Stress Management – Naty Matos

The end of summer often brings a mix of emotions—excitement, nervousness, anticipation, and stress. As backpacks are packed, lunchboxes lined up, and school calendars pinned on the fridge, both kids and parents can find themselves overwhelmed by the transition. While back-to-school season marks a new chapter of growth and learning, it can also trigger anxiety, burnout, and emotional strain for the entire family.

Let’s talk honestly about the mental health challenges that come with this season and explore realistic strategies to support your family’s well-being.

The Emotional Toll on Kids

Children, especially those starting a new school, grade level, or even changing schools altogether, can experience:

Separation anxiety (especially in younger kids)
Academic pressure or performance anxiety
Social stress: fears of bullying, fitting in, or navigating friendships
Sensory overload from long days, crowded classrooms, and routine changes

These emotional strains can show up as:

Trouble sleeping or waking up
Stomachaches or headaches with no clear cause
Emotional outbursts or mood swings
Withdrawal or silence about school experiences

The Silent Stress of Parents

While trying to be the steady hand for their children, parents often carry:

Financial pressure from school supplies, clothing, or extracurriculars
Work-life balance strain—especially for working parents juggling drop-offs, pick-ups, and homework
Emotional burnout from worrying about their child’s well-being, performance, and happiness

Parents may not notice their own stress until it shows up as:

Irritability or emotional exhaustion
Sleeplessness or feeling “on edge”
Feelings of guilt or inadequacy

How to Ease the Mental Load: Strategies That Help

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or educator, here are some grounded strategies to help ease the back-to-school transition:

1. Normalize the Emotions

Let your child know that it’s okay to feel nervous, overwhelmed, or even sad about the return to school. Validate their feelings before jumping into solutions. Model the same honesty for yourself: “I’m feeling a little stressed too, and that’s okay.”

2. Create Consistent Routines

Structure helps reduce anxiety. Start transitioning to school-year routines a week or two early—especially sleep and meal times. A predictable rhythm brings security and calm for both kids and parents.

3. Schedule Mental Health Check-Ins

Make it a habit to check in emotionally with your child, even just 5–10 minutes after school, to ask open-ended questions:

“What was the best part of your day?”
“Was there anything today that felt tough?”

Do the same for yourself. Journal, pray, or talk with a trusted friend about your own emotional state.

4. Practice Calming Techniques Together

Incorporate deep breathing, morning affirmations, or quiet time into your routine. These small practices build resilience and teach emotional regulation.

5. Set Realistic Expectations

Back-to-school doesn’t have to be perfect. Focus on progress, not perfection. Celebrate small wins—like getting out the door on time, finishing a hard assignment, or trying something new.

6. Build in Joy

Plan small family traditions to look forward to—Friday night movie night, Saturday pancake breakfast, or mid-week dance breaks. These joyful moments help balance out the mental load.

7. Know When to Get Support

If stress, anxiety, or sadness lingers beyond the adjustment period, it’s okay to seek professional support. Therapy or counseling can offer tools for both children and parents to manage emotional wellness.

Remember: Transitions Take Time

The beginning of the school year is not just a logistical change—it’s an emotional one. Be gentle with your kids. Be gentle with yourself. Your mental well-being is just as important as getting to school on time.

Let’s prioritize emotional safety this school year as much as academic success. When our hearts are healthy, our minds learn best.

Let’s Thrive Together.

If this season has you feeling anxious or overwhelmed, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to carry it alone. Thrive by The Rising Muse is here to walk with you through real life, real emotions, and real growth.

Hey there, Risers! As we gear up for the most wonderful time of the year, it’s crucial to acknowledge that for many of us, the holiday season can be a mixed bag of emotions. From the stress of gift shopping to the pressure of creating the perfect feast, negative emotions can sneak in and dampen our festive spirit. Fear not, though, because I’m here to share some tried-and-true strategies to help you sleigh those emotional challenges and make this season truly merry and bright.

1. Unwrapping the Causes:

The first step in managing negative emotions is identifying their source. Whether it’s the hustle and bustle of holiday preparations, family dynamics, or personal expectations, understanding what triggers your emotions is the key to finding effective solutions. Take a moment to reflect on your feelings and pinpoint the root causes.

2. Jingle All the Way to Self-Care:

‘Tis the season of giving, but don’t forget to give yourself the gift of self-care. Amidst the holiday chaos, carve out time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Whether it’s sipping on a cup of hot cocoa, indulging in a good book, or taking a serene winter walk, self-care is the ultimate antidote to stress.

Tip: Incorporate small self-care acts in your daily routine to boost your emotional well-being and create a more harmonious holiday experience.

3. Deck the Halls with Positive Affirmations:

Positive affirmations are like ornaments for your mind, adding a sparkle of optimism to your thoughts. Combat negative emotions by creating a mantra or affirmation that resonates with you. Repeat it daily, especially when faced with challenging situations. This simple practice can help shift your mindset and cultivate a more positive holiday experience.

Tip: Infuse your affirmations with festive keywords to maximize the holiday spirit in your daily routine.

4. Sleigh Stress with Mindfulness:

Mindfulness is the secret sauce to navigating the holiday season with grace. Embrace the present moment by practicing mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or simple awareness exercises. These practices can help you stay grounded, reduce stress, and enhance your overall well-being.

5. Santa’s List: Prioritize and Delegate:

Feeling overwhelmed by a never-ending to-do list? Channel your inner Santa and create a prioritized list of tasks. Delegate responsibilities when possible and remember that it’s okay to ask for help. Breaking down tasks into manageable steps can make the holiday workload more manageable and less daunting.

Tip: You don’t have to do everything yourself. Allow others to do it their way, it will improve you relationships and allow cooperation.

The holidays are a time for joy, love, and celebration, but it’s okay to acknowledge and address negative emotions. By unwrapping the causes, practicing self-care, embracing positive affirmations, incorporating mindfulness, and prioritizing tasks, you can sleigh those emotional challenges and make this festive season truly magical.

So, here’s to a holiday season filled with warmth, laughter, and an abundance of positive vibes. Cheers to a holly, jolly, and emotionally resilient celebration!

As always be blessed!