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Breaking Homeschool Myths with Tam – The Truth They Don’t Tell You (Part 2)

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When you think about homeschooling, what comes to mind? Socially awkward kids? Limited opportunities? Confusing college admissions?

In this lively, eye-opening Part 2 of our homeschooling conversation on Thrive by The Rising Muse, we’re back with Tam — a homeschooling veteran with over a decade of experience — to pull back the curtain on what it’s really like to educate your kids at home.

Picking up where we left off in Part 1, Tam dives even deeper into busting myths, sharing laugh-out-loud stories, and revealing surprising truths that will change how you see homeschooling forever.

We talk about:

  • Why “socialization” isn’t the issue you think it is.
  • How homeschoolers get into college (yes, there’s a system, and it works).
  • The flexibility that makes real-world preparation possible.
  • Creative, affordable curriculum options most parents don’t know about.
  • The courage it takes to do things differently — and why it’s worth it.

Whether you’re a seasoned homeschool parent, just curious, or someone who’s been told “your child needs to be bullied to build character” (spoiler: we have thoughts on that), this episode will make you laugh, think, and maybe even reimagine what school can look like.

🎧 Listen to Part 2 now — and if you missed it, go back to catch Part 1 for the full conversation. You’ll walk away informed, inspired, and maybe even ready to start your own homeschooling journey.

The Real Meaning of Parent Appreciation Day

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#ParentAppreciationDay isn’t just about celebrating moms and dads in the traditional sense. The truth is, parenting doesn’t always come with a biological tie or a legal document. Families come in all shapes and sizes—and so do parents. Sometimes it’s an aunt, a grandparent, a mentor, a foster parent, or even a neighbor who steps in and shows up. Day after day. Meal after meal. Homework after homework. Cry after cry.

The person who carries the heart of a parent is the one who provides love, guidance, and sacrifice when it’s needed most. That’s what we’re honoring today.

You Don’t Get It—Until You’re In It

As a parent myself, I can tell you—nothing prepares you for the role until you’re living it. No book. No advice. No amount of observation. Parenting reshapes you. It stretches your capacity to love, to give, to protect, and to forgive.

I didn’t truly appreciate my mother until I became a parent. I had my child later in life, just like she had me later in hers. Growing up, I didn’t realize the depth of her sacrifices. She worked night shifts, came home, fed her husband and daughter, and still managed to handle a toddler—me—on little to no sleep.

Now, as I chase after my own toddler after a full night’s rest, I wonder how she did it. The exhaustion is real. But so is the love.

The Protective Lens of a Parent

When I was younger, I used to think my mother was overprotective—always worrying, always guarding. Now I get it. Parenthood awakens a fierce instinct to protect. You begin to see dangers your child can’t. You think ahead. You sacrifice without thinking twice. It’s not paranoia. It’s love through the eyes of responsibility.

“As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you…”
— Isaiah 66:13

That protective spirit isn’t weakness or control. It’s the very heartbeat of parenting.

If You’re a Parent Today…

Take a moment to honor the journey. Whether you’re co-parenting, single-parenting, step-parenting, or playing a parental role in someone’s life, you are seen.

If your own parents are still around, tell them thank you. Let them know you now understand some of the weight they carried. Say the words you may not have had before.

If you’re not a parent yet and have held onto resentment or a misunderstanding, perhaps it’s time to look at your parents through a new lens. Parenting is hard. Sometimes, people do the best they can with what they have, and that doesn’t always align with what we need.

Forgiveness isn’t always about them. It’s about freeing yourself.

To every parent doing the work—seen or unseen, biological or not—we honor you today. Your love, your presence, and your sacrifices matter. You are raising the next generation with courage, and that’s worth celebrating.

“Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”
— Exodus 20:12

What If They Were Unhealthy?

Let’s be honest—some parents weren’t safe. Some were absent. Some were deeply broken themselves. And if reconnecting isn’t possible or wise, that’s okay. But if you can, choose to release bitterness. Let God take the pain and replace it with peace.

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
— Ephesians 4:32

You Are Appreciated

If no one has told you today, we at The Rising Muse appreciate you. You are not alone in this journey.

