Three Kings Day: Honoring the Journey, Not Just the Gift

January 6th marks Three Kings Day, also known as Epiphany—the moment the Magi finally reached Jesus after a long, uncertain journey guided only by a star and faith that refused to let them turn back.

We often rush past this day, packing away the nativity and moving on to the next goal, the next resolution, the next task. But Three Kings Day invites us to pause—not at the destination—but at the journey.

Faith Isn’t Always a Straight Line

The Magi didn’t have a detailed map.
They didn’t know how long the road would be.
They didn’t have confirmation at every step.

They simply kept moving.

That’s important for us to remember as we step deeper into a new year. Faith doesn’t always feel confident. Sometimes it looks like asking questions, taking detours, or trusting God even when clarity hasn’t arrived yet.

Mental wellness and spiritual growth often work the same way. Healing, purpose, and alignment rarely come overnight. They unfold as we keep showing up—tired, hopeful, uncertain, but willing.

The Gifts We Bring Matter

The Magi brought gold, frankincense, and myrrh—gifts that symbolized kingship, divinity, and sacrifice. But what often gets overlooked is that the most powerful thing they offered wasn’t what they carried in their hands.

It was their obedience.
Their humility.
Their willingness to kneel.

As we reflect today, it’s worth asking:

  • What am I bringing into this season?
  • Am I offering God my trust—or just my plans?
  • Am I willing to surrender outcomes, not just intentions?

Sometimes the most meaningful gift we can bring is honesty—about our fears, our exhaustion, our hopes, and our need for guidance.

A Season of Revelation, Not Perfection

Epiphany is about revelation—God revealing Himself to the world. And revelation often comes quietly, through reflection rather than fireworks.

As you continue into this year, remember:
You don’t have to have everything figured out.
You don’t need to rush your growth.
You don’t need to compare your journey to anyone else’s.

Like the Magi, you are allowed to move at the pace of faith.

A Gentle Reflection for Today

Take a moment today to sit with these questions:

  • What “star” am I being asked to follow right now?
  • What distractions might I need to release?
  • What would it look like to trust God with the unknown parts of my life?

Three Kings Day reminds us that the journey itself is sacred—and that when we keep walking in faith, even imperfectly, we will arrive exactly where we’re meant to be.

My 2023: A Year of Twists, Turns, and Tiny Triumphs

Hello dear readers,

As I reflect upon the past year, it is evident that 2023 was a mosaic of moments, each holding its own lesson. Come, journey with me through the highs and lows, the laughter, and tears, of this transformative year.

A New Tradition and Its Lessons

The beginning of the year saw us embracing the Three Kings celebration with gusto. Gathering around the table at a local Puerto Rican restaurant, I had hoped to share a slice of my culture with my family. But, as the night unfolded, it was not just the delicious food that caught our attention. The unexpected overcharges and the lackluster service turned into a comedic backdrop, reminding us that sometimes, it is the unexpected moments that create the most lasting memories.

For those not familiar with this holiday, its celebrated-on January 6th, and it commemorates the visit from the wisemen visiting Jesus in the manger bringing gifts (Matthew 2:1-11).

Toddlerhood: The Adventure Continues

Oh, the joys of toddlerhood! My once quiet baby has blossomed into a whirlwind of energy, imagination, and independence. Every day has been a new adventure – from discovering the joy of splashing in puddles to the simple pleasure of chasing after butterflies. As they say, “Wait till the threes!” – but for now, we are navigating the world of toddler tantrums with love and patience.

South Carolina and Toddler Tunes

March whisked us away to South Carolina for family gatherings and shared laughter. Upon return I hoped to introduce my little one to the world of music with a toddler’s music class. However, the little maestro had other plans, turning the classroom into his personal racetrack! A switch to Storytime at our local library and a delightful encounter with Farmer Betsy’s farm-themed sessions became our go-to activities. And guess what? This fall, soccer entered our lives, and trust me, my little champ can kick!

Sailing the Seas with Dr. Seuss

Summer brought with it waves of excitement as we embarked on a Bahamas cruise. Navigating the azure waters with my tiny explorer was both exhilarating and enlightening. Every sunset, every laugh echoed the joy of togetherness. Traveling with a toddler might seem daunting, but our energies synchronized perfectly. The highlight? The Dr. Seuss breakfast! Witnessing my little one’s face light up with joy was pure magic.

Life’s Unexpected Twists

August took an unexpected turn when I was laid off from my 9-5. But every cloud has a silver lining. This phase allowed me to reconnect with my first loves: God and writing. As the ink flowed, I reconnected with words, rediscovered passions, and rekindled dreams. This hiatus has been a journey of introspection and growth.

Rebirth and Reflection

My recent baptism was not just a ritual; it was a soulful rebirth; a decision long overdue. My spiritual journey has been profound, reminding me of life’s true essence.

And speaking of new beginnings, my latest book, “15 Day Challenge to a stronger YOU!” hit the shelves. The inspiration for this book was the tried and failed yearly attempt for resolutions that are never started or rarely fulfilled. The book includes nine different challenges to adjust to everyone’s needs. Not everyone’s resolution is to hit the gym or eat healthier. I think the important thing about this book is that regardless of how successful you are in the practical parts of the challenge will never compare to the spiritual connection that the process will grant you.

For my fiction aficionados, stay tuned. There is something brewing!

Looking Ahead

As 2023 draws to a close, a tapestry of memories unfurls. Amidst the uncertainties of tomorrow, I anchor myself in faith and wisdom. Here is to 2024, with its promises, challenges, and infinite possibilities.

I would love to hear your 2023 tales and hopes for 2024. Until our next chat, stay blessed, and a Happy New Year to all!