#ParentAppreciationDay isn’t just about celebrating moms and dads in the traditional sense. The truth is, parenting doesn’t always come with a biological tie or a legal document. Families come in all shapes and sizes—and so do parents. Sometimes it’s an aunt, a grandparent, a mentor, a foster parent, or even a neighbor who steps in and shows up. Day after day. Meal after meal. Homework after homework. Cry after cry.
The person who carries the heart of a parent is the one who provides love, guidance, and sacrifice when it’s needed most. That’s what we’re honoring today.
You Don’t Get It—Until You’re In It
As a parent myself, I can tell you—nothing prepares you for the role until you’re living it. No book. No advice. No amount of observation. Parenting reshapes you. It stretches your capacity to love, to give, to protect, and to forgive.
I didn’t truly appreciate my mother until I became a parent. I had my child later in life, just like she had me later in hers. Growing up, I didn’t realize the depth of her sacrifices. She worked night shifts, came home, fed her husband and daughter, and still managed to handle a toddler—me—on little to no sleep.
Now, as I chase after my own toddler after a full night’s rest, I wonder how she did it. The exhaustion is real. But so is the love.
The Protective Lens of a Parent
When I was younger, I used to think my mother was overprotective—always worrying, always guarding. Now I get it. Parenthood awakens a fierce instinct to protect. You begin to see dangers your child can’t. You think ahead. You sacrifice without thinking twice. It’s not paranoia. It’s love through the eyes of responsibility.
“As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you…”
— Isaiah 66:13
That protective spirit isn’t weakness or control. It’s the very heartbeat of parenting.
If You’re a Parent Today…
Take a moment to honor the journey. Whether you’re co-parenting, single-parenting, step-parenting, or playing a parental role in someone’s life, you are seen.
If your own parents are still around, tell them thank you. Let them know you now understand some of the weight they carried. Say the words you may not have had before.
If you’re not a parent yet and have held onto resentment or a misunderstanding, perhaps it’s time to look at your parents through a new lens. Parenting is hard. Sometimes, people do the best they can with what they have, and that doesn’t always align with what we need.
Forgiveness isn’t always about them. It’s about freeing yourself.
To every parent doing the work—seen or unseen, biological or not—we honor you today. Your love, your presence, and your sacrifices matter. You are raising the next generation with courage, and that’s worth celebrating.
“Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”
— Exodus 20:12
What If They Were Unhealthy?
Let’s be honest—some parents weren’t safe. Some were absent. Some were deeply broken themselves. And if reconnecting isn’t possible or wise, that’s okay. But if you can, choose to release bitterness. Let God take the pain and replace it with peace.
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
— Ephesians 4:32
You Are Appreciated
If no one has told you today, we at The Rising Muse appreciate you. You are not alone in this journey.
🙏 Have a blessed Parent Appreciation Day. 🙌
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Naty Matos 