🙏 Have a blessed Parent Appreciation Day. 🙌

🎧 Want to hear more real talk and inspiration? Tune in to our podcast, The Rising Muse, where we dive into the heart of parenting, healing, and purpose. Available wherever you listen to podcasts.

Embracing Faith: Trusting Through Life’s Greatest Challenges

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In a world filled with uncertainties, the power of faith and trust can be our guiding light. Imagine facing life’s toughest challenges and emerging stronger, not by sheer will alone, but through unwavering faith. This is the story of Debbie, a woman whose journey through infertility, loss, and adoption is a testament to the strength found in trusting a higher purpose.

Debbie’s story is not just about overcoming adversity; it’s about embracing the unknown with open arms. From the heart-wrenching loss of her children to the joy of adopting nine, her path is a vivid illustration of how faith can transform despair into hope. As she shares her experiences, Debbie reveals the profound impact of trusting in something greater than oneself.

Throughout her journey, Debbie learned that asking “Why me?” was less important than asking “How do I survive?” This shift in perspective allowed her to focus on the next best step, guided by faith. Her story encourages us to let go of the need for answers and trust the process, knowing that each step forward is a step towards healing and growth.

Debbie’s resilience has not only shaped her life but has also inspired countless others. Her work with Anchor Point, a community support organization, is a living legacy of her faith-driven mission to help families in need. By watching her story, you’ll discover how faith can be a powerful catalyst for change, not just in our own lives, but in the lives of those around us.

Debbie’s journey is a powerful reminder that faith and trust are not just abstract concepts, but tangible forces that can guide us through life’s storms. Her story is a beacon of hope for anyone facing their own challenges, showing that with faith, we can overcome even the most daunting obstacles.

Debbie Simmons is a community activist, businesswoman, wife, mother to 9 adopted children, and, most importantly, a devoted follower of Christ. Her boots-on-the-ground experience, hard-earned wisdom, and faith-centered approach will help you build your business or non-profit, family or life legacy. Her inspiring testimony of living “love without regard to risk” empowers you to boldly walk through the doors God is opening for you with no worries.

Debbie is not a coach; she is a builder. She will inspire you to build the business, family, and life legacies that you have dreamed of. Debbie will teach you how to be an Impact Player for the Kingdom both now and for eternity.

Listeners can download the B.E.S.T. free guide here – https://thedebbiesimmons.com/best-strategy/

Don’t miss the full episode to witness Debbie’s incredible journey and learn how faith and trust can transform your life. Subscribe now and be inspired by her story of resilience and hope. Click on the image below to access the full episode.

What happens when your child doesn’t share your faith?

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In this latest episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse, hosts Naty and Veda dive into one of the most challenging conversations for any parent – when a child questions their faith. This episode features Heather Hart, who opens up about her journey after her daughter expressed doubts about Christianity. With raw honesty, Heather shares how this moment reshaped their family dynamic and taught her to balance unconditional love with the values she holds dear.

Heather Hart is a passionate writer, speaker, and devoted mother who shares her journey of faith and resilience in navigating the complexities of parenting. Known for her candid insights and heartfelt stories, Heather writes extensively on topics of faith, family, and personal growth. She is the author of a powerful blog post on handling a child’s faith crisis, where she draws from her own experiences to help other parents facing similar challenges. Heather’s approach is grounded in love, empathy, and a deep commitment to fostering strong, compassionate relationships within her family and community.

Heather’s story goes beyond a personal faith crisis; it’s a testament to resilience, grace, and the art of “letting go” while still holding onto love. From emotional conversations about belief to the wisdom that only comes from experience, this episode is filled with heartfelt insights for parents and families of all backgrounds. Heather reveals how she finds peace amidst uncertainty and how her faith continues to guide her through the ups and downs of parenthood. Check out Heather’s book Candid Moments.

Tune in to hear Heather’s inspiring journey and discover valuable insights on how to navigate difficult conversations about faith and identity with loved ones. This episode of Thrive by the Rising Muse is not just a conversation; it’s a guide to thriving with empathy, patience, and resilience. Don’t miss it – this could be the encouragement you need to handle your own family’s journey with grace and hope.

