Consider professional advancements or finding your dream home. While these changes are undoubtedly positive, it doesn’t diminish the fact that you may grieve aspects of your previous situation. It’s not ungratefulness; it’s a natural part of the adjustment process.

In my personal journey, transitioning from a job I held for 18 years presented a significant challenge. Despite past experiences of being laid off and quickly finding my way back, this time was different. Accepting that the next opportunity might not mirror the past has been a profound adjustment.

I have a friend facing an even more profound change—her son being sentenced to life in prison. While he is physically present, she mourns the loss of the relationship they once shared and the dreams she had for his future. Life changes, whether big or small, deserve acknowledgment and the space to grieve.

As I reflect on my own journey, I’ve found solace in maintaining a gratitude journal. It’s an extension of the 15-day challenge to a stronger you. If you’re interested in exploring this tool for navigating life’s changes, click on the link below. Embrace change with faith, gratitude, and the belief that every transformation is an opportunity for growth.

So, as you navigate the twists and turns of life, give yourself the grace to adjust and grieve as needed. There’s no shame in taking the time to process change, and never let anyone tell you otherwise.

Until next time, be blessed!