When Grandparents Step In- The New Role of Caregiving

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In today’s world, the dynamics of family life are shifting, and more often than not, grandparents are stepping into the role of primary caregivers for their grandchildren. This can happen for various reasons, including parental health issues, financial struggles, or unforeseen circumstances. While this shift can be challenging, it can bring unique rewards and opportunities for both generations.

Understanding the Shift

1. Reasons for the Transition: Various factors can lead to grandparents becoming caregivers. In some cases, parents may face addiction issues, mental health challenges, or other obstacles that prevent them from providing stable care. Additionally, economic factors, such as job loss or housing instability, can contribute to this situation.

2. Legal and Financial Implications: For many grandparents, taking on this role requires navigating legal systems, including custody arrangements or guardianship. Understanding the financial implications—such as increased expenses and potential benefits—can help in making informed decisions.

Challenges Faced by Grandparents

1. Emotional Strain: Transitioning into a parental role later in life can be emotionally taxing. Grandparents may experience feelings of loss or grief over the changes in their family structure, along with the stress of raising children again.

2. Generational Gaps: The differences in parenting styles and cultural shifts can pose challenges. What worked for them decades ago may not resonate with modern parenting practices, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts.

3. Health Considerations: Many grandparents are at a stage in life where they may have health concerns or mobility issues. Balancing self-care with the demands of caregiving can be a delicate tightrope.

The Positive Aspects

1. Building Stronger Bonds: This new dynamic can strengthen the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren. Time spent together can foster deeper connections and provide children with a sense of stability and love.

2. Sharing Wisdom: Grandparents often bring a wealth of life experience and knowledge. Their stories and insights can provide valuable lessons for grandchildren, enriching their understanding of family history and values.

3. Creating a Stable Environment: For many children, being raised by grandparents can provide a more stable and nurturing environment, especially in tumultuous times. This stability can be crucial for emotional and psychological development.

Tips for Grandparents Navigating Caregiving

1. Establish Boundaries: It’s important for grandparents to define their role and set boundaries with parents. Clear communication can help manage expectations and responsibilities.

2. Seek Support: Joining support groups or seeking counseling can help grandparents cope with the emotional and practical challenges they face. Connecting with others in similar situations can be a valuable source of strength.

3. Prioritize Self-Care: Grandparents must remember to take care of themselves. Regular exercise, hobbies, and social interactions are essential for maintaining physical and mental health.

4. Stay Informed: Educating themselves about child development and modern parenting techniques can help grandparents feel more equipped to handle the challenges of caregiving.

Conclusion

While the role of caregiver can be daunting for grandparents, it also offers an opportunity to make a profound impact on their grandchildren’s lives. By embracing this new chapter with resilience and love, grandparents can help nurture the next generation, creating a legacy that transcends challenges and fosters connection.

Conquering Postpartum Depression

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Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the shadows of postpartum depression? You’re not alone. Join us on a transformative journey with Amber Hoopengarner, a life coach and mental health advocate, who has faced the darkness of postpartum depression head-on and emerged stronger. Amber’s story is not just about surviving but thriving.

In our latest episode of “Thrive by The Rising Muse,” we dive deep into Amber’s experiences and insights. With four children and a series of mental health challenges, Amber knows firsthand the trials many mothers face. Her upcoming venture, Prayers, Progress, and Deliverance LLC, aims to be a beacon of hope, providing faith-based mental health support for those in need.

Amber’s book, “Three Parts of Healing All Parts Whole,” serves as a guide for those navigating the turbulent waters of postpartum depression. In this episode, she shares powerful strategies from her book, practical advice, and her own journey from pain to empowerment.

Why should you tune in? This episode isn’t just about understanding postpartum depression; it’s about finding strength, hope, and a path to healing. Whether you’re a mother, a family member, or someone supporting a loved one, Amber’s story will resonate deeply and provide the encouragement needed to move forward.

Don’t miss out on this heartfelt conversation filled with hope, resilience, and actionable steps to overcome postpartum depression. Listen now and join us in the mission to support mental health and well-being within our community.

About Amber Hoopengarner

Amber Hoopengarner is a passionate advocate for women and children who struggle with mental illness, shame, and loneliness. She dedicates her life to encouraging and praying for those in need, with a profound desire for everyone to understand the value and identity God has bestowed upon them. Amber shares her inspiring testimony of supernatural healing and true freedom through God’s grace.

As an accomplished author, prophetic intercessor, life coach, and speaker, Amber’s mission is to uplift and empower others through her words and actions. Her recent book, “Three Parts of Healing All Parts Whole,” reflects her commitment to providing faith-based support and guidance to those facing postpartum depression and other mental health challenges.

Beyond her professional endeavors, Amber treasures her role as the mother of four beautiful children, finding joy and purpose in nurturing and guiding them. Her new venture, Prayers, Progress, and Deliverance LLC, is a testament to her unwavering commitment to creating a supportive community for mental health through faith.

Amber’s journey from pain to empowerment serves as a beacon of hope for many, and her work continues to inspire and transform lives.

Ready to embark on this journey from pain to power? Catch the full episode on here, and be sure to subscribe to “Thrive by The Rising Muse” for more inspiring stories and insights.

Call to Action:
If you are in crisis, don’t forget that you can call 988. If your child is in crisis, remember that you can dial 911 or take them to the nearest emergency room. We want everyone to be safe.

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Dive into Amber’s world, hear her story, and learn how you too can turn pain into power. This episode is not just an interview; it’s a lifeline. Tune in now!

Unwavering Love: A Mother’s Commitment

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Happy Mother’s Day! Today, as we celebrate the incredible women who hold the title of “mom” in our lives, we’re reminded that motherhood extends far beyond the realm of biology. At Thrive by The Rising Muse, we’re excited to join in the Mother’s Day festivities with a special episode dedicated to the joys of motherhood, while also recognizing the diverse forms of maternal love that enrich our lives every day.

Join us on this special day for a heartwarming and candid conversation with Naty, Veda, and our special guests Cindy and Emily, as they share their experiences, insights, and wisdom on what it truly means to be a mom. From humorous anecdotes to heartfelt reflections, this episode offers a glimpse into the beauty and complexity of parenthood.

But as we celebrate Mother’s Day, let’s also take a moment to honor the many faces of motherhood beyond biology. In our lives, we encounter countless women who embody the essence of motherhood, whether they’re spiritual mothers, adopted mothers, or simply women who extend their nurturing presence to those in need. These women weave themselves into the fabric of our lives, offering guidance, support, and unconditional love that knows no bounds.

For some, motherhood takes on a spiritual dimension, as they mentor, counsel, and uplift others with the wisdom and grace of a motherly figure. These spiritual mothers provide a source of strength and inspiration, guiding us through life’s challenges with unwavering faith and compassion.

Then there are the adopted mothers, who may not have given birth biologically but open their hearts and homes to children in need, offering them love, stability, and a sense of belonging. Their selfless act of motherhood transforms lives and shapes futures, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of those they nurture.

And let’s not forget the countless women who may not have children of their own but mother in countless other ways – whether it’s through teaching, mentoring, caregiving, or simply offering a listening ear and a comforting hug. These women play a vital role in shaping the next generation, leaving an enduring legacy of love and kindness in their wake.

As we celebrate Mother’s Day, let’s honor and celebrate all the women who embody the spirit of motherhood in its many forms. Whether biological, spiritual, adopted, or simply maternal in heart, their love and nurturing touch enrich our lives in ways that words can scarcely express. Here’s to the mothers, in all their beautiful diversity, who make the world a brighter, more loving place.

Don’t miss out on this special episode. Subscribe to Thrive by The Rising Muse so you don’t miss out on our special Mother’s Day episode! And don’t forget to share the love – tag a mom who deserves to be celebrated today and every day!

🎙️ New Episode Alert: Navigating Autism with Dr. Jennifer Del Valle

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We’re thrilled to announce the release of our latest episode on Thrive Podcast, where we delve into the world of autism awareness and advocacy with Dr. Jennifer Del Valle.

In this insightful conversation, Dr. Del Valle, a clinical psychologist and mother of an autistic adult, shares her personal journey and professional expertise. From dispelling myths about autism to offering practical advice for parents and communities, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in gaining a deeper understanding of autism spectrum disorder.

Join hosts Naty and Veda as they explore key topics including early signs of autism, the importance of early intervention, and ways communities can better support individuals on the spectrum. Dr. Del Valle’s passion for advocacy and her son’s inspiring success story shine through, making this episode both informative and uplifting.

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, educator, or simply curious about autism, this episode offers valuable insights and perspectives that will leave you feeling empowered and informed.

Listen to the full episode now on your favorite podcast platform, and don’t forget to share it with your friends and family. Let’s spread awareness, understanding, and compassion for individuals with autism and their families. Together, we can create a more inclusive and supportive world for everyone.

🔗 [Listen to the episode here]

Let’s thrive together!

Stop The Culture of Death

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I sat down yesterday afternoon after a great day with my mother to watch television and think about what was I going to write about for today. While I was just browsing for ideas for my post, I decided to check out the news from this weekend. All the news stories were related to death and children.

  • In New Orleans, during a Mother’s Day Parade 18 people were shot, 2 of them were children. It’s hard for me to understand what would make someone open fire in a Mother’s Day Parade.
  • In Valley Springs, California a 12 year old was arrested for stabbing his 8 year old sister.
  • In New Jersey, a man killed a woman and kept her three children hostage in the bedroom with their mother’s dead body until Sunday morning when they were finally released and the kidnapper was killed by the police.
  • In Kansas, the body of an 18 month old, who was missing, was found. Earlier last week her mother and two other men were found dead in a farm where they lived, but the child had been missing until her body turned up over the weekend.

I think I can stop there before we all crawl inside our closets to cry. Having said that, I refuse to allow the world of terror to paralyze my purpose. I truly believe that beyond grieving, this is a blaring call to action.

Parents, be aware of the things that your children have access to. Violent games and movies may seem innocent,but even when you tell yourself that your child knows that this is fantasy, it also desensitizes them to violence.

The rest of us should stop patronizing any company that promotes violence in the media. If we don’t buy it, they will have to change their ways. There are millions of Christians. How serious are you about what will you do to defend your faith? Will you allow yourself to be lukewarm and blend in the culture of this world or will you take a stand for what you know to be righteous?

We can also take action to those around us that we notice are dealing with mental health issues. Early intervention can make a huge difference. Sadness goes away with a change of scenery. Real depression, anxiety, anger and addictions are just as real diseases as diabetes and cancer and need to be treated by professionals. Being in treatment does NOT negate your faith.

I invite you TODAY to take a step against the culture of violence. Don’t ever think that there nothing you can do. It takes each and everyone of us, as the body of Christ, to work together in this war.

Never forget what we read in Ephesians 6:12

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

Yes, we need to pray, but we also need to take action. As it says in James 2:26

For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.

Until next time, be blessed

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A Mother’s Love

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When I think about a mother, my frame of reference is obviously to think of my own mom. As many daughters, my relationship with my mother has had many stages. If there’s one thing I’m always sure is that noDSC_4396 matter what, my mother loves me and that I love her too. Some days she drives me absolutely crazy, but that is her job and she does it very well. Some days I catch myself behaving just like her, reasoning like her and saying the same things that she says.

Last year for her birthday my brother came to visit, I heard him say something that I could hear myself saying and I joked, “I think we are related”. He then replied, “Don’t forget we have the same mother” Which reminded me that our wit comes from that little 4’10 woman full of personality.

From her I’ve learned that a mother’s love is sacrificial, supportive, unconditional, protective and educational. A mother’s love is essentially the closest thing on earth to God’s love.

Now a mother is more than someone that has a biological connection with another human being. Being a mother is a more intimate connection than DNA. Therefore I know for a fact that there are more mother’s out there than those who have carried a child inside of them. So to every woman who has mothered someone  from her heart. Happy Mother’s Day!

“Don’t you see that children are God’s best gift, the fruit of the womb his generous legacy? Like a warrior’s fistful of arrows are the children of a vigorous youth. Oh, how blessed are you parents, with your quivers full of children! Your enemies don’t stand a chance against you; you’ll sweep them right off your doorstep.” (Psalm 127:3-5, MSG)

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